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To think my insurance should cover me nearly dying?!

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octavio1996 · 17/03/2025 09:05

Posting here because I’m at my wits’ end and don’t know what to do. Currently stuck in Australia after a total nightmare and my insurance company is refusing to pay out.

Basically, I was travelling here on holiday with DH and the DC (two teens, one younger), having an amazing time. Then out of nowhere, I got really ill massive pain, collapsed, rushed to hospital. Turns out it was a ruptured appendix and I ended up in intensive care for days, genuinely thought I was going to die. DH was beside himself, kids were terrified. The hospital care was amazing but obviously, this is Australia, and the bills are absolutely eye-watering.

Here’s the kicker: my travel insurance is now refusing to pay. They’re saying it’s a “pre-existing condition” (it wasn’t), or that I didn’t declare something minor from years ago that has nothing to do with this. I’ve been on the phone to them constantly, but they’re just fobbing me off. We’ve already had to put thousands on a credit card just to get me discharged. We were meant to fly home next week, but I’m not even sure I’m well enough to travel, and obviously, we can’t afford to stay indefinitely.

Has anyone been in this situation before? Do I have any chance of fighting this, or are we totally screwed? DH is trying to stay calm for the DC, but I can tell he’s panicking too. I just want to go home and not be bankrupt.

TL;DR: Nearly died from a ruptured appendix, travel insurance won’t pay, stuck in Australia with a huge bill. Help!

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Katie0909 · 23/03/2025 17:11

I don't have experience with health insurance but we've had issues with a car insurer and complained to the ombudsman who advised that an independent insurer review the case. They found in our favour and the ombudsman eventually ordered the insurer to fix our car after a second complaint. It took ages though as the ombudsman don't get back to you quickly so it's unlikely you will resolve the issue without paying upfront. Good luck, they will try anything to avoid paying.

Badbadbunny · 23/03/2025 08:29

OnTheBoardwalk · 22/03/2025 22:09

@Badbadbunny yes I’m with you about how great the NHS app is but how difficult it can be to put something right

when I started getting the info in the app I could see they said I’d repeatingly refused any stop smoking advice and help for smoking for the last 3 years

i've never smoked in my life (well maybe a couple 30 years ago in high school). It took me ages to get my records updated.

I think they do it to defraud the nhs by claiming they’ve given advice to x number of patients so they can tick boxes on funding applications as “management” of conditions. My gps have always asked if I’m depressed and looked disappointed when I said no - apparently depression was at one time a trigger for additional funding for the surgery. OH is constantly asked if he had erection problems but he’s never once mentioned anything like that. They seem obsessed to diagnose some things and ignore other things you do tell them about. I’m convinced they’re just following the money these days.

Waterballoons · 22/03/2025 22:43

BunnyLake · 17/03/2025 14:39

I think if they ask specific, unambiguous questions then obviously they must be answered correctly but I’m assuming they're not expecting you to volunteer old, vague information they haven't asked for. Year’s ago I had a critical illness insurance. Having read up on it over the years it seems it can be a difficult insurance to get a payout for. I got my payout very easily so I must have filled in my forms accurately.

No, that’s incorrect reasoning. The reason it’s difficult to claim on is because the acceptable conditions are on a list so you need to get one of them. Many conditions are not covered, even if they are ‘critics illnesses’ and so people assume everything is included. Also there are specific levels of severity that are required and often people don’t meet those.
if you compare it to income protection insurance, CIC is very tricky to successfully claim on and yet it’s the one that everyone takes out.

OnTheBoardwalk · 22/03/2025 22:09

@Badbadbunny yes I’m with you about how great the NHS app is but how difficult it can be to put something right

when I started getting the info in the app I could see they said I’d repeatingly refused any stop smoking advice and help for smoking for the last 3 years

i've never smoked in my life (well maybe a couple 30 years ago in high school). It took me ages to get my records updated.

scissy · 22/03/2025 21:00

JasonMurrayMint · 17/03/2025 09:50

Can I just ask, we have travel insurance through our bank account but we are never answer about existing conditions etc, is there some sort of fine print we should be searching for? Bit worried now.

Sorry OP they really are just trying it on, it feels more and more like a John Grisham novel.

Check the fine print. My bank account technically offered "free" travel insurance but it wouldn't my existing medical condition so was effectively worthless.

I believe it was possible to pay a surcharge to be covered, in my case it was cheaper to get better, more comprehensive insurance elsewhere!

Bignanna · 22/03/2025 20:52

Surely you have to reveal everything even if your bank gives you free insurance. They won’t ask- you have to tell them!

Bignanna · 22/03/2025 20:51

shiverm · 21/03/2025 07:49

@JasonMurrayMint we have bank account travel insurance too. I had a catastrophic bleed two days before a big pre planned road trip including expensive flights, car hire and some hotels. It was completely out of the blue and not expected by either nhs or me, but it was related to day surgery I’d had to remove bad cells two weeks before. I hadn’t thought to tell the insurance company anything, and they have no information about my medical history. They paid out with just a letter from the hospital and sent well wishes. They never asked a single thing about my medical history, and I’m not even the named person on the bank account, just the live in partner.

You were lucky!

Waterballoons · 22/03/2025 17:45

octavio1996 · 17/03/2025 09:05

Posting here because I’m at my wits’ end and don’t know what to do. Currently stuck in Australia after a total nightmare and my insurance company is refusing to pay out.

Basically, I was travelling here on holiday with DH and the DC (two teens, one younger), having an amazing time. Then out of nowhere, I got really ill massive pain, collapsed, rushed to hospital. Turns out it was a ruptured appendix and I ended up in intensive care for days, genuinely thought I was going to die. DH was beside himself, kids were terrified. The hospital care was amazing but obviously, this is Australia, and the bills are absolutely eye-watering.

Here’s the kicker: my travel insurance is now refusing to pay. They’re saying it’s a “pre-existing condition” (it wasn’t), or that I didn’t declare something minor from years ago that has nothing to do with this. I’ve been on the phone to them constantly, but they’re just fobbing me off. We’ve already had to put thousands on a credit card just to get me discharged. We were meant to fly home next week, but I’m not even sure I’m well enough to travel, and obviously, we can’t afford to stay indefinitely.

Has anyone been in this situation before? Do I have any chance of fighting this, or are we totally screwed? DH is trying to stay calm for the DC, but I can tell he’s panicking too. I just want to go home and not be bankrupt.

TL;DR: Nearly died from a ruptured appendix, travel insurance won’t pay, stuck in Australia with a huge bill. Help!

In any insurance you have to declare absolutely everything. Sorry that’s happening to you. Must be awful. I just see people not taking insurance very seriously then they get into a lot of trouble. Insurers need to know everything to they can assess the risk. They can’t if you don’t tell them

Morningveg · 21/03/2025 14:25

any update OP? Although I reckon the refused claim with good reason

shiverm · 21/03/2025 07:49

@JasonMurrayMint we have bank account travel insurance too. I had a catastrophic bleed two days before a big pre planned road trip including expensive flights, car hire and some hotels. It was completely out of the blue and not expected by either nhs or me, but it was related to day surgery I’d had to remove bad cells two weeks before. I hadn’t thought to tell the insurance company anything, and they have no information about my medical history. They paid out with just a letter from the hospital and sent well wishes. They never asked a single thing about my medical history, and I’m not even the named person on the bank account, just the live in partner.

ItsTooEarlyForThis · 19/03/2025 21:27

JasonMurrayMint · 17/03/2025 09:50

Can I just ask, we have travel insurance through our bank account but we are never answer about existing conditions etc, is there some sort of fine print we should be searching for? Bit worried now.

Sorry OP they really are just trying it on, it feels more and more like a John Grisham novel.

Sorry if someone has already replied to this, haven’t RTFT.
There Is likely a number to call to disclose pre existing medical conditions when you have travel insurance via a bank account, they sometimes charge an extra fee for you to be covered.
The bank should have explained this to you when you signed up for the account, especially if there is a fee for it, as the product may not suit your needs if you can’t be covered and therefore you could have a claim of miss-selling…

coldcallerbaiter · 19/03/2025 17:51

Isn’t most bank cover wanting conditions within the last year? The year starts at the renewal date. I have bank insurance that moved from Uk insurance to aviva and pretty sure both want 1 year.

Never heard of last 5 years or decades. Do you mean that because it is rolling, they are picking out from previous years what you did not declare? Even though not in current year.

If it’s not the case please tell me !!!

Badbadbunny · 19/03/2025 14:34

InvestingMimi · 19/03/2025 13:28

This is why you should check your medical records periodically to make sure that it’s accurate so that insurance companies can’t misconstrue complaints. My doctor had stated in my records that my first pregnancy was unwanted which is completely untrue it was unplanned not quite the same thing.

I agree.

On my NHS Direct App, it shows I have a medical condition of "De Quervain's Disease". I'd never even heard of it before I checked the app and certainly never been told that I had it and not receiving any form of treatment for it. Turns out it was from about 20 years ago when I had stabbing pains up both wrists and the GP referred me to a consultant - he didn't diagnose it (not to me anyway), but wanted to give me steroid injections which I refused as I didn't want to go down that route as the first level treatment, so he suggested wrist splints instead for which he wrote back to the GP to ask him to refer me to the phyisotherapy dept for wrist splints to be issued. I got them, wore them a few months, pain disappeared, splits put into the bottom drawer, forgot all about it for 20 years until I saw the "condition" on the NHS App. Eventually, after a LOT of effort and hassle, I got the GP surgery to remove it from my "list of conditions".

Another time, I looked on the app to see what the GP had noted about a consultation I'd had - it was absolutely not an accurate reflection of what I'd reported nor what the GP had responded. Things had been missed out and a couple of things that hadn't been said were included. Again, took a lot of effort, but I had the record corrected.

Makes sense to keep an eye on the NHS app to watch what they've put on and check it's accurate!

InvestingMimi · 19/03/2025 13:28

This is why you should check your medical records periodically to make sure that it’s accurate so that insurance companies can’t misconstrue complaints. My doctor had stated in my records that my first pregnancy was unwanted which is completely untrue it was unplanned not quite the same thing.

TwinklySquid · 19/03/2025 12:16

Ask the insurance company for their complaint process and start a stage one complaint. If you get no luck, ask to do to a stage two complaint. Again, if no luck, go to the Financial Ombudsman.

The not declaring is usually for things they would never have offered cover for. Mild IBS isn’t something they’d never cover for. They are being unreasonable .

IsThistheMiddleofNowhere · 19/03/2025 10:41

That's just ridiculous! I would expect them to pay. I don't see how mild IBS from years ago can be linked to a burst appendix. I never knew you had to declare every single thing when applying for travel insurance, which when you reach middle age, will take a good hour or two to remember everything back to childhood. Who has time to do that? There seems little point in taking out travel insurance now. Just have to hope you don't fall ill on holiday or if you do, just expect to die in the street rather than rack up thousands of pounds for surgery. Wishing you best of luck in getting them to pay up.

Malbecqueen · 18/03/2025 23:16

I would challenge this on 2 grounds- 1- if it’s not been diagnosed it’s not a pre-existing condition. You can’t be expected to declare every time you have something that sends you to the GP

2- if the non-disclosure is not related to the incident, then they should not be able to avoid the policy in the entirety. Rather they can reduce the amount that they indemnify you in proportion to the increase in premium they would have charged if you had declared it. Frankly I doubt the premium would have been any different

make a formal complaint and good luck

Devianinc · 18/03/2025 22:59

biscuitsandbooks · 17/03/2025 09:07

You have to declare absolutely everything to travel insurance - did you?

No one knows if their appendix will burst. That’s one of life’s surprises. Is it bc you didn’t tell them that you were going to be out of the country. I’ve heard stories like that. Crazy.

user1471516498 · 18/03/2025 22:56

I once forgot to declare that my smear test had picked up that I had thrush, and tried to deny me cover for a broken leg..10 years later. It was covered in the end.

Bakedpotatoes · 18/03/2025 22:40

SirDanielBrackley · 17/03/2025 09:57

I didn’t declare something minor from years ago that has nothing to do with this.

Non-declaration is non-declaration. Whether you think it has anything to do with your current condition or not. The proposal forms are quite clear everything must be declared.

I would have refused a claim on this basis (& when I worked for a major UK insurance company, I sometimes did).

Frankly, I think there is more to this than we are being told.

I wouldn't remember every detail of every Dr appointment in my life. I don't think any insurance company has asked for that level of detail for travel?

Gogogo12345 · 18/03/2025 22:28

Mischance · 18/03/2025 21:59

All you need is a battle when you have been so ill. ...........

I don't go abroad now because I cannot afford the insurance for my plethora of health problems. I suspect that even if I paid out for the insurance they would find a way pof wriggling out of any claim as the problems are complex.

I merely don't buy insurance as its prohibitively expensive and risk OF not being able to get a claim approved after paying ££££. It's the reason I don't got to America

Mischance · 18/03/2025 21:59

All you need is a battle when you have been so ill. ...........

I don't go abroad now because I cannot afford the insurance for my plethora of health problems. I suspect that even if I paid out for the insurance they would find a way pof wriggling out of any claim as the problems are complex.

Confusednoodle1 · 18/03/2025 19:58

I haven’t RTFT so sorry if I’m repeating what’s been said. I’ve worked in the insurance industry for 15 years so just wanted to provide some insight from an insurance perspective.

You need to exhaust the insurers own complaints procedure before you can escalate to the ombudsman, get started on that asap. The insurers will be charged by the ombudsman to handle the complaint so it’s not really in their interest to let it escalate that far.

Typically with insurance they can repudiate the claim if they can demonstrate that had they been aware of whatever they allege was undisclosed they would not have provided cover. If they would have not provided cover or perhaps provided cover with some specific exclusions had you notified them of “previous IBS” then they do have grounds to dispute your claim. I’m not saying they are right, as I can’t see how the two are connected if I’m honest and it does seem a bit far fetched.

Unfortunately you might be in for bit of a battle but do not give up, press them, make sure they confirm their position in writing. Keep it all. Push for a complaint to be logged if not already and make sure they stick to the complaints time line set out.

Hope you manage to get resolved and you have a smooth recovery.

PetuniaT · 18/03/2025 18:06

Another insurance company blag. I find that most insurance policies are guaranteed to pay out on everything - except a claim.

Cosyblankets · 18/03/2025 14:00

Panterusblackish · 17/03/2025 22:37

The best way to think of insurers is as a massive bunch of scamming cunts.

They take your money and will do literally ANYTHING to get out of paying out.

If you sneezed three years ago. It will be an excuse not to pay. Look at the recent case of the woman holidaying in the US whose doctors said she couldn't be moved. I think it was Aviva that said if the family did not agree at that moment on the phone to repatriate her, that they would cut funding off. They basically were willing to risk killing her to avoid paying.

I had to have emergency surgery the day I was supposed to fly on holiday. The insurer (through Lloyds) never paid out. Not pre existing conditions. The just made it impossible. They would ignore for months and then ask for another piece of info. In the end they wanted my GP to provide my entire medical history so they could examine the run up to the operation. There was no run up. At all. I gave up as it as apparent they wouldn't pay.

I lost a pair of earrings that were listed on the house insurance, the insurer said that unless I could 100 per cent guarantee they were lost on the house they wouldn't cover them.

We had our bikes stolen from our garage. They had been bought in cash, years before. We didn't have photos of them so they would pay out because there was no evidence they existed. Well apart from the fact we had been paying extra bike insurance for FIVE YEARS.

They're a bunch of cheating bastards I'm afraid.

The earrings will be because you opted not to insure them out of the house as it will have been more expensive.
If the bikes were expensive enough to insure you should have had a receipt even if you paid cash. Did you have no photos of them or anything? Just playing the devil's advocate here and looking at it from the other side