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To think there must be a way to stop 'food noise' that isn't WLI's?

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Justanothermum9421 · 20/03/2025 21:17

I have absolutely nothing against weight loss injections, but they are just not for me. They absolutely have their place and I am seeing people do SO well on them! I am happy for them, but surely there is a way to turn off or dim that food noise without them?

I am eight weeks postpartum, desperate to lose the baby weight and exclusively breastfeeding. I am one of those people who drops weight whilst breastfeeding, if I try and eat sensibly. But I just can't turn off that food noise. I eat and eat and eat. It is mostly not that I'm hungry, I just enjoy the taste and want that quick dopamine hit, and I can't resist. A lot of the time I've shoved something else in my mouth before I've even processed what I've done.

I've been overweight most of my adult life (and for lots of my childhood, actually!), and I'm so fed up of it. I don't feel comfortable or confident, my relationship with food is so unhealthy and I need to change. Please help!

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TheDopamineKid · 20/03/2025 21:35

I managed to really reduce the food noise by recognising it for what it is - a desire for a dopamine hit. Then I was able to say to myself oh, it's not food I want, it's dopamine.

Eventually I was able to accept that the dopamine hit would only last 30 seconds and then I would be in the same place whether I take the hit or not. So I stopped eating sweets and chocolate and cake by recognising that I wasn't eating them because they're lovely but because I want a hit. Pretty quickly the food noise died down.

It hasn't gone altogether - I'm feeling it right now - but I know it's not that I need food.

ssd · 20/03/2025 21:35

How is the weight loss maintained on the jabs though? Surely the good noise comes back when the jabs stop? Is it medically advisable to be on the jabs for the rest of your life?

slipperypenguin · 20/03/2025 21:30

Try Slimpod
It’s a podcast/audio style program that you listen to for ten minutes a day and it helps retrain your brains connection with good. It’s genuinely worked and there’s a free trial so no obligation

Parsley1234 · 20/03/2025 21:29

Another one who was really on the fence after not getting on with WLI last year because I didn’t really understand what I had to do but a month ago I took it on board and gave it a go. I was thinking about it today 15lbs down I am at the gym every day for a class then I swim I have a lot of energy I have had 5 mini eggs in a month that’s all the chocolate I’ve had which is a miracle. I feel so much more calmer don’t think about food and just eat when I’m hungry. This is a miracle and I just think I’ll use them for life low dose this comes from a person who only got up to get a latte and pain au raisin from the local deli after being so depressed and who planned every car journey around the best bakeries

myplace · 20/03/2025 21:27

I’m looking at my disordered eating and I’d love to sort out food noise.

One thing that’s helping is taking the enjoyment out of food and seeing it as fuel. I still eat a good evening meal, but breakfast and lunch I cycle through some really tedious foods- fruit salad and yogurt, cottage cheese with fruit and peanuts, beetroot and cheese. It’s helped to remove all anticipation and planning from those meals- I’m eating my ration of calcium, fruit/veg and keeping hunger at bay. That’s all.

Another approach that’s working for me is to think about eating 500 Cals less that I would otherwise have done. Doesn’t matter what I eat. It matters that I don’t eat 500 cals that I used to eat.

ThePinkPonyClub · 20/03/2025 21:26

Read ultra processed people. It was eye opening for me. I'm finally a healthy weight after reading it and ditching upfs almost entirely after being horrified at the ways companies have designed these foods to be so addictive. The whole message is that its not you, its the food! I bet you don't get food noise from carrots?!

Jesss21 · 20/03/2025 21:25

For me, no, nothing else worked. The best alternative was getting really into exercise - twice a day intense exercise, which made me choose food that was high protein and filling and kept me away from snacks. But ultimately, that did not work long term. Now, I exercise daily and am toned but the injections just made it possible to sustain the healthy eating.

Projectme · 20/03/2025 21:24

I know how you feel OP. I haven't gone down the WLI route as I worry about side effects and the cost ££.

I'd love to know what helps turn down or turns off the food noise.

TheHeartbreakPrincess · 20/03/2025 21:24

Give yourself a break! You had a baby eight weeks ago, you will be tired and sleep deprived and you are sustaining another human being with your body. Now is not the time to beat yourself up about weight.

I have also been overweight my whole life and I'm now on injections which are life changing but I am so suspicious of the phrase 'food noise'. It's a diet culture marketing phrase trying to sell us the drugs- and I'm a happy customer buying them so I'm not criticising the medication at all. But this phrase is demonising some very normal human behaviour and feelings and craving comfort food when exhausted and breastfeeding is absolutely not a 'food noise' issue or a cause for concern.

GrizeldaMcBain · 20/03/2025 21:20

Weight loss injections are the best thing that ever happened to me. I’m a healthy size 10 for the first time in my life, having always been around a size 16. I feel good, I look good, I have so much more energy. The freedom from the food noise is so, so liberating. I’ve been trying to lose weight my whole life (like so many of us!) and have never experienced the food noise just not being there. I honestly don’t think there’s any other way to ‘turn it off’. I’m considering staying on a low maintenance dose for the foreseeable future.

ShiiiiiiiiiitDinosaur · 20/03/2025 21:19

Conditioning. Give yourself an electric shock whenever you feel hungry. Look up Pavlov’s dog experiment but used negatively!

Fasting helps too.