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Feel this country has become rotten - benefits

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She11y · 20/03/2025 23:13

A studio apartment in my area is about £800 per month.
A minim wage job is around £1500 per month net.
After you've worked in a hard and demanding job - most minimum wage jobs are demanding - you've got £700 to pay for food, travel, bills, clothes.
You might end up with £100 left over each month. Working hard all your life with no hope of owning your own home or having any sort of financial stability.
No wonder people don't want to work. Make owninf a house affordable and over night 1/3 the people claiming benefits will stop.

My point is that a lot of people are on benefits because they're depressed at the hopelessness of their futures, and try to avoid working.

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PassingStranger · 21/03/2025 16:35

WeylandYutani · 21/03/2025 16:28

I have seen those threads too and I post on them.

Employers want the best candidate. They don't want someone who will be off sick lot, has lots of appointments, has lots of reasonable adjustments or adaptions. Or has challenging behaviour.
Yes a fair few disabled people on MN hasve said they have good and supportive bosses who pull out all the stops to make sure they can still do their job as they are valued.
I can guarantee that none of those people are on min wage entry level jobs. They are all corporate and WFH.

Agree totally.
Government cannot make firms take people on, so they will choose for themselves the candidate they want.
It's nothing to do with the govt who somebody takes on...
What does this actually mean anyway, does it mean people who don't get pip will have to sign on for uc and visit the jobcentre.
Will they be sanctioned if they don't turn up?

Kafka999 · 21/03/2025 16:31

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 16:15

Although Labours objective re their election manifesto is to
Make Work Pay

They've announced changes to benefits re disabilities as part of this
Just waiting to see what’s next now

Well, a state objective is cheap and means nothing. From what they have announced now, nothing will make work pay. They are just making changes around the edges making eligibility for benefits trickier but they are not changing anything fundamentally. They should start by removing all the cliff edges for a start - both for benefits claimants going into work and for higher earners who are hoarding hours to avoid the said cliff edges. For example, make childcare tax deductible (thus incentivising work and earnings) instead of limiting it to x number of hours and taking it away completely from higher earners. Invest heavily (potentially through incentives) into productivity improvements and retraining (Denmark is a great example on retraining). These are just tiny examples that are relatively low pain. Business rates are a joke and are killing SMEs. Etc etc etc that’s before we start talking about pension reform and NHS reform which are not on the agenda.

itsleviosa · 21/03/2025 16:30

Woollyguru · 21/03/2025 16:24

Maybe you could retrain in something that would be more accommodating of your health condition?

I'm not directing this at you in particular but there have been a few of these threads with people on various benefits saying they can't possibly work because of x,y and z, some without ever at least trying.

I've seen some very negative and defeatist attitudes and I this needs to change as we simply cannot afford to continue paying benefits at the rate we are. Especially to young people some of whom seem to say they can't work for the rest of their lives

I've heard doctors will be signing fit notes saying what people can do, rather than sick notes saying what people can't do, which I think is a very good idea.

I have suffered from severe mental health issues including being suicidal, have impaired sight and hearing, plus other issues I don't want to go into but work full time. Working has been the absolute best thing for me and my recovery.

I’m not on benefits? I work FT, 40hrs a week and I’ve worked since I was 13, all through college and university
i don’t have the energy to retrain while i am working full time, I’m already struggling working 40hrs
what helps my health condition is WFH which is what I have and dropping my hours would help but I can’t afford to do that being single

EasternStandard · 21/03/2025 16:28

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 16:05

Your original post was ‘immigration is not going anywhere’ with a 30 year stat.

The statistic I posted was to highlight the changing demographics and why governments are pro immigration.

"Net migration into the UK hit a record 906,000 in the year to June 2023, and then fell to 728,000 in the year to June 2024.
The ONS projects that it will continue to decline until 2028, but after that will remain at 340,000 per year as a long term average."

The above is the only figures I have read on forecasted immigration & I don't expect them to be less than the below. As far as I am aware the current government has not put a cap on?

Over 30 years AI and automation will change things and I wouldn’t be surprised if immigration numbers go down due to that.

So when do you expect to see the reduction? How much reduction do you expect? 50%?

That’s already a pretty big drop. Does it say what’s causing that? Visa changes?

The next gov may well run with a cap but a drop that big may help take some heat out of the issue.

As for past that long term hard to say but I did hear a good speaker from Oxford Institute on aging and director talked about people being worried about immigration and other groups concerned about AI and she pointed out the groups were too siloed.

She said the solutions may well come from a merging of those two things. I agree with that take, Sarah Harper I think was her name.

WeylandYutani · 21/03/2025 16:28

Woollyguru · 21/03/2025 16:24

Maybe you could retrain in something that would be more accommodating of your health condition?

I'm not directing this at you in particular but there have been a few of these threads with people on various benefits saying they can't possibly work because of x,y and z, some without ever at least trying.

I've seen some very negative and defeatist attitudes and I this needs to change as we simply cannot afford to continue paying benefits at the rate we are. Especially to young people some of whom seem to say they can't work for the rest of their lives

I've heard doctors will be signing fit notes saying what people can do, rather than sick notes saying what people can't do, which I think is a very good idea.

I have suffered from severe mental health issues including being suicidal, have impaired sight and hearing, plus other issues I don't want to go into but work full time. Working has been the absolute best thing for me and my recovery.

I have seen those threads too and I post on them.

Employers want the best candidate. They don't want someone who will be off sick lot, has lots of appointments, has lots of reasonable adjustments or adaptions. Or has challenging behaviour.
Yes a fair few disabled people on MN hasve said they have good and supportive bosses who pull out all the stops to make sure they can still do their job as they are valued.
I can guarantee that none of those people are on min wage entry level jobs. They are all corporate and WFH.

Woollyguru · 21/03/2025 16:24

itsleviosa · 21/03/2025 15:49

I can’t find anything I’m qualified for that will also fit with my health conditions so I’m stuck on just over min wage
I do have a degree. The ones that are paying more are longer hours (8-6) and not WFH and maybe 2k more than min wage

Maybe you could retrain in something that would be more accommodating of your health condition?

I'm not directing this at you in particular but there have been a few of these threads with people on various benefits saying they can't possibly work because of x,y and z, some without ever at least trying.

I've seen some very negative and defeatist attitudes and I this needs to change as we simply cannot afford to continue paying benefits at the rate we are. Especially to young people some of whom seem to say they can't work for the rest of their lives

I've heard doctors will be signing fit notes saying what people can do, rather than sick notes saying what people can't do, which I think is a very good idea.

I have suffered from severe mental health issues including being suicidal, have impaired sight and hearing, plus other issues I don't want to go into but work full time. Working has been the absolute best thing for me and my recovery.

Gamezup · 21/03/2025 16:21

The Minimum Wage has made things worse because it is being used as a 'maximum' wage in many cases instead, thus preventing realistic wages being paid appropriate to the person's experience and ability.

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 16:16

Yes the UK had a purple patch where there was more money than there is now but it was never going to last and a world where a government can support masses of unproductive people indefinitely is a fantasy land

Based on the above logic would you scrap the state pension?

Don't say people earned it because most will not have paid anything close to the tax needed to cover it plus it's paid forward.

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 16:15

Kafka999 · 21/03/2025 15:49

I will get slated for this but there’s absolutely no point working if you do not have significant potential to increase your earning capacity over time. It’s k to start on minimum wage or close to it if you can triple or quadruple that in 10-25 years but you’ll max out at 35-45k there’s no point - you’ll never be able to buy a house, have a “standard” family with two kids, enjoy little extras and go on holiday. You’ll be lining hand to mouth. So, yes, social contract is broken and you are better off on benefits, especially if you have children and your alternative would be a minimum wage job. I say this as a high earner whose taxes pay for guide benefits. In the current broken society, being on benefits vs minimum wage is the right choice. People respond to incentives. Unfortunately, massive reforms are needed across multiple domains that no party wants to pursue. So yes, this country is fucked.

Although Labours objective re their election manifesto is to
Make Work Pay

They've announced changes to benefits re disabilities as part of this
Just waiting to see what’s next now

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 16:14

Thatcher also sold off our infrastructure - so high travel, water, Telecon and power costs too.

There is way too much short term thinking in this country. We should never have done this.

It’s k to start on minimum wage or close to it if you can triple or quadruple that in 10-25 years but you’ll max out at 35-45k there’s no point -

Also inflation matters

40k today is the equivalent to 32k 5 yrs ago & 26k in 2010.

FoolishHips · 21/03/2025 16:13

InWalksBarberalla · 21/03/2025 01:45

And? What do you think would happen to you partner if he was one of the vast majority of people in the world right now who live in a country without a benefit system, or the vast majority of people over human history anywhere. Yes the UK had a purple patch where there was more money than there is now but it was never going to last and a world where a government can support masses of unproductive people indefinitely is a fantasy land.

He'd probably die.

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 16:05

Your original post was ‘immigration is not going anywhere’ with a 30 year stat.

The statistic I posted was to highlight the changing demographics and why governments are pro immigration.

"Net migration into the UK hit a record 906,000 in the year to June 2023, and then fell to 728,000 in the year to June 2024.
The ONS projects that it will continue to decline until 2028, but after that will remain at 340,000 per year as a long term average."

The above is the only figures I have read on forecasted immigration & I don't expect them to be less than the below. As far as I am aware the current government has not put a cap on?

Over 30 years AI and automation will change things and I wouldn’t be surprised if immigration numbers go down due to that.

So when do you expect to see the reduction? How much reduction do you expect? 50%?

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 16:05

Itsyourwifeymacrid · 21/03/2025 15:04

@ilovesootymy line of work is irrelevant but my line of work makes me pay tax every week which goes along to pay benefits for people that don't work,I get there's disabled people that's not my issue my issue is self inflected disabilities and us the public have to fund there habit,it's wrong,then us working for them to get the money they need they blow it all by dinner time so go out asking people to lend em money in the streets,my child is disabled and for him to be in the same category as a druggy and get the same benefits is wrong,he was born with this they wasn't,next question?

Some people have attempted to explain to you that addiction is a complex issue. I'm afraid I don't have the patience to offer further information to someone so ill informed.
In any case you can't pick and choose who gets supported by your tax contributions. As a childfree pensioner who is still working and paying tax, if I were that way inclined I might not want to support families with large numbers of children. I have a wider and more holistic approach to supporting society than that though.

WeylandYutani · 21/03/2025 16:00

itsleviosa · 21/03/2025 15:58

There shouldn’t also be the pressure to move on from min wage jobs because you have to earn more
People can’t moan about customer service then because all the staff will be new!

Min wage jobs can be the start for some people, and for others it is all they can do.
I loved my min wage job and could not move up from it anyway. I knew a few people in my role go up to supervisor and drop back down again as it was a tiny pay rise for a lot more stress.

itsleviosa · 21/03/2025 15:58

There shouldn’t also be the pressure to move on from min wage jobs because you have to earn more
People can’t moan about customer service then because all the staff will be new!

itsleviosa · 21/03/2025 15:49

Woollyguru · 21/03/2025 13:24

Why stay in a min wage job? Surely that's a starting point and you can work your way up the ladder and earn more? Upskill if necessary, plenty of courses online.

I can’t find anything I’m qualified for that will also fit with my health conditions so I’m stuck on just over min wage
I do have a degree. The ones that are paying more are longer hours (8-6) and not WFH and maybe 2k more than min wage

Kafka999 · 21/03/2025 15:49

I will get slated for this but there’s absolutely no point working if you do not have significant potential to increase your earning capacity over time. It’s k to start on minimum wage or close to it if you can triple or quadruple that in 10-25 years but you’ll max out at 35-45k there’s no point - you’ll never be able to buy a house, have a “standard” family with two kids, enjoy little extras and go on holiday. You’ll be lining hand to mouth. So, yes, social contract is broken and you are better off on benefits, especially if you have children and your alternative would be a minimum wage job. I say this as a high earner whose taxes pay for guide benefits. In the current broken society, being on benefits vs minimum wage is the right choice. People respond to incentives. Unfortunately, massive reforms are needed across multiple domains that no party wants to pursue. So yes, this country is fucked.

WeylandYutani · 21/03/2025 15:45

SpringIsCome · 21/03/2025 15:41

I imagine rather than a HMO you would prefer workhouses.

Every single person should be able to afford a studio flat.

I think the problem is high rents caused by Thatcher selling off social housing and our rights to North Sea oil profits.

Thatcher also sold off our infrastructure - so high travel, water, Telecon and power costs too.

Imagine if our country wasn't spending £209 billion per year on civil service pensions (state pensions costs £168 billion). This scam was set up by Thatcher too.

Wonder why Finland is the happiest country?

I know a man in his early 70s who lives in an HMO. He spends all day in the pub as he hates being at home.
HMOs are grim. They might work for people in the short term, but they should never be someones forever home.
A NMW job should be enough for someone to have a home that they don't share and say the space is their own.
The people saying that NMW are just a stop gap are privileged. Some people will never achieve more than NMW.

EasternStandard · 21/03/2025 15:45

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 15:18

@EasternStandard No I cannot give you the numbers of immigrants we will have over the next decade or so. I don't foresee much reduction in the current projection. What do you think numbers will look like?

Your original post was ‘immigration is not going anywhere’ with a 30 year stat.

Over 30 years AI and automation will change things and I wouldn’t be surprised if immigration numbers go down due to that.

SpringIsCome · 21/03/2025 15:41

RatedDoingMagic · 21/03/2025 09:01

I don't think a single person on a minimum wage job necessarily should be having enough for solo occupancy of a studio flat plus comfortable lifestyle. Minimum wage should be enough to pay for a single room in an HMO, where sharing the burden of bills and utilities is much cheaper than for a single-occupancy home, and in some cases there's also potential to save on the food budget too as it's much cheaper for 6 people in an HMO to each take turns to cook for 6 on one day per week than it is for 6 people to cook 6 individual meals each night.

National Insurance contributions from all employers are then rightly used to top up the minimum wage to something enough for a flat rather than HMO if the minimum wage earner is responsible for a child

The scandal is that so many non-minimum-wage jobs are barely a few pence above. It should be easier to get a better lifestyle with increased hard work and responsibility.

I imagine rather than a HMO you would prefer workhouses.

Every single person should be able to afford a studio flat.

I think the problem is high rents caused by Thatcher selling off social housing and our rights to North Sea oil profits.

Thatcher also sold off our infrastructure - so high travel, water, Telecon and power costs too.

Imagine if our country wasn't spending £209 billion per year on civil service pensions (state pensions costs £168 billion). This scam was set up by Thatcher too.

Wonder why Finland is the happiest country?

Lyannaa · 21/03/2025 15:40

BoredZelda · 21/03/2025 15:29

This is not true. Economic studies have shown for decades that immigrants on the whole are a benefit to the economy.

Agree. Even the Ukrainian refugees that I knew secured jobs as soon as they got here.

BoredZelda · 21/03/2025 15:29

User32459 · 21/03/2025 14:20

A lot of immigrants don't work anyway. Huge amount rely on benefits and many that do work have cash only businesses or work cash in hand so don't pay tax anyway. It's a massive swindle.

AI will only get bigger.

This is not true. Economic studies have shown for decades that immigrants on the whole are a benefit to the economy.

Lyannaa · 21/03/2025 15:21

Accepting not excepting, clearly. I must be tired 🙃

Lyannaa · 21/03/2025 15:20

thankyounextplease · 21/03/2025 15:16

it's never going to benefit, there are no benefits that will miraculously appear after 50 years.

I totally agree!

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 15:19

Secretmeetings · 21/03/2025 15:00

Depressing thread. Please can anyone recommend places to relocate to?

A good book instead