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To think most people won’t be remembered and that’s okay?

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NimblePoster · 19/03/2025 15:38

We all like to think we’ll leave a lasting impact, but realistically, most of us won’t be remembered beyond a couple of generations. Is that such a bad thing? Should we be focusing on making a mark or just enjoying life while we have it?

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Joystir59 · 19/03/2025 15:50

I think the point of being alive is to enjoy life fully and live without fear. And to be as kind and loving and generous as you possibly can be towards family friends neighbours- all whose path crosses your path.

MsNevermore · 19/03/2025 15:47

Yeah, I’m quite happy with the idea of living a happy life, spending quality time with my family, travelling, having good friends……and then shuffling quietly off this mortal coil without any fanfare.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 19/03/2025 15:46

I've decided to stay away from those motivational people

Just making a normal happy life seem mundane 😭😭

It really isn't - as long as you're good to those around you, that's what matters. Even if millions don't know your name.

Yanbu x

Upstartled · 19/03/2025 15:45

Most people make a valuable contribution in their lives that might not make it to the pages of a history book but is far more meaningful and useful than pissing it away in a blur of hedonism.

BooseysMom · 19/03/2025 15:43

Enjoy life and to hell with lasting impact! There are no guarantees in life apart from the obvious and so why fret over it?! Says me who worries about everything!!