Team leader has invited our team (10 of us) to her wedding reception on the bank holiday weekend in a couple of months time.
I've not RSVPd yet even though the deadline has passed but I know she thinks I'm going, everyone else is.
My dilemma is, I have a 4 day weekend and I'd prefer to go and visit my best friend who lives in the UAE.
Would I be unreasonable to ditch the wedding and book the flights?
Should I tell her or just pull a sicky on the day?
Or should I just suck it up and go to the reception...