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To think that most people who say they love “travel” just like posting about it?

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TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:34

You didn’t “immerse yourself in the culture,” you took selfies at a resort.

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HottyBotty · 21/03/2025 21:11

I love travelling. I don't post about it.

I love feeling excited at the airport, like a little kid!

I love seeing new places, eating new food, meeting new people, seeing new animals and wildlife, seeing new buildings, experiencing different cultures.

I love not being here! Not having to worry about work, life, schools, emails...

I love watching the sunset while hugging my husband and drinking something tasty

I love watching my children see and experience things they never have before!

I love seeing the sky from a different place, feeling the sun or the snow or whatever on my face

I love walking along paths I've only read about

I love seeing places I've only seen on TV or in pictures.

I love the feeling of anxiety or fear or excitement that comes when the unexpected happens

I love tying to decipher new words and figure out train times, opening hours etc.. when the words are written in a whole new language I can't understand

I love seeing manga, cherry blossom, lions, temples, pyramids, churches, twisty roads, mountains, lakes of different colours, turtles, stars in the outback, roads that go on for miles with twists or turns, motels, tents, teepees, russian trains, Siberia, Korean food ...... etc.. etc... etc...

How anyone could not love travelling is beyond me! If I could travel forever, wth my DH and children and money was no object, I totally would. Why wouldn't you?!!

offmynut · 21/03/2025 21:10

I love to travel been all over the world but i dont post nothing on SM because i dont have SM.
They are my good times no need to tell the world about it.

ShanghaiDiva · 21/03/2025 21:08

Some of my friends who love to travel post all the details on Facebook. But as they’re my friends I’m interested in their photos and observations.

TheFunHare · 21/03/2025 21:06

I think this post says far more about your friends and the people you choose to associate with on social media than it does about modern day travel habits.

wizzywig · 21/03/2025 21:05

I love holiday prep, being at the airport/ train station,/ packing the car. Love an airport or service station - so many people watching opportunities! Love the journey.

varden · 21/03/2025 21:02

Posting selfies on SM is so bloody tacky dahlings. Everyone is doing it so it's not unique anymore. As pp said, every available "sight and site" is overrun with selfie sticks and loopy grins with usually a big sun cap/hat hiding the bloody thing anyway!

No pics from me, apart from sunsets and that kind of thing. I did take one fabulous picture (not with me in it) of the interior of the Mezquita in Cordoba (see how I name dropped that one lol), and to this day it gives me great pleasure to look at the amazing colours and the pillars that just seem to go on for miles in an optical illusion.

Anyway, whatever way you do it, enjoy it your way.

stillwaitingtobepaid · 21/03/2025 20:57

OP have you been on the juice this evening!!??
Back in the day ,before social media ,people sent postcards ,it really isn’t that hard to work out that people have always shared their travel experiences with friends and family 🤦‍♀️

Upsetbetty · 21/03/2025 20:56

OctopusFriend · 21/03/2025 20:37

No, I love travelling and I'm not on social media. I've never taken a selfie in my life or stayed in a "resort". I just enjoy travelling and meeting new people and seeing new things.

Same…love travel, no social media…🤷‍♀️

Cabbagefamily · 21/03/2025 20:56

No, that’s ridiculous. Everyone I know who loves to travel doesn’t post on social media at all.

simpledeer · 21/03/2025 20:55

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2025 20:38

What a ridiculously sweeping statement. Do you realise that people enjoyed travel for hundreds of years before Instagram arrived?

Quite! I don’t use FB.insta/x/tiktok/snapchat

I love travelling to learn about culture and history.

FaerieGodmother · 21/03/2025 20:53

I know what you mean. There are people who quietly enjoy travel and then people who just want to go to a destination to take a selfie and to say (as loudly as possible) they have been there.

It is a bit of a problem in some places now as people queue to take a selfie at beauty spots so they can plaster it over SM and encourage more people to go to that same beauty spot to queue up and so on and so on. SM has changed travel a lot I think and not always for the better

Titasaducksarse · 21/03/2025 20:53

Just walked through my door having had a week travelling around Tuscany...I bloody love to travel!

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 21/03/2025 20:52

What kind of new fuckwittery is this? We can't even say that we like to travel now?!

I don't take selfies and I don't ever post on social media. I do love to travel and to learn about other cultures.

BatchCookBabe · 21/03/2025 20:52

TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:49

It’s not about being ‘triggered’ - just an observation. There’s a difference between loving travel and loving how it looks to other people. But sure, if people want to treat their holidays like a content creation job, it’s their choice!

Exactly. THEIR choice. Nothing to do with you. You don't have to look at their photos. You are coming across as very jealous.

user1492538376 · 21/03/2025 20:50

Of course - its not so surprising- holidays have alwsys been a status thing - it says I have time and money - and not so much about the going but to say you have been. I love planning holidays - its almost as good as actually going. In the 50s people boasted about their new fridges - now its experiences.

TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:49

BatchCookBabe · 21/03/2025 20:44

So what if people broadcast every moment of it? It's nothing to do with you! Just unfriend them if it's so triggering for you. 🙄

It’s not about being ‘triggered’ - just an observation. There’s a difference between loving travel and loving how it looks to other people. But sure, if people want to treat their holidays like a content creation job, it’s their choice!

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DdraigGoch · 21/03/2025 20:49

I don't have Instagram and don't have Facebook so where would I be posting about it?

I've certainly never spent a holiday in a resort (well, my parents took me to Florida when I was seven, but that's all).

I would say that the time I was walking past a small holding in rural Croatia and got invited to lunch counts as "immersing myself".

Papyrophile · 21/03/2025 20:47

And my Dh's grandparents did the same.

ShanghaiDiva · 21/03/2025 20:46

NormasArse · 21/03/2025 20:46

My grandparents loved to travel. They would give slide shows of their travels on their return! 😁

Mine too!

NormasArse · 21/03/2025 20:46

TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:43

Of course, but people also used to travel without feeling the need to broadcast every moment of it. Just saying there’s a difference between loving travel and loving the attention it brings.

My grandparents loved to travel. They would give slide shows of their travels on their return! 😁

Papyrophile · 21/03/2025 20:46

I like travelling, but I only post pictures to friends, people I know in real life. Nothing to Insta or FB.

BatchCookBabe · 21/03/2025 20:44

TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:43

Of course, but people also used to travel without feeling the need to broadcast every moment of it. Just saying there’s a difference between loving travel and loving the attention it brings.

So what if people broadcast every moment of it? It's nothing to do with you! Just unfriend them if it's so triggering for you. 🙄

TicklishCoralScroller · 21/03/2025 20:43

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2025 20:38

What a ridiculously sweeping statement. Do you realise that people enjoyed travel for hundreds of years before Instagram arrived?

Of course, but people also used to travel without feeling the need to broadcast every moment of it. Just saying there’s a difference between loving travel and loving the attention it brings.

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BatchCookBabe · 21/03/2025 20:43

Rude thread. I agree you sound jealous. Get over yourself!

Tbrh · 21/03/2025 20:42

Thepeopleversuswork · 21/03/2025 20:38

What a ridiculously sweeping statement. Do you realise that people enjoyed travel for hundreds of years before Instagram arrived?

This. Jealous much OP?