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godawful Gillette ad of man shaving his pubes

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ThatNimblePeer · 20/03/2025 21:51

Sorry for the unpleasant topic but it’s driving me mad! Is this happening to anyone else? Every time I try to watch any video on YouTube, the ad that comes up is a Gillette ad of a man in the shower with a deep voice intoning ‘going to groom down there are we?’ There then follows a close-up of the man shaving hair off his body, not actually his pubes but as close as they can decently show. It is absolutely emetic and this has been going on for months. YouTube won’t show me any other ad. Apart from anything else I’m female so male shaving products are not relevant to me!!!! But also it’s so gross!!!! Not sexy or trying to be. It actually makes me feel sick. How do I make it stop?!!!!! I’m guessing I must have selected at some point that I didn’t want ‘targeted’ ads (I.e. ones they think are relevant to women in their early forties, of anti-aging cream etc) and this is how YouTube is punishing me. It’s relentless!

YABU - never seen or heard of this ad, you must have hallucinated it. Accept the targeted ads and come over to the world of Dove face cream

YANBU - it’s following me around too and yes, it’s unforgivably awful

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Gowlett · 22/03/2025 23:31

And to think it was embarrassing when “Whooaaa Bodyform!” cranked up when your Dad / brother were in the same room…

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 22/03/2025 23:25

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 23:19

Thank you. Sometimes I wonder at the total lack of understanding of how pornified this is.

I think we're so brainwashed now that it's just "standard" . It's rather sad really. Hate to say it, but "bring back the 90s" probably the perfect time to grow up in. All the freedoms and liberations at their finest, before the extremism and "so open minded your brain is mush " kicked off .

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 23:19

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 22/03/2025 19:35

Completely agree.

I find it offensive that pubic hair is seen as something "gross" and unpalatable. It's actually nature's idea of "plumage" . Preening the bikini line and having a tidy up is totally understandable, but fully shaved is just playing into porno and mens ever demanding idea of what's acceptable on a woman's body.

I think it all became a thing when oral sex became something everyone did (men didn't like the idea of hair during that particularly act )

Thank you. Sometimes I wonder at the total lack of understanding of how pornified this is.

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 22/03/2025 19:35

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 18:55

No, but completely shaved women do. It's a fetish. Anyway, I prefer men with beards.
Shaving the body hair on a woman before her marriage used to be part of rituals to make her appear clean. It's a male interest, not a female one. Don't shave, look like a woman, not a manequin in a shop window.

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Completely agree.

I find it offensive that pubic hair is seen as something "gross" and unpalatable. It's actually nature's idea of "plumage" . Preening the bikini line and having a tidy up is totally understandable, but fully shaved is just playing into porno and mens ever demanding idea of what's acceptable on a woman's body.

I think it all became a thing when oral sex became something everyone did (men didn't like the idea of hair during that particularly act )

anyolddinosaur · 22/03/2025 19:28

Havent seen it, cant do you AIBU as I dont want to say you're hallucinating.

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 18:55

GoneOffTheRails · 21/03/2025 12:39

Shaving is unhealthy? Really? Men manage to do it every day.

There is nothing creepy about removing any body hair. And there’s nothing prepubescent about a woman who has had a wax.

Do you also think clean shaved men look pre-pubescent?

No, but completely shaved women do. It's a fetish. Anyway, I prefer men with beards.
Shaving the body hair on a woman before her marriage used to be part of rituals to make her appear clean. It's a male interest, not a female one. Don't shave, look like a woman, not a manequin in a shop window.

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 18:53

carrotsandtomatoes · 21/03/2025 11:01

Oh stop with the prepubescent clap trap. I only hear this from highly repressed individuals.
do you shave your arm pits? Does that make you look deviant and attractive to paedofiles?

I do shave my armpits sometimes. Not sexually repressed but definitely not sex positive (feminist, so definitely not) - it seems to me that women are falling straight into the trap of what men like - and what men like is young girls. Nasty.
And shaving your pubes causes spots and abrasions. Not nice either.

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 21/03/2025 17:56

HuffleMyPuffle · 21/03/2025 16:58

Adverts being about "taboo" subjects which shouldn't be taboo, like medical conditions down there, adult incontinence, periods etc are designed to make it easier to talk about

But it's not the 1950s, this line gets trotted out constantly.

'raise awareness ' 'increase visibility ' - we do talk about periods, vaginas, penises, sex - it's never shut up about! Yes, that's great, but we don't need it shoved in our faces 24/7. It's all gone too far. Kink is now basically mainstream. I think we need to do a little rewind and get some sense of balance back! Because it's tipped the scales into 'inappropriate ' territory

Redpeach · 21/03/2025 17:24

Choosing to shave pubes is not on a level with periods

HuffleMyPuffle · 21/03/2025 16:58

Adverts being about "taboo" subjects which shouldn't be taboo, like medical conditions down there, adult incontinence, periods etc are designed to make it easier to talk about

TempestTost · 21/03/2025 16:56

GoneOffTheRails · 21/03/2025 12:39

Shaving is unhealthy? Really? Men manage to do it every day.

There is nothing creepy about removing any body hair. And there’s nothing prepubescent about a woman who has had a wax.

Do you also think clean shaved men look pre-pubescent?

Shaving pubes really is a lot riskier than legs or face. The hairs are typically thicker and coarser, and it's really common to have micro-abrasions. And that area tends to be in a warm, dark, and even damp environment all day.

There have been people who had major infections from shaving pubes, particularly diabetics.

Deeddsa · 21/03/2025 16:46

I have YouTube Premium so I don't get ads

ThatNimblePeer · 21/03/2025 16:45

AfricanGreen · 21/03/2025 14:10

I have a bogey advert I can't get rid of!
A young bloke with a dour voice going on about middle aged ladies who can't fit into their clothes. I have tried to block it SO MANY times.

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Solidarity for all of us haunted by bogey ads! That one sounds annoying as f*!

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Redpeach · 21/03/2025 15:25

carrotsandtomatoes · 21/03/2025 11:02

Do you think this about armpits too? Honestly, women removing body hair isn’t all about looking prepubescent.

I assume you don’t remove any body hair

No, because armpits are not genitals

Redpeach · 21/03/2025 15:23

GoneOffTheRails · 21/03/2025 12:39

Shaving is unhealthy? Really? Men manage to do it every day.

There is nothing creepy about removing any body hair. And there’s nothing prepubescent about a woman who has had a wax.

Do you also think clean shaved men look pre-pubescent?

It looks horrible

LegoTherapy · 21/03/2025 14:48

I’m noticed a big push in ads that are below the belt. Laxatives, Viagra and similar, women shaving pubes, incontinence issues, pepto bismal singing about diarrhoea. There didn’t used to be so many of this type of advert. Shaving pubes goes too far. You’re unreasonable about men’s shaving products though-I use them as find them better.

JasmineAllen · 21/03/2025 14:28

That does sound quite grim OP. On a different but similar subject I keep seeing the 'Merwave' add and every time I do I read it as 'Merkin' 😂

lifemakeover · 21/03/2025 14:23

Have only skimmed the thread, so not sure if someone has mentioned this already....When the advert appears you can click on the three dots underneath it and then clock block (or even report)

godawful Gillette ad of man shaving his pubes
godawful Gillette ad of man shaving his pubes
AfricanGreen · 21/03/2025 14:10

I have a bogey advert I can't get rid of!
A young bloke with a dour voice going on about middle aged ladies who can't fit into their clothes. I have tried to block it SO MANY times.

BobbyBiscuits · 21/03/2025 14:08

There was one a while back with that guy who used to be a swimmer, bought a couple kids with some much older man?
He looked like it was pretty much showing him shaving his pubes, or at least just above it. It gave me the major creeps.
Yeah, I don't want to see strange men's bodies below the waist in adverts being groomed/shaved etc. why would anyone?

NarnianQueen · 21/03/2025 14:04

I keep getting ads with suggestions on what I should be doing this Ramadan… no idea what, I’m not Muslim and haven’t been watching any videos that would suggest I am!

Jade520 · 21/03/2025 13:59

I agree OP, it's grim. Why does the bloke have to be shaving his pubes FGS, just have him shaving his face. We really shouldn't be telling men that they need to be shaving all their pubes off - and the plucked chicken look is not nice IMO anyway. Young women have already been completely pornified, next stop men I guess. It's just sad and unnecessary - and the advert is grim.

HereForTheFreeLunch · 21/03/2025 13:56

You can right click and send feedback sometimes not to show a particular add. There will be a tiny arrow symbol on one of the corners if that's possible.

I have done it sometimes when a particular add creeps me out for whatever reason.

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 21/03/2025 13:13

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 21/03/2025 13:09

I detest the trend for pube removal and the increasingly distasteful adverts.
There really is no need to be so explicit.
I also hate the number of tv drams which now seem to think it is cutting edge to see someone sat on the loo.

I completely agree. God forbid we're allowed to believe in a bit of decency or modesty anymore. We have to be so open minded our brains are spilling out. Anything less is just "wrong" fact 🙄

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 21/03/2025 13:09

I detest the trend for pube removal and the increasingly distasteful adverts.
There really is no need to be so explicit.
I also hate the number of tv drams which now seem to think it is cutting edge to see someone sat on the loo.

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