I have MS and ADHD, work full time, have 2 kids at home, one PDA, and I'm doing my master's
I work in HE wellbeing as management for a very understanding team, have just been through occ health and they have suggested flexibility with home working and time off for appointments.
I needed a degree. Have experience in a wellbeing role previously.
I had the disability when I started but wasn't diagnosed. I have had the odd day off but passed 6 months probation in Jan. The team want me for my expertise and we're grateful how I brought the team back together after they had a very difficult time before I arrived. I have updated so many processes that they have been blown away (deans words, not mine) by my work. They don't want to let me go. In fact they offered a higher wage instead of me leaving to a better paid position.
I have gaps, but only include the last 10 years and I have been studying/working in that time.
For me it was getting my degree and getting into HE. I have been happy in all my roles in HE and always felt supported. However this isn't always the case for every institution.
I think the main thing for me has been supportive teams. And getting into wellbeing so they already know and are aware of disability and that people can thrive if supported well.
So charities for instance would be a good place to look.
Going to uni, there is so much support available now, that even some of the students who seem like they will fail get a good outcome.
Also, some things have to give, so I have a cleaner.