I’m about to blow my lid. Ds is 1 and a half and likes to try and climb on everything. We’re having DH’s family over (he invited them to stay I wasn’t on board.) They’re constantly criticising what we do wrong and making us seem unfit to be parents ( we have 2 dc.) Ds hurt himself by trying to hold on to the chair and tipping over with it, of course in front of DH’s family. This caused them to say “we could’ve prevented him from hurting himself” although kids hurt themselves all the time and no one’s keeping a tally of all the accidents we do prevent. Next they started making worrying comments about how he could have a brain injury and telling us horror stories about people who are paralysed. Dc barely cried a minute and was back to his normal playful self. God if they seen some of the accidents my eldest has had they’d have a cow. I just left and went in the bedroom but I’m ready to blow and lid. DH did ask them to stop and I can’t really fault him for the behaviour of his family I just think it’s so cruel to be commenting on an accident when the parents already feel bad and guilty enough. Just keep your thoughts to yourself.