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That Comic Relief was the biggest pile of crap

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Alwx1987GG · 22/03/2025 09:30

I have just watched 2 hours of absolute rubbish. And I need to know if I'm going mad and my expectations are too high. A previous avid watcher, never again, not even for charity.

  1. Aside from the Oasis Sketch (mildly amusing) nothing remotely funny
  2. Years old sketches seemingly on loop. I know it's the anniversary but come on..it's like we are too safe to be funny anymore so have to rely on past sketches
  3. No Lenny Henry. It just ain't the same.
  4. A depressing long Eastenders Segment half way through, full of woe and doom
  5. Pete Wicks and Vicky Pattison visiting 'random' people's houses to give Amazon parcels, and 'just happen' to knock on a BBC often used Trans activist's door. Typical BBC.
  6. Presenters' cringeworthy auto cues - forced and uncomfortable
  7. Most of the money goes in Director's pockets anyway - I'd bet hardly any goes 'on the ground'

You are being unreasonable: Stop being a miserable menopausal old git, plus it's raised loads for charity.

You are not being unreasonable: It's a pile of cringeworthy crap.

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SerendipityJane · 29/03/2025 09:36

Maybe another way of looking at it is that they will continue making it until they have solved world poverty ?

boombasticfantastic · 29/03/2025 09:32

Chiseltip · 23/03/2025 08:29

Read your post again. Most of the money is being spent on delivery an research, what is actually left in the pot for the children?

The OP is correct.

No the OP is not right. How do you think these things work? Do you think charities should just give out cash to kids?

dodobookends · 23/03/2025 13:23

handsdownthebest · 22/03/2025 23:44

I volunteer with a charity. We have four paid staff and the charity is overseen and managed by unpaid trustees. All the trustees have been in professional position so know how to run companies and fundraise. Only the MD, admin and a couple of other people are paid positions. We are audited and finances are rigorously checked.

Yes,, that's right. I was responding to someone who thought that anyone who was paid from a charity had their fingers in the till somehow, rather than being a legitimate employee.

As a freelancer, I have done the audit for a number of local charities, and been the treasurer of another, so am pretty familiar with the requirements of the Charities Commission.

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 23/03/2025 09:08

Agree, I asked for the football to be put on instead and that’s saying something !! Same old same old and Alison Hammond on everything now. Tom Allen isn’t amusing in any way in my opinion. I didn’t even realise it was Red Nose Day until I switched bbc 1 on. My dd used to like collecting the red noses but they are all on Amazon now and made of a weird material so the noses fall off.

Noperope · 23/03/2025 08:42

I never watch the TV part as I find it cringe but I really enjoyed the 5 ultra marathons challenge on Radio 1. The poor chap running was in bits by the end, although I do wonder how much of it is exaggerated for dramatic purposes.

I think it's great that celebrities use their platform for good. Angelina Jolie is a good example. As long as the person also donates to charity I don't see anything wrong with fund raising.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 23/03/2025 08:34

Maybe I'm missing the whole point entirely, but I'm not sure the car given away in the competition is the best plan.

Whilst it's obviously a magnificent, headline-grabbing vehicle, what would most people actually do with it? Where would you keep it? How would you afford to insure and maintain it?

I'm not suggesting that they should give away a shabby 14yo VW Polo, but a shiny new Merc or something on the fancy and luxurious side of normal and practical might be better received - or even 5 of them, if that would cost the same in total as the one supercar. Even if you won it and didn't want it or couldn't keep it, you'd easily be able to find a buyer.

Surely it makes more sense to raffle off something lovely that millions of people watching could realistically use, rather than a woefully impractical white elephant that only a few middle-aged wealthy people undergoing mid-life crises could and would practically use?

Serpentstooth · 23/03/2025 08:31

The tv stuff is always dire. Make a donation and watch something else.

Chiseltip · 23/03/2025 08:31

boombasticfantastic · 22/03/2025 09:43

There’s been quite a theme on MN recently, sadly.

Read the BBC statement. .

It literally says most of the money is spent on delivery of service and research.

The OP is right.

Chiseltip · 23/03/2025 08:29

weathervane1 · 22/03/2025 09:36

@Alwx1987GG if you look at the BBC children in need website, you'll find the following statement from the auditors:

For every pound donated to BBC Children in Need, a minimum of 95p goes directly towards changing the lives of children and young people experiencing a range of issues and challenges across the UK. This includes the grants we make to projects working with children and young people around the UK, the costs of making sure that these grants are properly monitored and evaluated, and the costs of undertaking research and initiatives designed to ensure we have a positive impact on young lives.

Read your post again. Most of the money is being spent on delivery an research, what is actually left in the pot for the children?

The OP is correct.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 23/03/2025 08:24

EmeraldRoulette · 23/03/2025 01:45

I heard Reece Shearsmith and Steve Pemberton were in it but I can't find that online, I love them

the Not Going Out/Paradise sketch didn't work at all.

Edited

I really wanted to like the Not Going Out/Paradise sketch as I'm a big fan of NGO and of Lee in general; but I think it tried to hard to be clever and ended up missing the mark significantly. It probably worked much better in the originator's head than in the execution.

Valeriekat · 23/03/2025 07:07

crumblingschools · 22/03/2025 13:52

The way the money is accounted for will be the same as for Children in Need

How do you know that?

Jumpingthruhoops · 23/03/2025 02:02

Alwx1987GG · 22/03/2025 09:30

I have just watched 2 hours of absolute rubbish. And I need to know if I'm going mad and my expectations are too high. A previous avid watcher, never again, not even for charity.

  1. Aside from the Oasis Sketch (mildly amusing) nothing remotely funny
  2. Years old sketches seemingly on loop. I know it's the anniversary but come on..it's like we are too safe to be funny anymore so have to rely on past sketches
  3. No Lenny Henry. It just ain't the same.
  4. A depressing long Eastenders Segment half way through, full of woe and doom
  5. Pete Wicks and Vicky Pattison visiting 'random' people's houses to give Amazon parcels, and 'just happen' to knock on a BBC often used Trans activist's door. Typical BBC.
  6. Presenters' cringeworthy auto cues - forced and uncomfortable
  7. Most of the money goes in Director's pockets anyway - I'd bet hardly any goes 'on the ground'

You are being unreasonable: Stop being a miserable menopausal old git, plus it's raised loads for charity.

You are not being unreasonable: It's a pile of cringeworthy crap.

Wholeheartedly disagree, thought this was one of the best it's been for a long time. To answer your points:

  1. I thought many of the new sketches were decent. Stars had clearly taken the time out to film something special for the event.
  2. I thought it was lovely how they showed popular - and genuinely very funny - sketches from across the 40 years. I didn't see the same one twice, so not sure what you were watching.
  3. Lenny appeared later in the evening.
  4. The EastEnders episode was a special filmed at a Comic Relief funded charity that helps young people with mental health issues. Thank your lucky stars you don't need the support of a service like it.
  5. The Pete Wicks/Vicky Pattison segment was just a bit of fun. Lighten up.
  6. As for the presenters, I thought it had been a fair bit slicker than previous years, thanks largely to Joel, Rylan and, in particular, Davina, whose message at the end clearly came from the heart following her recent brain surgery. I don't know how anyone can say that was just 'reading from the autocue'
  7. This is a potentially libelous statement, so you might want to rethink it.

So, in short, YABVVU. If you don't like it, don't watch it. But even all these years on, it's still doing its bit to make the world a better place, which is pretty crucial right now.

EmeraldRoulette · 23/03/2025 01:45

I heard Reece Shearsmith and Steve Pemberton were in it but I can't find that online, I love them

the Not Going Out/Paradise sketch didn't work at all.

backoncrack · 23/03/2025 01:35

The format needs changing. One or two presenters is plenty. The skits are the best bits more of those and of famous people raising money rather than asking for it. It does work though hiw else could do much money be raised in one night?

Gymnopedie · 23/03/2025 01:33

Red Nose Day loses a million viewers in a year, according to overnight figures
(Evening Standard via MSN)

2.6m viewers compared to 3.6m last year, though that was distorted by being LH's last one so more watched.

£34m raised compared to £38.6m in 2024.

backoncrack · 23/03/2025 01:30

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/03/2025 14:22

@BarneyRonson I agree with you with the possible exception of Bob Mortimer. But yeah if D, L or R ever left the show would collapse entirely.

Agree completely you get the odd brilliant person like Bob but it’s Lee David and Rob that make the show brilliant

handsdownthebest · 22/03/2025 23:44

dodobookends · 22/03/2025 18:08

People who work for a large charity are employees, surely? Employees are not volunteers.

I volunteer with a charity. We have four paid staff and the charity is overseen and managed by unpaid trustees. All the trustees have been in professional position so know how to run companies and fundraise. Only the MD, admin and a couple of other people are paid positions. We are audited and finances are rigorously checked.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/03/2025 20:47

@dottiedodah I'm always a bit 😮 when they ask us to donate "just" £10. There's no just about a tenner to a lot of people and it shows the tone deafness of whoever is writing the appeal pieces at the BBC.

dottiedodah · 22/03/2025 20:31

I remember a few years ago .all the SB staff dressing up .had some going by tills looking for a bit of change.now in difficult times ,we are being asked for 20 30 or 40 quid! This is a little tone deaf I think.maybe get back to fundraising of old.

susiedaisy1912 · 22/03/2025 20:21

I loath it. Always have.

OonaStubbs · 22/03/2025 20:14

If you give £20 to a person, they actually get £20.

If you give £20 to a charity, how much of that £20 actually finds it way to a poor person? Even the most ardent defender of charities would have to admit that it is quite a bit less than £20.

SchrodingersTwat2 · 22/03/2025 19:55

OonaStubbs · 22/03/2025 15:47

No, but that is my suspicion, having known been around some charity people. Hardly any of the money actually gets to the needy.

It'd be far more effective if people wanting to donate just gave their money to someone they see on the street that looks poor. At least you know then that 100% of the money is actually going to them.

LOL.

Where do you get this stuff from?

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 22/03/2025 19:43

dodobookends · 22/03/2025 18:09

@BeholdOurButterStinketh Charities don't have directors, they have trustees.

Good point, actually - I was using OP's terminology and that fact passed me by!

dodobookends · 22/03/2025 18:09

@BeholdOurButterStinketh Charities don't have directors, they have trustees.

dodobookends · 22/03/2025 18:08

OonaStubbs · 22/03/2025 14:32

I think it is all a waste of money. Hardly any of the money actually goes to the people in need. Most of it goes into the greedy pockets of the people running and working for the charity.

People who work for a large charity are employees, surely? Employees are not volunteers.