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To wonder if all those gleeful about PIP cuts are going to welcome people with serious mental health conditions as colleagues and employees?

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Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:39

Given the amount of ableisism I see on MN I think the likelihood of people welcoming people with serious mental health conditions into their workplace is pretty low.
And yes, these people will very likely now be forced to try to work even though their condition makes it impossible. We are not just talking about some lazy twenty year old who expects to sit at home gaming due to his “anxiety” as many people seem to believe is the case. It will be people with significant impairments to social functioning.
Even if they get support to apply for jobs, and even if they then get the position (doubtful) how accommodating will colleagues or customers be if the person seems a bit odd, or gets adjustments workmates deem unfair?
This is going to be a total shit show.

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Ghush · 19/03/2025 10:56

Bluebellwood129 · 19/03/2025 10:47

Quite simply, the rich will not pay. Far too many options to protect wealth.

Yes it’s very naive. If it were possible to get more out of the corporations we would do it, but they are very sophisticated at avoiding tax and if you tax them too much they pick up and go elsewhere. In general, there is a limit to how much you can tax people without starting to actually lose money and our tax burden is already huge.

A second point though is on the principle. Do we think it’s right that a quarter of the adult population is not self-supporting? At what point would it be too much? What if half the population relied on benefits?

Overthebow · 19/03/2025 10:56

CatsChin · 19/03/2025 10:45

There's so much ableism on these threads. Loads of your colleagues will be disabled but don't disclose it to you. I've been surprised at how often I've disclosed mental/physical disability in the workplace and colleagues have responded by sharing their own issues.

You can work with all sorts of serious MH and PH conditions. Loads of us do. Not all of us can. But all this bullshit about 'no one wants to employ them!' is just ableism.

And maybe anyone writing this stuff should think about how THEY could become an inclusive employer, or encourage their own employer to do so?

Yes I agree. I'm classed as disabled and am employed, I have ASD, ADHD and also have a history of anxiety, depression and self harm. My employer is flexible and I work part time, I'm wfh today as I woke up and couldn't go in and all I had to do was message that I'd be wfh today and that was fine as I make the effort to go in when I can (I was in yesterday). There are lots of ND colleagues at my work and also with other disabilities too. Many employers are flexible when you are open and honest with them, work effectively and make the effort when you can, and are a generally good employee. I do hope that those who really can't work at all will be protected and keep PIP and other benefits, but I also think cuts are necessary for those with less severe disabilities.

Seaitoverthere · 19/03/2025 10:54

Unfortunately some of those people who are gleeful about the cuts (not many but there are a few) may well end up needing them in the future as things can often go downhill health wise as you get older. It won’t be many but to some it will happen.

Took me 51 years to be diagnosed with hip dysplasia. That is fixed by a replacement but menopause has made the psoriatic arthritis I had for 20 years very active and is eroding my joints in places despite being on medication. I went from running 10k to being pretty much housebound and barely being able to get the toilet in the space of 3 years.

So easy to think it will never happen to you and that you have aches and pains but get on with things and don’t let the, stop you doing things - until they suddenly do.

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 10:54

PartyPopper57 · 19/03/2025 10:50

I wonder if some of the people would find their mental health improves if they have the routine of work. I appreciate that this isn’t a one size fits all approach but it may work for some and is at least worth a try 🤷‍♀️ Some people may be surprised and start feeling less anxious if they’ve got a bit more money and have a holiday to look forward to rather than sitting alone gaming all day, moaning that they’re skint.

Some people had to leave the workforce because it made their MH worse. And those same people can and do have routines that is not paid employment.

Pickledpoppetpickle · 19/03/2025 10:54

I know a few people who have effectively been allowed to be out of work for decades for anxiety/depression, ignoring the cost of this enabling them to stay at home I don't think this helps them

so you have training in psychiatry/psychology/psychotherapy and appropriate clinical experience to be able to say, definitively, that these people you know would be better off working from a health perspective?

SpringIsSpringing25 · 19/03/2025 10:52

Wildflowers99 · 19/03/2025 09:56

This is a financial matter, not an emotive one. Unless you can tell me how we will raise an extra 5-10 billion, year on year every year, to meet the ever rising need of the welfare state, all conversation is pointless.

With the incredible growth Keir Starmer promised all the gullible voters

Some of us did warn people what a labour government & Keir Starmer would be like but no one wanted to listen

Pickledpoppetpickle · 19/03/2025 10:51

But many people are able to contribute significantly despite various difficulties with adjustments and support

Except who wants an employee who maybe unwell on a regular basis, who has to attend hospital appointments on a regular basis, needs a nap in the middle of the day to get by,....and a whole host of stuff I haven't thought of because I don't have a good knowledge of all the possible debilitating conditions a person can suffer with. 'Reasonable adjustments' are sometimes possible - ramp to get in the office, disabled toilet, time off for appointments....but you are no good to an employer if you've not been taking your medication and are actively psychotic, are you?

PartyPopper57 · 19/03/2025 10:50

I wonder if some of the people would find their mental health improves if they have the routine of work. I appreciate that this isn’t a one size fits all approach but it may work for some and is at least worth a try 🤷‍♀️ Some people may be surprised and start feeling less anxious if they’ve got a bit more money and have a holiday to look forward to rather than sitting alone gaming all day, moaning that they’re skint.

AestheticallyChallenged · 19/03/2025 10:49

Lovelysummerdays · 19/03/2025 09:44

Lets face it, probably not. We will probably shimmy down same route as Canada and let people choose suicide rather than poverty.

Oh so that's what the euthanasia bill was about? Jolly government this.

Lolypoly14 · 19/03/2025 10:48

XenoBitch · 19/03/2025 10:09

That is if they can even get a job to start with.

Yes!

My daughter has Tourette’s (as well as Autism and FND) - you can imagine the length of the in queue of employers willing to give her a job.

But it’s ok, she’s never claimed PIP - the lady on the phone when she rang up to ask for the forms was so unbelievably vile to her that she burst into tears and has refused to try again.

But PIP is easy to claim right?

Cyclebabble · 19/03/2025 10:47

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:55

Tax the richest more. Simples. We must pay in to the system proportionally to our wealth to ensure a more equitable society and look after all citizens.

I work hard and have done for many years. During this time I have had periods of depression and anxiety and I am also a carer. When you say tax the rich I think you actually mean anyone but you. And most likely me. I earn well. I think I pay enough tax as it is and I want to fund my own decent retirement. The IFS data notes that sickness benefits in the UK are growing disproportionately in the Uk compared to elsewhere. People in the UK are not sicker than elsewhere in Europe. A number of people who can work are choosing not to work and I do not want to fund this. Getting a job will help your depression and anxiety. Sitting at home and doing little will make it worse.

Bluebellwood129 · 19/03/2025 10:47

Somethingthecatdraggedin7 · 19/03/2025 09:55

Tax the richest more. Simples. We must pay in to the system proportionally to our wealth to ensure a more equitable society and look after all citizens.

Quite simply, the rich will not pay. Far too many options to protect wealth.

ADreamIsAWishYourArseMakes · 19/03/2025 10:46

I don't think they will in most workplaces, no. But they need to change and its in everyone's interests for employers to do this.

I do also think these threads often miss than most mental health problems are episodic. Someone may have periods of life where they can't work but for most this won't be their whole working life, which the system currently supports. For most (not all) it will be therapeutic to do some work in some form, I know a few people who have effectively been allowed to be out of work for decades for anxiety/depression, ignoring the cost of this enabling them to stay at home I don't think this helps them. For both of these people I think it is more that they are unhappy with the options on offer: minimum wage work in a supermarket or a similar lifestyle without working.

Admittedly this may not apply to schizophrenia/bipolar disorder which can impact long term functioning, but I work in mental health and have had colleagues with these diagnoses and they've been fab.

CatsChin · 19/03/2025 10:45

There's so much ableism on these threads. Loads of your colleagues will be disabled but don't disclose it to you. I've been surprised at how often I've disclosed mental/physical disability in the workplace and colleagues have responded by sharing their own issues.

You can work with all sorts of serious MH and PH conditions. Loads of us do. Not all of us can. But all this bullshit about 'no one wants to employ them!' is just ableism.

And maybe anyone writing this stuff should think about how THEY could become an inclusive employer, or encourage their own employer to do so?

StarCourt · 19/03/2025 10:45

ScholesPanda · 19/03/2025 10:22

This is my fear. I think a lot of people just think that the disabled and mentally ill should be 'assisted' to die quietly.

Unless it's an illness they have or someone close to them has. At that point every possible resource should be thrown at them.

This!
Alongside they can get back to working or find a job AS LONG AS ITS NOT MY WORKPLACE so the inevitable sick leave / reasonable adjustments dont impact me .

Ted27 · 19/03/2025 10:43

@Slimbear

deemed by people who have little or no knowledge of how conditions affect people in real life.

I've been supporting my neighbour who has medical and mental health issues with her PIP review.
She received zero points.
I won't go into too much detail as it's her information not mine but four of the reasons cited were

  • she bought her own walking stick and seat to sit in the shower, they were not 'prescribed'
  • there is no evidence of abandoned journeys in the last 5 years, therefore she can plan and make journeys. But that's because she is housebound and hasn't been anywhere since lockdown
  • there is no evidence of falls - well she lives alone so there wouldn't be any witnesses but I've seen the bruises.
  • she can manage her money. She can't, she's been ripped off by 'builders ' who take money and don't turn up. Her daughter inlaw does her food shop. I've just sorted out all her bills because she was in serious arrears.
All information that was given to the assessor. And people still bang on about how easy it is to get PIP.
Katemax82 · 19/03/2025 10:41

My seriously schizophrenic older brother has never worked, he recently had his pip stopped (as my older sister discovered) probably due to him not filling g out the forms. He doesn't want to appeal it even though my sister could easily get it reinstated for him. He will now likely struggle horribly as he is in no fit state to work, he lives in his own world and no one really understands him

BunfightBetty · 19/03/2025 10:40

GreatAuntMaude · 19/03/2025 10:08

Speaking for myself, I am not gleeful about anything.

I abhor the idea of cutting benefits without also increasing specialist dedicated support. We know there is a tranche of youngsters with mental health conditions who are currently unable to work, and who believe they cannot cope with work. We also know that appropriate work is good for mental wellbeing. What we need is a proper joined up system where someone is given a period of recovery time and then given specialist support, not sanctions, to begin to engage in small amounts of voluntary work in an area of interest to them, as a confidence builder, and gradually build up to being supported into part time working.

I would be completely up for something like this. ATM the job coaches are not specialist enough they don't give people in burnout enough time, or start small enough. It could be achieved if there was the political will.

A very sensible approach that would be likely to yield some good results and be a win-win in terms of cost savings to the public purse while also actually helping people out of MH problems and into work and a higher income.

Very unlikely to actually happen when the government can just wield a big stick more easily.

StarCourt · 19/03/2025 10:39

Wildflowers99 · 19/03/2025 09:56

This is a financial matter, not an emotive one. Unless you can tell me how we will raise an extra 5-10 billion, year on year every year, to meet the ever rising need of the welfare state, all conversation is pointless.

It might be pointless to you but it won’t be pointless to the people this will affect negatively.
So dismissive of you

medianewbie · 19/03/2025 10:39

MissDoubleU · 19/03/2025 09:59

I do agree, but the waters are more muddied than this by the fact that most serious mental health disorders manifest physically. MH disorders can cause blackouts, chronic muscle pain, rapid heartbeat, extreme physical fatigue and all sorts else.

The “it’s all in your head, just get on with it” crew do need this underlined quite heavily. The head controls the body and when the head isn’t doing its job the entire physique pays the price. It’s not cut and dry.

What a sensible post. There are complex reasons some people struggle into work (usually in a workplace which pays lip service to making 'accomodations' but does nothing of the sort & even if it does this causes much resentment amongst other staff). The reasons can be physical, mental or a combination.

An approach which provides real, tailoured, achieveable opportunities sounds great, coupled with being able to return to benefits if it proves not possible (so people are not scared to try). The Govt seem to be making noises about this. But MUCH bigger noises about 'deserving workers' vs 'the undeserving'.
£5BN of cuts from the most vulnerable. FIVE BILLION from the most vulnerable.

glacancalman · 19/03/2025 10:37

You'll still qualify for the mobility element though won't you?

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 19/03/2025 10:36

FagsMagsandBags · 19/03/2025 10:30

It will put people out of work too. I'm not sure of the percentage but people on pip can and do work but some are only able to work because their pips helps them with things that make that possible. Take it away, they're fucked.

This is very true. Someone who's PIP benefit enables them to purchase an adapted car for example, can work in an environment where WFH is not allowed.
Take that PIP away, the car is unaffordable and the job is impossible to get to.

BunfightBetty · 19/03/2025 10:33

MissDoubleU · 19/03/2025 10:06

But the moral implications of this will mean those sick and disabled people are not only unable to get a job, but unable to survive as well.

Of course! I expect the government have a risk assessment somewhere that says X amount of people who die as a direct result and Y amount of people will suffer harm. And they will be seen as collateral damage.

Inmydreams88 · 19/03/2025 10:33

I think it could result in crime too, not just work place issues.

Pigeonqueen · 19/03/2025 10:32

Ineedadrink12 · 19/03/2025 10:29

I don’t even know how this would happen. My friend’s DC has left uni with a good degree and can’t find employment. I also know plenty of other people looking for work who are having no luck. These are people without disabilities.

Yep my dd aged 22 is in this position. Graduate, applying for everything from working in Tesco to bar work to graduate jobs (she studied criminology) and can’t get anything other than 2 days a week at a bar (no extra hours to be had). There just aren’t jobs around everywhere for everyone, even those without disabilities. Her best friend who studied English literature is currently working 10 hours a week in Boots.

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