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To report my son as missing?

459 replies

stucky · 18/03/2025 21:23

Wondering when to start panicking? DS 22, hasn't been home since Friday day time. He usually lets me know what's going on. It's not unusual for him to spend time at a friends for a day or two, however I've messaged his closest friends, no one's seen him since Friday. His phone been dead since Saturday morning. I know he's not a child, but he's my son and I'm concerned about his wellbeing. Should I report him as a missing person? Or am I overreacting? I just don't know what to do.

Please be kind, I am currently feel very fragile.

OP posts:
sprigatito · 18/03/2025 21:25

Yes, do it now.

Lammveg · 18/03/2025 21:25

I agree with others, report. Sounds very out of character.

Quinlan · 18/03/2025 21:25

You haven’t already? With what you’ve said, i’d have reported it sunday night or yesterday. Why have you waited until now?

Annascaul · 18/03/2025 21:25

Yes, of course. Hope you get good news soon.

TheQuietestSpace · 18/03/2025 21:25

Has he been to work yesterday/today? I think I would report.

Largestlegocollectionever · 18/03/2025 21:24

Yes please do report him straight away, goodness you must be so worried.

Has he ever gone missing before? Does he work?

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 21:24

Yes report.

MumChp · 18/03/2025 21:24

Yes.
I would.

Wildflowers99 · 18/03/2025 21:24

YANBU, please phone now