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Boyfriend keeps pushing my boundaries

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Hurricanejsms · 20/03/2025 14:34

Bfs family is visiting and he keeps allowing them to come in my room unannounced. It’s my time of the month and I got blood on the sheets which they seen from him not telling them it’s off limits. So embarrassing. Everytime I try telling him it turns into an argument and he gets defensive and tells me about how bad I treat him and he tries so hard to please me. How am I in the wrong?

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Garlicgarlicgarlic · 20/03/2025 14:37

He sounds like a weirdo, just dump him.

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 20/03/2025 14:37

Easy answer. You are not in the wrong at all. He needs to tell them to stay out of your room.

Don't listen to his nonsense. It's good to have boundaries and he is not being badly treated by you enforcing them.

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Hurricanejsms · 20/03/2025 14:37

HomeBodyClub · 20/03/2025 14:35

Tell his family directly not to come into your room and change your sheets when you get out of bed.

I have since but they already seen in the morning and made comments. It’s so humiliating.

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HomeBodyClub · 20/03/2025 14:35

Tell his family directly not to come into your room and change your sheets when you get out of bed.