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Knickers... How many is too many?

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CoolOtter · 18/03/2025 21:32

We are changing our bedroom furniture and my new knicker drawer is smaller than the old one; the the drawer needed to be sorted. Turns out I have 173 pairs of knickers!
This got me wondering, does anyone have less than 20 pairs? What is the minimum?

OP posts:
ShodAndShadySenators · 19/03/2025 08:40

Gazillions. I have had a cull recently where I've realised that some of the fancy ones are just not going to get worn, as I will always pick a comfy pair first. I bought one lot because they were apparently super comfy. Then another set were lauded as SUPER SUPER comfy so I got some of those too. And bought a second set as they were indeed the most comfortable drawers I've ever had...

(I also take two pairs per day on holiday and usually in summer here in the UK, will change for a fresh pair during the day. Going to the loo and pulling a pair of cold, clammy sweaty knickers back up... horrible!)

Sarah2891 · 19/03/2025 08:21

About 10 pairs. More than enough for me.

StarlightLady · 19/03/2025 08:14

Unless l’ve a heavy period, l wouldn’t wear knickers in bed. I hate wearing anything in bed.

l usually have a bath or shower after work (l shower first thing when l get up as well), but often don’t bother to wear any in the evening unless l’m going out.

l travel a fair bit for work, but wash things when away, the same when on holiday. I can’t imagine bringing a suitcase full of dirty knickers back. With so many on the line on return the neighbours would think l’ve put the flags out 😀.

CarrieOnComplaining · 19/03/2025 08:05

I don’t wear pants (or anything) in bed.

I am sure everyone puts on clean pants after a shower, but if I shower in the evening and only wear pants for a short while I might put the same pair back on the next morning to go to the gym and then put clean ones on after post-gym shower.

Keeping my washing bills and climate change down one pair of pants at a time.

minnienono · 19/03/2025 08:05

And as for holidays, if over a week I do a wash, no choice as we usually are on the motorbike and space is very limited. Even when we cruise i realised quickly they offer free self service laundry facilities and it means you have less to do when you get home

minnienono · 19/03/2025 08:01

@IncessantNameChanger

why do you need knickers in bed Grin so no I don’t change them I just put them in the laundry basket, I sleep naked.

murphys · 19/03/2025 07:58

IncessantNameChanger · 19/03/2025 07:55

Far too many. Like a pp I'd want at least two pairs a day for a two week holiday. Do people seriously never change them for bed? After a evening shower or wear the same pair for 24 hours?

Also too many socks. Right now I'm wearing both to death and aiming to rotate them into the bin before getting to minimal numbers.

I have far too much of everything right now

Edited

I thought at least two pairs is day is completely normal.

Fresh pair in the morning, and fresh pair at night, but I do get that many don't wear any at night.

I do. They are my security blanket at night.

VioletCharlotte · 19/03/2025 07:57

173 pairs is an impressive collection!

I think I just have about 40. I like to put on a clean pair for bed and will always change them if I go out in the evening after I've had a shower.

I've only got about 4 bras though which doesn't feel like enough.

IncessantNameChanger · 19/03/2025 07:55

Far too many. Like a pp I'd want at least two pairs a day for a two week holiday. Do people seriously never change them for bed? After a evening shower or wear the same pair for 24 hours?

Also too many socks. Right now I'm wearing both to death and aiming to rotate them into the bin before getting to minimal numbers.

I have far too much of everything right now

wotsitallfor · 19/03/2025 07:54

I have about 100, also too many.

What an illuminating thread.

AuntieMarys · 19/03/2025 07:46

I have 21. 7 pairs of 3 different styles....2 sets of Wirana boxers ( long and short styles) and a set of pants for the gym. I replace each year.
3 bras...1 black, 2 nudes tshirt bras.
7 pairs of socks.

LittleEarrings · 19/03/2025 07:36

Haha I recently had surgery and am still off work so today’s job to kill the boredom is actually sorting out my knicker drawer!
I know I have too many, I would hazard a guess at 50 pairs? But I have so many different styles, like thongs, shorts, big after childbirth knickers (that I still wear at night sometimes when I’m feeling bloated and uncomfortable!), period knickers, ‘invisible’ ones etc . So will report back later!

RedRiverShore5 · 19/03/2025 07:24

I have about 40, fortunately, as M&S discontinued my favourite knicker so glad now I bought loads when they were reduced

StarlightLady · 19/03/2025 07:21

I’ve around 20 pairs of knix. I always buy 2 matching pairs when l buy a new bra and supplement those with others though. I strive to match but don’t always achieve.

Cynic17 · 19/03/2025 07:18

AnOldCynic · 18/03/2025 22:06

It’s possible to handwash on holiday…

In a good hotel, send stuff to the laundry. Knickers, T shirts etc come back the next day, nicely folded and like new. Keeps the packing down, and it's one if my favourite things about being away.

Trumptonagain · 19/03/2025 07:11

noworklifebalance · 18/03/2025 22:41

Who wants to hand wash ever? Let alone on holiday and least of all underwear.

Exactly.

Trumptonagain · 19/03/2025 07:07

AnOldCynic · 18/03/2025 22:06

It’s possible to handwash on holiday…

I'd never of guessed.

NattyTurtle59 · 19/03/2025 06:38

I can't be bothered counting, but I imagine it would be fewer than 20, most of which are identical black boyshorts. I will only buy more if I throw some out.

murphys · 19/03/2025 04:40

Probably 60 pairs or thereabouts.

I do have some that are my favorite and on constant rotation. The others are part of a set or ones I bought thinking they would be comfortable, but actually are not.

As I have got older my body shape has changed and the style I used to like just don't fit that well anymore.

But I haven't the heart to part with them as I'm convinced I'll have a small pert bum again one day. 😂

I have those I wear every day, then certain ones under leggings. Nude colour for under white clothing etc.

I don't think 10 pairs of the same type would work for me as what I wear depends on my outfit.

Onlyvisiting · 19/03/2025 03:05

MidnightMeltdown · 18/03/2025 22:47

How on earth do people cope with such few pairs?! You must be constantly doing washing!

What happens if you go away for a couple of weeks and you need to pack 14 pairs?! Do you wear no knickers in the lead up to your holiday, and when you get back? Or do you just wear the same pair over multiple days? 😂

I haven’t counted, but I reckon that I have at least 50 pairs. All different kinds. Comfy cotton everyday knickers, period knickers, special occasion knickers, seam free knickers for when I need to avoid vpl, sexy knickers etc etc

I don't! Haven't been away for more than a few days or a week for years, and that has been places I could do washing g if desperate.
If I suddenly found my self booking a 2 week holiday with no washing facilities I'd probably need to go shopping, for all types of clothes! But it's very unlikely to happen so for general home use a dozen pairs tops in regular use is more than ample. In fact I suspect I have less, but as I rarely get all my washing put away at once I haven't checked lately what is in the clean laundry mountain 😅. I do a load of clothes washing probably twice a week anyway.

LunaTheCat · 19/03/2025 00:51

PickledOnionOverdose · 18/03/2025 22:37

I have got about 42 pairs. I keep them in the wardrobe on those stretchy hangers used for skirts or trousers. I have got 7 pairs on each hanger and wear them in order. I did this to try and wean out all the old holey knickers by wearing and then chucking if they were no good but have kept the system going.

Jeepers - hanging on hangers… that is the peak of organisation!

MidnightMeltdown · 19/03/2025 00:31

Sinkintotheswamp · 18/03/2025 23:32

I'm going to count in tomorrow. I think it's quite a lot.

Loving this image of multiple mumsnetters now sitting at home counting their knickers! 😂

JohnTheRevelator · 18/03/2025 23:56

OMG! 173 pairs! I think I have around 30 pairs. I actually thought that was quite a lot. Seems I was deluding myself. 😂

Sinkintotheswamp · 18/03/2025 23:32

I'm going to count in tomorrow. I think it's quite a lot.

joshingaround · 18/03/2025 23:27

I have 8 pairs. I had a cull recently.