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Feel this country has become rotten - benefits

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She11y · 20/03/2025 23:13

A studio apartment in my area is about £800 per month.
A minim wage job is around £1500 per month net.
After you've worked in a hard and demanding job - most minimum wage jobs are demanding - you've got £700 to pay for food, travel, bills, clothes.
You might end up with £100 left over each month. Working hard all your life with no hope of owning your own home or having any sort of financial stability.
No wonder people don't want to work. Make owninf a house affordable and over night 1/3 the people claiming benefits will stop.

My point is that a lot of people are on benefits because they're depressed at the hopelessness of their futures, and try to avoid working.

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FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 13:06

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 12:58

Both housing cost inflation and wage suppression are directly linked to mass immigration.

We really need to get it back to around 100,000 people per year to allow the house builders to keep up with demand.

Our population increases have also being caused by people living longer though. We never recovered from the 08 crash & economic policy inflated assets. We have an ageing population, immigration is going nowhere.

Actually births and deaths are basically equal at the moment see ons stats for England and Wales ( Scotland and NI do their own )

Its emigration and immigration that has a significant effect on population changes here in the UK

Feel this country has become rotten - benefits
Feel this country has become rotten - benefits
frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 13:04

House prices halving overnight would not only crash the economy but put tens or hundreds of thousands on the street.

Halving overnight is wrong but they really need so stagnant for a long time.

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 13:02

We have property taxes - stamp duty when bought, council tax based on size of property, and inheritance and capital gains tax when sold

Council tax needs to be revamped.

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 12:58

Both housing cost inflation and wage suppression are directly linked to mass immigration.

We really need to get it back to around 100,000 people per year to allow the house builders to keep up with demand.

Our population increases have also being caused by people living longer though. We never recovered from the 08 crash & economic policy inflated assets. We have an ageing population, immigration is going nowhere.

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 12:36

TheNoonBell · 21/03/2025 11:42

Both housing cost inflation and wage suppression are directly linked to mass immigration.

We really need to get it back to around 100,000 people per year to allow the house builders to keep up with demand.

We could build more flats also.
Cheaper to build.
Uses less land which is better environmentally and keeps farmland to feed people

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 12:33

Bushmillsbabe · 21/03/2025 11:59

We have property taxes - stamp duty when bought, council tax based on size of property, and inheritance and capital gains tax when sold

Agree
Its also worth noting in the past when houses reduced in value people found themselves in negative equity and lost their homes
House prices halving overnight would not only crash the economy but put tens or hundreds of thousands on the street.

BTGoHome · 21/03/2025 12:27

It is generally cheaper to live in shared accommodation

A studio will always be more expensive

FreedomandPeace · 21/03/2025 12:26

UncharteredWaters · 21/03/2025 08:48

If that’s minimum wage going forward then no healthy adult should be on benefits exceeding that in my opinion. It shouldn’t pay to sit on benefits.

Absolutely agree!
plus the overal benefits as calculated should include housing, reduction in ctax, free prescriptions etc whatever comes free or reduced. It should never be more to be on benefits and should be significantly less
If that’s what Labour want
to
Make Work Pay
^^

UpsideDownChairs · 21/03/2025 12:04

The fact of the matter is minimum wage means minimum lifestyle - things scale from there.

Most of us started out on minimum wage - I worked through Uni at minimum wage (picked a supermarket, so I got discount on my food/clothing and worked awkward shifts which at the time carried a premium). Then as time passed and I got my degree I got better jobs, and got a better lifestyle.

My brother didn't get the degree, and stayed on minimum wage jobs, so has flat-shared his whole life.

My sister is married, so works a minimum wage job, which allows her to look after her children while her husband has a full time job so they could afford a home (on the edge of town, in need of doing up, which they do themselves)

You cut your cloth to match your income.

Someone purely on benefits has nothing they can do to improve that income and lifestyle. Someone in any job does.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 21/03/2025 12:04

Itsyourwifeymacrid · 21/03/2025 10:50

@ilovesootyyh your right i don't,all I know is it's self inflicted where as a disability is not self inflicted,am I wrong? I'm guessing you know alot about it to get so defensive about,why should anyone with an addiction to drugs or alcohol be given extra money? so they have extra drugs and alcohol that's all they see it as

Some people argue that anorexia is self inflicted and a choice.

Addiction can be a result of self medication of mental health problems, so yes, it can be caused by a disability. Mental health services are shit - too much demand, too little resource, add in the need for a multi agency approach and things can fall apart, though things should, hopefully, be better than they were when addiction services wouldn't help you if you had untreated mental health issues and mental health services wouldn't help you if you had addiction issues...

Addiction is complicated.

Bushmillsbabe · 21/03/2025 11:59

GasPanic · 21/03/2025 10:00

If house prices halved overnight that would be a great thing for the country.

Having to spend more and more money on piles of bricks is ridiculous and benefits no one but property speculators.

I would like to see the government phase in property taxes, like just about every other country in the world has.

We have property taxes - stamp duty when bought, council tax based on size of property, and inheritance and capital gains tax when sold

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:47

TheSassyTraybake · 21/03/2025 11:44

They do indeed but again it’s so hard to solve. Junk food is addictive, the companies that manufacture it are very aware of this but market it heavily. Walk down any high street and you are bombarded with every variety of unhealthy food you want. It’s much harder (and much less desirable) to find healthy options. And obviously price plays into that too.

As I said in my earlier post though this is so hard to change - no government wants to be labelled as making food more expensive which is precisely what they would be accused of if they tried to take on the big food manufacturers.

So while I sympathise that it’s easy to become overweight/obese and even normalised in our society I think solving the problem needs to be attempted on an individual level - everyone is responsible for their own food choices and the consequences of them.

Screaming “some people have medical conditions!” (as always happens when obesity is debated) I don’t think is helpful.

I acknowledge that it's a complex issue. I don't think I was screaming though. 😉

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:44

JoyousOpalTurtle · 21/03/2025 11:40

Let's not lie to ourselves and each other here, there is literally no other way to pack on so much excess weight you're morbidly obese other than overeating. Overeating means eating more calories than your body burns off. People who are morbidly obese don't need to disclose to anyone they got there by overeating, everyone already knows by looking at them.

It could well be a vicious circle though. If illness has a profound effect on mobility it's going to be difficult to burn off calories too.

TheSassyTraybake · 21/03/2025 11:44

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:38

I do take your point here. However there are medical conditions that make obesity more likely and poverty and poor diets tend to go hand in hand too.

They do indeed but again it’s so hard to solve. Junk food is addictive, the companies that manufacture it are very aware of this but market it heavily. Walk down any high street and you are bombarded with every variety of unhealthy food you want. It’s much harder (and much less desirable) to find healthy options. And obviously price plays into that too.

As I said in my earlier post though this is so hard to change - no government wants to be labelled as making food more expensive which is precisely what they would be accused of if they tried to take on the big food manufacturers.

So while I sympathise that it’s easy to become overweight/obese and even normalised in our society I think solving the problem needs to be attempted on an individual level - everyone is responsible for their own food choices and the consequences of them.

Screaming “some people have medical conditions!” (as always happens when obesity is debated) I don’t think is helpful.

ByMerryKoala · 21/03/2025 11:44

Would you rather have more people in employment or higher wages for those with employment on minimum wage?

Because that dial is about to swing from one to the other and think it will further fuel the welfare bill.

Bushmillsbabe · 21/03/2025 11:43

flapjackfairy · 21/03/2025 11:32

Well he would be a beggar on the streets most likely and may well end up dead at a young age. Is that what we should accept then ?

Absolutely not. A read a quote somewhere along lines of 'the civility of a country should be judged by how it treats its most vunerable' - we should support those who cannot support themselves.

But the issue is establishing the boundary between can't and won't. Those that won't work give those who physically can't work a bad name.

TheNoonBell · 21/03/2025 11:42

frillygillymilly · 21/03/2025 11:01

House prices are crazy and the social contract has gone for the youth. You are not wrong in that respect.

Agree also wage stagnation

Both housing cost inflation and wage suppression are directly linked to mass immigration.

We really need to get it back to around 100,000 people per year to allow the house builders to keep up with demand.

cardibach · 21/03/2025 11:42

Silvertulips · 20/03/2025 23:38

Sadly, wages no longer cover the cost of living and a lot of people are grateful for additional benefits, but all this does is stop employers paying a decent wage.

Benefits shouldn’t exist for working adults, because they should be paid a fair wage - I think minimum wage has a lot to answer for, some one just starting out should not be on the same wage and someone with 20 years experience.

But minimum wage should cover all expenses, as you say. So it’s not minimum wage that has a lot to answer for - it’s still not high enough - it’s employers not paying more to experienced workers. Everything is way too much balanced to businesses making massive profits (and yes, I know this isn’t always true of small businesses).

JoyousOpalTurtle · 21/03/2025 11:40

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:08

Do you actually know that this person is morbidly obese due to overeating?

Let's not lie to ourselves and each other here, there is literally no other way to pack on so much excess weight you're morbidly obese other than overeating. Overeating means eating more calories than your body burns off. People who are morbidly obese don't need to disclose to anyone they got there by overeating, everyone already knows by looking at them.

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:38

TheSassyTraybake · 21/03/2025 11:19

I sympathise with lots of what you’re saying but if you’re about to go down the some people take medication etc excuses for obesity then let’s get real.

I’m sure there are other reasons for a small number of people but for the vast majority of people poor diet and overeating are the reasons they are obese. I don’t think we can solve a problem without at least being honest about the cause of it.

I do take your point here. However there are medical conditions that make obesity more likely and poverty and poor diets tend to go hand in hand too.

Bushmillsbabe · 21/03/2025 11:35

Itsyourwifeymacrid · 21/03/2025 10:50

@ilovesootyyh your right i don't,all I know is it's self inflicted where as a disability is not self inflicted,am I wrong? I'm guessing you know alot about it to get so defensive about,why should anyone with an addiction to drugs or alcohol be given extra money? so they have extra drugs and alcohol that's all they see it as

It's more complex than that. Some disabilities could be seen as self inflicted - someone eats and drinks too much, gets heart disease and has a stroke, someone does an extreme sport and fractures spine and ends up paralysed, smokes and gets COPD. Some addictions - such as heroin, can link to inappropriate pain relief prescriptions by drs following an injury - think the oxycodone crisis in US. A soldier gets PTSD following being in a war zone defending our country, can't get mental health support they need, so self medicates with drugs out if desperation.

It's not always so clear cut as 'unlucky' and 'self inflicted', there can be many complex factors at play. People need to be supported, whether that's with addictions or disabilities, to make positive change. If they refuse help after many attempts, that then becomes challenging, but help rather than punishment should always be first option.

flapjackfairy · 21/03/2025 11:32

InWalksBarberalla · 21/03/2025 01:45

And? What do you think would happen to you partner if he was one of the vast majority of people in the world right now who live in a country without a benefit system, or the vast majority of people over human history anywhere. Yes the UK had a purple patch where there was more money than there is now but it was never going to last and a world where a government can support masses of unproductive people indefinitely is a fantasy land.

Well he would be a beggar on the streets most likely and may well end up dead at a young age. Is that what we should accept then ?

Locutus2000 · 21/03/2025 11:28

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 10:55

I think you're so ill informed it's not worth my while engaging in debate with you.

All they want is a reaction, denying that is the most satisfying approach.

Pigsears · 21/03/2025 11:20

On NMW, take home pay is £1721 based on 37.5 hours of work per week.

So actually £221 per month more than you state.

TheSassyTraybake · 21/03/2025 11:19

ilovesooty · 21/03/2025 11:08

Do you actually know that this person is morbidly obese due to overeating?

I sympathise with lots of what you’re saying but if you’re about to go down the some people take medication etc excuses for obesity then let’s get real.

I’m sure there are other reasons for a small number of people but for the vast majority of people poor diet and overeating are the reasons they are obese. I don’t think we can solve a problem without at least being honest about the cause of it.