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godawful Gillette ad of man shaving his pubes

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ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 21:51

Sorry for the unpleasant topic but it’s driving me mad! Is this happening to anyone else? Every time I try to watch any video on YouTube, the ad that comes up is a Gillette ad of a man in the shower with a deep voice intoning ‘going to groom down there are we?’ There then follows a close-up of the man shaving hair off his body, not actually his pubes but as close as they can decently show. It is absolutely emetic and this has been going on for months. YouTube won’t show me any other ad. Apart from anything else I’m female so male shaving products are not relevant to me!!!! But also it’s so gross!!!! Not sexy or trying to be. It actually makes me feel sick. How do I make it stop?!!!!! I’m guessing I must have selected at some point that I didn’t want ‘targeted’ ads (I.e. ones they think are relevant to women in their early forties, of anti-aging cream etc) and this is how YouTube is punishing me. It’s relentless!

YABU - never seen or heard of this ad, you must have hallucinated it. Accept the targeted ads and come over to the world of Dove face cream

YANBU - it’s following me around too and yes, it’s unforgivably awful

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GreenwichPips · 21/03/2025 00:06

Mama2many73 · 21/03/2025 00:00

The 'gush' ones aswell!!

Those are so awful. I don’t know why they have to be so vivid in their language. I can well imagine poor schoolgirls being mocked by immature boys because of that advert.

Also Scarlett Moffat and “get it up there, girls!”

missymousey · 21/03/2025 00:05

Just clear your cookies!

TempestTost · 21/03/2025 00:05

Mama2many73 · 21/03/2025 00:00

The 'gush' ones aswell!!

I'm dreading the day when this trend is extended to adult diapers.

TempestTost · 21/03/2025 00:02

I've seen that ad, OP, it kind of gives me the ick too - and my partner does trim pretty heavily - but there is something really off-putting about that ad.

I suspect that particular ad might be targeted at women, fwiw. There was a time when Youtube thought I was a man, and kept giving me ads for that ball deodorant , beard products, cars, and stuff to make your baldness go away, and weird ads for belts. I only saw the pube shaver guy after they realized I was not in fact a man.

Mama2many73 · 21/03/2025 00:00

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 20/03/2025 22:19

Similar to woman on the loo with period on pad.

The 'gush' ones aswell!!

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 21/03/2025 00:00

MidnightMillie · 20/03/2025 23:45

And no grown woman resembles a pre pubescent child just because she's removed her pubic hair.

Just as she wouldn't resemble a newborn baby if she removed the hair on her head.

We'll agree to disagree

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 20/03/2025 23:59

Loads of adverts are like that, though.

Ads about period products and vaginal dryness have no relevance to men. Ads about ED and (face) shaving have no relevance to women. Ads for baby and child-related goods have no relevance to people who are not parents. Ads for weight-loss jabs have no relevance to very thin people. Ads for over-50s plans have no relevance to younger people.

Personally, I'd much rather have general adverts and realise that I just ignore virtually all of them any that aren't relevant to me, rather than have creepy cookies seeking to track me everywhere I go online to serve me with 'more relevant' ads.

I don't like the Booking.com adverts either, fwiw. The 'hilarious' way they have Paddy McGuinness swearing-not-swearing is tedious in the extreme and - by design - can throw you off-balance for a moment.

Even the BBC isn't immune from adverts, although they are more 'cute' about it. Every time they discuss or review a new song, book, film or product, that's obviously what it is. Plenty of people go on to Dragons' Den without any desire or expectation of striking a deal, but rather primarily for the massive surge of traffic that will inevitably come to their websites as a direct result.

AlmostAJillSandwich · 20/03/2025 23:57

For those that havent seen it, you get a zoomed in full screen shot of his lower abdomen, bellybutton and multiple inches of flesh underneath it, cutting off not much above where you'd actually start seeing penis where it attaches to his body, there's full happy trail and top of his pubes. Its far more than i want to see of any mans body that is not my partners.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/03/2025 23:55

I've not seen it @ThatNimblePeer. Sounds gross though.🤮

Do you have a link? Asking because I forget what a naked man looks like for a friend doing research on this kind of thing?🤓

AlmostAJillSandwich · 20/03/2025 23:51

Not youtube (all hail AD block!) but it followed me round on twitch for months. Every ad break on every channel i wasn't a paid subscriber to, boom, it was pube man. Its that FACE he pulls when he puts his hand on the shower glass preparing to shave like he's grimmacing in pain that haunted me. Agreed he's not attractive and the ad is shot in a way they're very much sexualising his body and situation with the "seductive" narrator tone too. I'm not a fan at all of content like that and i never found a way to express dislike of that ad to be shown something else.

MidnightMillie · 20/03/2025 23:45

And no grown woman resembles a pre pubescent child just because she's removed her pubic hair.

Just as she wouldn't resemble a newborn baby if she removed the hair on her head.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 20/03/2025 23:45

ItGhoul · 20/03/2025 23:00

It would barely register with me, let alone make me feel sick

Ooo😎

MidnightMillie · 20/03/2025 23:43

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 20/03/2025 23:34

I've not seen it.

But, I don't find a man shaving pubes off remotely attractive. I don't want a bald as a coot penis. I find it a bit nauseating. I like hair on a man.

Equally it pisses me off that women feel pressured to shave it all off. A trim should be good enough. Pre pubescent look isn't cool

But, I don't find a man shaving pubes off remotely attractive. I don't want a bald as a coot penis. I find it a bit nauseating. I like hair on a man.

This is pretty irrelevant though.

No-one should take any notice of other people's opinions on their own personal body hair.

Hoardasurass · 20/03/2025 23:41

@ThatNimblePeer have you tried clicking the 3 dots on the add you should get a drop down menu which will have don't show this add again and most importantly why am I seeing this add

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 20/03/2025 23:34

I've not seen it.

But, I don't find a man shaving pubes off remotely attractive. I don't want a bald as a coot penis. I find it a bit nauseating. I like hair on a man.

Equally it pisses me off that women feel pressured to shave it all off. A trim should be good enough. Pre pubescent look isn't cool

Grammarnut · 20/03/2025 23:28

ItGhoul · 20/03/2025 21:54

It makes you feel sick? What’s sickening about it?!

Well, it's unhealthy. You shouldn't shave your pubes, it can cause lots of skin irritation, spots etc.
Also, when women do it they look pre-pubescent (think this might be the point?) which is deeply creepy as well as pornified.
Tacky advert. I skip them now Youtube has thrown a fit about ad-blockers. I don't watch films there, though.

MidnightMillie · 20/03/2025 23:11

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 21:56

I don’t want to watch an unsexy stranger shaving his pubes. I don’t actually think anyone does?

It's just body hair and you said you can't see his pubes anyway 🤷‍♂️

Plus, I'm not sure you'd want to see it even if you did deem him 'sexy' enough for you.

ItGhoul · 20/03/2025 23:00

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 21:56

I don’t want to watch an unsexy stranger shaving his pubes. I don’t actually think anyone does?

It would barely register with me, let alone make me feel sick

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 20/03/2025 22:44

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 22:23

I’ve never seen an ad with that. Just those stupid ones where they used to pour blue liquid on the pads to show you how absorbent they were. In my experience period product ads are incredibly careful not to be remotely graphic.

Can't remember the brand, but she's sitting on the loo, knickers down with red "blood" on her pad.

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 22:41

Itsyourwifeymacrid · 20/03/2025 22:23

yh iv seen it and it's bit awkward,so is the tampon ad tho with scarlet moffit when she's saying about pushing it right up the fanny,I'm like er my kids are watching this it's 11am,world's gone crazy

Oh yeah to be fair I’ve seen that one, it is sort of the female equivalent.

I’m not logged into YouTube. Will have to try duckduckgo, thanks for the suggestion @candycane222! I honestly don’t know what I searched for that produced this??????! I mostly just use YouTube for pop songs I want to listen to. I can’t even remember searching for a song that would particularly trigger the ‘ads targeted at males’ algorithm! Let alone this, again and again and again for months!!!!!!

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candycane222 · 20/03/2025 22:26

Aaah how horrible for you. Yes I would find that disagreeable to see once, because as a pp I'd think "why" (and then start wondering about the stubble 😭). To see all the time would definitely do my head in.
Are you logged in to youtube? what happens if you log out?
Also if you are watching n a browser, try duckduckgo (that i use for mumsnet) as it blocks a lot of tracking.

carrotsandtomatoes · 20/03/2025 22:26

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 21:56

I don’t want to watch an unsexy stranger shaving his pubes. I don’t actually think anyone does?

But you’ve said you don’t see his pubes
you seem very repulsed by the mere thought of pubes

sorechalfonts · 20/03/2025 22:24

Fagli · 20/03/2025 22:21

What have you been googling for that advert to come up on YouTube?!! I thought the adverts were based on your searches?

Edited

Probably just innocently watching a crochet tutorial, there is no control over the ads on YouTube unfortunately

Itsyourwifeymacrid · 20/03/2025 22:23

yh iv seen it and it's bit awkward,so is the tampon ad tho with scarlet moffit when she's saying about pushing it right up the fanny,I'm like er my kids are watching this it's 11am,world's gone crazy

ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 22:23

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 20/03/2025 22:19

Similar to woman on the loo with period on pad.

I’ve never seen an ad with that. Just those stupid ones where they used to pour blue liquid on the pads to show you how absorbent they were. In my experience period product ads are incredibly careful not to be remotely graphic.

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