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Knickers... How many is too many?

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CoolOtter · 18/03/2025 21:32

We are changing our bedroom furniture and my new knicker drawer is smaller than the old one; the the drawer needed to be sorted. Turns out I have 173 pairs of knickers!
This got me wondering, does anyone have less than 20 pairs? What is the minimum?

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Giggorata · 19/03/2025 15:58

I must have 50 pairs of plain black cotton tangas, because you don't see them very often these days and I buy them when they are available. I'm about to throw away some of the older ones, which I've had for years and which are beginning to get tired.
I also have about 12 chub rub type shorts for wearing under summer dresses.

user1471538283 · 19/03/2025 15:56

I've had a cull and I've got about 20 pairs now including those to go with matching sets. All my knickers are now comfortable.

I always take 2 pairs per day for holiday as well.

LatteLady · 19/03/2025 15:44

I had a clear out of underwear... I think I am down to 50/60 which feels sparse... but don't ask me about bras

ShodAndShadySenators · 19/03/2025 15:28

TheBang · 19/03/2025 14:50

Please tell me what the super super comfy ones are! Lots of mine are on their way out so I’m going to need some new ones soon.

They were recommended on MN so I thought I'd give them a go. As pps have pointed out, they might not fit your no doubt peachy rear as comfortably as they do my humungous rump, so bear this in mind...

https://www.amazon.co.uk/wirarpa-Knickers-Underwear-Underpants-Multicolored/dp/B0828SHSXY

Amazon.co.uk

https://www.amazon.co.uk/wirarpa-Knickers-Underwear-Underpants-Multicolored/dp/B0828SHSXY?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-5297235-knickers-how-many-is-too-many

Caspianberg · 19/03/2025 15:28

About 15

I would much rather hand wash a few pairs as I go along on holiday than have 40 pairs of dirty underwear in luggage for 2-3 weeks.
same with socks. I probably wear 2 pairs a day on holiday ( out in day, fresh in evening), but I don’t own 28+ pairs socks for a 2 week trip. Plus suitcases would just be full of underwear. Just hand wash every few days.

170+ pairs of pants must cost a fortune

zingally · 19/03/2025 15:17

TheBang · 19/03/2025 14:50

Please tell me what the super super comfy ones are! Lots of mine are on their way out so I’m going to need some new ones soon.

Can't go wrong with the M&S multipack "full brief" style.
They're not as full brief as you'd imagine, but give good coverage and no wedges! Lovely and soft as well.

zingally · 19/03/2025 15:16

I don't know exactly, but when I moved them quite recently, I was shocked at the quantity. There were even a couple still in that rolled up multi-pack style, that I'd clearly never worn, and didn't even remember buying.
I'd guess somewhere between 50 and 75.

StarlightLady · 19/03/2025 15:16

TheBang · 19/03/2025 14:50

Please tell me what the super super comfy ones are! Lots of mine are on their way out so I’m going to need some new ones soon.

The problem is one shape does not suit all. I like M&S Brazilians, they suit my shape, others dislike them.

TheBang · 19/03/2025 14:50

ShodAndShadySenators · 19/03/2025 08:40

Gazillions. I have had a cull recently where I've realised that some of the fancy ones are just not going to get worn, as I will always pick a comfy pair first. I bought one lot because they were apparently super comfy. Then another set were lauded as SUPER SUPER comfy so I got some of those too. And bought a second set as they were indeed the most comfortable drawers I've ever had...

(I also take two pairs per day on holiday and usually in summer here in the UK, will change for a fresh pair during the day. Going to the loo and pulling a pair of cold, clammy sweaty knickers back up... horrible!)

Please tell me what the super super comfy ones are! Lots of mine are on their way out so I’m going to need some new ones soon.

Caroparo52 · 19/03/2025 14:47

Two dozen all M&S the same. Did a huge declutter ladt year. Sooo much easier now

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 19/03/2025 13:54

About 20. Most of mine are from British Boxers as I fine them really comfortable. I've also got a few pairs of granny knickers from when I still had periods, they really need to be thrown out.

LoudPlumDog · 19/03/2025 13:50

I’m not sure exactly, but maybe 10 or 12 pairs.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 19/03/2025 13:46

My cut off is however many fits in my underwear drawer. If I can't shut the drawer I throw out the old ones

Devilsmommy · 19/03/2025 13:45

CheeseWisely · 18/03/2025 21:58

Definitely less than 20. About 12 in regular rotation and a few pairs of nice romantic time knickers that haven’t seen the light of day since DS was born.

Sorry this made me giggle because I've got exactly the same down to the romantic time lacy ones that also haven't seen the light of day since my DS was born 🤭

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/03/2025 13:40

I was going to answer that there is no such thing as too many knickers but on reflection I think 173 is too many. I have about 25.

luckylavender · 19/03/2025 13:05

I always have 25 pairs. 20 in use and one new packet.

StarlightLady · 19/03/2025 12:59

thecherryfox · 19/03/2025 11:43

I know so many people who wear both knickers and bras to bed and I cannot think of anything worse. I would walk in the door and take my bra off straight away and I only ever wear knickers to bed if I’m wearing a nightdress or on my period. I feel restricted and suffocated if I’m wearing underwear to bed! My mum always said to me ‘let things breathe’ so I guess I grew up with that mentality and do it with my own children too

I can’t imagine sleeping in a bra!

l’ve slept naked since l was about 14 (40 something now), mum, dad and elder sister always slept naked for as long as l can remember. I just followed suite. Upbringing again!

Johaanah · 19/03/2025 12:57

Around 40, including 10ish pairs of period pants, some which the elastic has given up on but I use these at night, I recently replaced some very old and worn out Sloggi Tai control pants with the exact same 6 pairs, I also like Sloggi lace Tai mini and I have 9 pairs in black, add to that a random selection of knickers that I rarely wear.

I also take double the amount on holiday, so 28 pairs on a two week break.

LoveDandelions · 19/03/2025 11:44

Less than 20 here, including a few that should really be in the bin, but I can't face looking for new ones 😂

On that topic, can anyone recommend some non-expensive ones that are actually comfortable? Must be cotton...

I still have a few old M&S midis with the lace edges. but I think they've changed now? My Tesco full briefs have scratchy elastic.

thecherryfox · 19/03/2025 11:43

StarlightLady · 19/03/2025 08:14

Unless l’ve a heavy period, l wouldn’t wear knickers in bed. I hate wearing anything in bed.

l usually have a bath or shower after work (l shower first thing when l get up as well), but often don’t bother to wear any in the evening unless l’m going out.

l travel a fair bit for work, but wash things when away, the same when on holiday. I can’t imagine bringing a suitcase full of dirty knickers back. With so many on the line on return the neighbours would think l’ve put the flags out 😀.

I know so many people who wear both knickers and bras to bed and I cannot think of anything worse. I would walk in the door and take my bra off straight away and I only ever wear knickers to bed if I’m wearing a nightdress or on my period. I feel restricted and suffocated if I’m wearing underwear to bed! My mum always said to me ‘let things breathe’ so I guess I grew up with that mentality and do it with my own children too

thecherryfox · 19/03/2025 11:40

So I only wear ‘granny’ style high waisted underwear - I don’t have any variation in style. I have about 4 ‘decent’ frilly style ones. About 10 ‘daily’ ones. And about 4 pairs of ones I wear on my period. They’re literally all black too! I think if I had different colours or styles I would have a lot more - but I just stick to what I know and wear the same ones (obviously different pairs) daily for convenience.

PeachesPeachesPeachesPeachesPeaches · 19/03/2025 11:37

I lost a lot of weight last year - size 24 down to 14. Bought all my clothes from vinted but never got round to going into an actual shop to replace underwear until this month. Threw out all my old knickers, about 30 pairs, and replaced with 8 new ones (plus four pairs of period pants). Keep meaning to get more but seem to be managing fine on this number as I’m doing a few loads of washing a week.

Tagyoureit · 19/03/2025 11:35

By the time I've done laundry and put it back in the drawer, I probably only wear the same 4/5 pair but I have about 30 I reckon.

gladwhiskers · 19/03/2025 11:30

Twelve. Eight winter and four summer.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 19/03/2025 09:28

About 12