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To wonder if all those gleeful about PIP cuts are going to welcome people with serious mental health conditions as colleagues and employees?

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Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:39

Given the amount of ableisism I see on MN I think the likelihood of people welcoming people with serious mental health conditions into their workplace is pretty low.
And yes, these people will very likely now be forced to try to work even though their condition makes it impossible. We are not just talking about some lazy twenty year old who expects to sit at home gaming due to his “anxiety” as many people seem to believe is the case. It will be people with significant impairments to social functioning.
Even if they get support to apply for jobs, and even if they then get the position (doubtful) how accommodating will colleagues or customers be if the person seems a bit odd, or gets adjustments workmates deem unfair?
This is going to be a total shit show.

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ruethewhirl · 05/05/2025 19:23

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 05/05/2025 19:16

I mean, are disabled people supposed to stay indoors looking longingly out of the window at the "ableds" enjoying their lives?

There's a difference between going on a holiday or spending an hour a week engaging in a hobby and trying to hold down a job.

I suspect that is precisely what pp wants disabled people to do. And apparently the spoons theory isn’t valid either. Edifying.

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 05/05/2025 19:16

CaptainFuture · 05/05/2025 17:24

Oh but going on holiday, engaging with hobbies, relaxing, having fun....all people's RIGHT and essential...
Having the energy and 'spoons' to only do what you want, and what benefits YOU is of course perfectly acceptable, and anyone who doesn't agree is an evil bigot, who wants people to die....🙄🙄

I mean, are disabled people supposed to stay indoors looking longingly out of the window at the "ableds" enjoying their lives?

There's a difference between going on a holiday or spending an hour a week engaging in a hobby and trying to hold down a job.

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 18:40

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 18:37

Faux outrage

Proving @Somethingthecatdraggedin7 point beautifully

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 18:37

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 18:21

if thats what calling out hypocrisy makes me then so be it

Faux outrage

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 18:21

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 18:01

Aren’t you a delight

if thats what calling out hypocrisy makes me then so be it

ruethewhirl · 05/05/2025 18:09

It’s possible that this has changed as I’ve been in continuous employment for 20+ years, but at one time you were literally not allowed to tell the job centre you would take any job going. You literally had to specify a field of work and be looking for work in that specific field. I thought it unhelpful back then, before I had chronic pain and mobility issues plus chronic fatigue, but I can see it being potentially helpful for those who are limited by their health to specify, for example, that they can’t do anything that involves standing for long periods. And before anyone starts baying ‘they should be grateful for any job going!’ what’s the use of, say, sending someone for an interview on the shop floor in Tesco if they can’t stand for more than thirty minutes without extreme pain? (as is the case for me, unfortunately). It just wastes everybody’s time. Hopefully DWP takes this into account these days (I wouldn’t know), but judging by the tone of some recent MN threads it’s not very well understood in general society.

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 18:01

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 17:43

What do you think he means by "other jobs do exist" Dont be so bloody disingenuous

Aren’t you a delight

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 17:43

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 16:43

Where has @ThisOldThang said that?

What do you think he means by "other jobs do exist" Dont be so bloody disingenuous

CaptainFuture · 05/05/2025 17:24

Jjjjyy · 05/05/2025 17:10

I remember once having a twitter fight with someone who was unemployed for years , "couldn't work" or "couldn't find work" but had time to dress up in silly superhero costumes and go to conventions.

Oh but going on holiday, engaging with hobbies, relaxing, having fun....all people's RIGHT and essential...
Having the energy and 'spoons' to only do what you want, and what benefits YOU is of course perfectly acceptable, and anyone who doesn't agree is an evil bigot, who wants people to die....🙄🙄

Jjjjyy · 05/05/2025 17:10

I remember once having a twitter fight with someone who was unemployed for years , "couldn't work" or "couldn't find work" but had time to dress up in silly superhero costumes and go to conventions.

TigerRag · 05/05/2025 16:46

ThisOldThang · 05/05/2025 16:14

Other jobs do exist...

(She's previously stated that she doesn't qualify for PIP, so she's just classed as a 'job seeker' on UC. Is it unreasonable that job seekers actually seek employment rather than declaring every job unsuitatable and claiming benefits for 15 years?)

This isn't correct. Many disabled people don't qualify for pip but do qualify for LCWRA on universal credit which means they have no requirements to seek work

Julen7 · 05/05/2025 16:43

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 16:19

So you want her to work Just not near you and yours eh!

Where has @ThisOldThang said that?

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 16:19

ThisOldThang · 05/05/2025 16:14

Other jobs do exist...

(She's previously stated that she doesn't qualify for PIP, so she's just classed as a 'job seeker' on UC. Is it unreasonable that job seekers actually seek employment rather than declaring every job unsuitatable and claiming benefits for 15 years?)

So you want her to work Just not near you and yours eh!

ThisOldThang · 05/05/2025 16:14

Other jobs do exist...

(She's previously stated that she doesn't qualify for PIP, so she's just classed as a 'job seeker' on UC. Is it unreasonable that job seekers actually seek employment rather than declaring every job unsuitatable and claiming benefits for 15 years?)

Atina321 · 05/05/2025 16:11

“Evil begins when you begin to treat people as things.” ― Terry Pratchett, I Shall Wear Midnight

Just posted this on another thread but think it is appropriate here as well.

Mumsnet is a cesspit for people who treat people as things. At the end of the day there is actually enough resources to go round, it is just a few people choose to hoard the resources and laugh at those that are less fortunate.

JenniferBooth · 05/05/2025 15:59

ThisOldThang · 05/05/2025 15:53

She regularly posts about how 'she'd love to work', but every single suggested job, or idea for a self-employed business, is simply impossible. She's not worked for 15 years and doesn't react well to suggestions that, perhaps, there might be something she's capable of doing.

She could work as the child minder for your kids couldnt she.
Put your money where your mouth is!!

ThisOldThang · 05/05/2025 15:53

EasternStandard · 05/05/2025 09:23

Is there something you feel is possible?

Not sure of your situation.

She regularly posts about how 'she'd love to work', but every single suggested job, or idea for a self-employed business, is simply impossible. She's not worked for 15 years and doesn't react well to suggestions that, perhaps, there might be something she's capable of doing.

EasternStandard · 05/05/2025 09:23

XenoBitch · 01/05/2025 00:10

Having a look now. I am waiting for one about people being forced to work in care.
I am fed up with being told that having a pair of functioning hands means I can wipe bums.

Is there something you feel is possible?

Not sure of your situation.

XenoBitch · 01/05/2025 00:10

JenniferBooth · 01/05/2025 00:06

Having a look now. I am waiting for one about people being forced to work in care.
I am fed up with being told that having a pair of functioning hands means I can wipe bums.

JenniferBooth · 01/05/2025 00:06

Looks like you already have your answer @Somethingthecatdraggedin7

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5326040-childcare-is-not-a-dumping-ground-for-the-unemployable?page=1

CentralLimit · 11/04/2025 11:26

AzurePanda · 11/04/2025 11:04

Well we have a great opportunity to see what impact higher taxes for the rich will have on the tax revenues of this country as it’s playing out right before our eyes.

The gap between rich and poor will no doubt “improve” but I sincerely doubt it’s going to improve anything for those at the bottom. How can it?

Our current tax system remains completely inadequate to tackle inequality and I expect it to continue to rise.

If we did reduce it, the evidence suggests that we would see reduced asset prices, especially houses, reduced inflation, higher food security, reduced crime, greater social mobility, and higher scores on a range of wellbeing measures including mental and physical health. Among other benefits. So that's how.

AzurePanda · 11/04/2025 11:04

Well we have a great opportunity to see what impact higher taxes for the rich will have on the tax revenues of this country as it’s playing out right before our eyes.

The gap between rich and poor will no doubt “improve” but I sincerely doubt it’s going to improve anything for those at the bottom. How can it?

CentralLimit · 11/04/2025 10:34

AzurePanda · 11/04/2025 10:14

Our country worked better when we didn’t have a totally out of control benefits system.

It worked better when we didn't have out of control inequality.

CentralLimit · 11/04/2025 10:32

AzurePanda · 11/04/2025 08:11

Yes sorry I meant tax burden and of course France has a wealth tax, specifically targeting high net worth individuals.

I’m not saying it’s tax system has caused inequality, simply that an unbelievably high tax burden like France’s doesn’t necessarily do much to help it.

I didn’t single France out for having social inequality, you raised it seemingly as an example of a highly taxed country which has excellent outcomes as a result. I disagree. Its finances and social cohesion are in trouble.

Progressive taxes reduce inequality. That's just mathematics.

It's a shame you haven't engaged with anything I've written about the very well evidenced and pernicious effects of inequality. It's almost like...you don't care? Either about the poor or about evidence.

EasternStandard · 11/04/2025 10:26

WatchingCometsLand · 11/04/2025 10:10

If that's your concern you should support an exit tax, and/or limits on non-residents property ownership, and other similar options. We've had things like that in the past, and other countries have them now. The whole 'rich people are going to leave and then what?' stuff is desperate scaremongering. Our country worked better when we taxed the rich more, and the same pattern is true across the world. Just capitulating on inequality growth is the worst possible option.

I’m not sure the response to tax causing people to leave is more taxes, ie an exit tax. You’d really skew behaviour if people thought that was in discussion.

If you look at why Reeves targeted PIP etc it’s because of the modelling around headroom. She’s committed to some figure in a few years time and if the policies reduce that amount she and Starmer will make cuts.

So tax receipts do have a direct impact on welfare.

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