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Threw an egg at a car in an insomnia fuelled rage. AIBU?

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EggVigilante · 17/03/2025 08:58

I live in a block of flats with a turning square for cars outside. It’s painted with double yellow lines.

Unfortunately, this space attracts antisocial behaviour, especially during warmer months. We tend to get cars parking up and people congregating there during the night, with people playing music and chatting/shouting away at all hours.

In the past I’ve just turned over and tried to get back to sleep (often being woken up a few more times that night). This was a real blight on our lives last summer, but we’ve had a bit of respite over the winter. Last year I thought seriously about what I could do to try and get the noise dealt with by the council, but from research (and past experience about a noisy neighbour), I don’t think this is likely to be effective. It’s not always the same cars/people. I’ve thought about going out there and asking people to be quiet, but given how inconsiderate they are being, I doubt this would work (and feels potentially dangerous). After thinking about it I decided there was nothing I could really do to solve this, and it was just one of those things, and I’d have to lump it.

Last night I was jolted awake at 3:30 am by loud music booming from a car. I looked out the window and saw it had pulled up just outside.

I had a tough week last week, getting some bad health news, and I have been suffering from a bit of insomnia. My job is always quite full-on, and I was already filled with a fair bit of post-weekend dread about the amount of work I’ve got to get through this week. I thought I’d been coping pretty well, but I do feel a bit stretched thin.

When I saw the car parked there, blaring music so loudly and probably waking at least a hundred people up in the overlooking flats, I was so incensed that I ran into the kitchen, grabbed an egg, and lobbed it from the window.

The egg splatted harmlessly next to the car, which drove away sharpish.

AIBU to become the egg vigilante?

OP posts:
ButThisIsMyHappyFace · 18/03/2025 18:53

I used to live in a rough area of a major city, with lots of antisocial behaviour. I used to open the window and shout at people to tell them to shut up because people were sleeping (but I was on an upper floor). Eggs sound quite reasonable.

asrl78 · 18/03/2025 18:51

You are being unreasonable, you should have used a brick and aimed more accurately. Being serious, I really hate this sort of behaviour of which there is tons of it around these days as though the UK is competing at a global level for the most thoughtless dystopic population.

BusyMum47 · 18/03/2025 18:50

Floatlikeafeather2 · 17/03/2025 09:01

I think you were remarkably restrained. Work on perfecting your aim though.

😆⬆️

Beautifulweeds · 18/03/2025 18:48

Don't blame you, it's something we would all want to do. Is there any way you get the council to do something about this? So sad and horrible they have to meet up in a piece of tarmac and cause problems for residents. Just why? They should go to a playground, arseholes. Xx

MadeInYorkshire69 · 18/03/2025 18:47

Not2identifying · 17/03/2025 09:28

I think some of the people saying you shouldn't have done it have probably never lived in those kind of neighbourhoods. I have and I know that righteous rage is like nothing I've ever experienced. I'm thrilled you had such a good solution and hope you can continue to use it to see off the scum keeping lots of people awake at night.

I came here to say this. If you don’t understand the rage you are very privileged to have not experienced this anti social noise.
Very glad all I have now is the screech of amorous foxes at 3 am

PoppyTries · 18/03/2025 18:46

I would say you are not unreasonable, but then I’m the woman who dumped a pitcher of ice cold water off my balcony onto some drunken harpies shrieking outside my building about a sports team’s win.

swimmumof2 · 18/03/2025 18:44

Get a powerful flash and flash them as if you are taking photographs. Or take photographs. That should deter the more than starting a food fight.

LillyPJ · 18/03/2025 18:41

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:07

Yabu. My children are both severely allergic to egg and that is not unusual. Contact with egg could kill them.

Not that they would behave like that (I hope!). But you must not view egg or any other food as benign and harmless. It could kill.

What a ridiculous comment. This egg was outside the car and the driver was inside.

SantoriniSunrise · 18/03/2025 18:40

I would say absolutely go for it.

The only thing I'd be worried about is retaliation, if they are able to see which flat the egg was thrown from.

Skodacool · 18/03/2025 18:38

Call the police every time.

Wooky073 · 18/03/2025 18:38

Bravo ! But seriously you do need to look for other solutions for your own safety.

Get an air purifyer in your room that is quite loud but constant to act as white noise and drown out other noises. Use ear plugs, move bedrooms to the back of the house, get some ultra thick curtains with ultra thick lining to dampen down the sound. Lots more you can do yet.

LillyPJ · 18/03/2025 18:36

It's a shame you missed! Think of all the people who must be grateful that you made the car go away. It was the car driver who was unreasonable. Next time, improve your aim!

Flynnshine · 18/03/2025 18:34

This is hilarious. I did the exact same things many years back when I lived in a block of flats. Every single morning from 5am a taxi would park underneath my bedroom window (I was 3 floors up) and sit with the engine idling with the radio on loud for an hour. After a few weeks of misery I went to the kitchen, picked up a pack of 6 eggs and emptied the lot on top of the car.

it never came back 😊

DreamTheMoors · 18/03/2025 18:32

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:07

Yabu. My children are both severely allergic to egg and that is not unusual. Contact with egg could kill them.

Not that they would behave like that (I hope!). But you must not view egg or any other food as benign and harmless. It could kill.

So now you’re a would-be murderer, @EggVigilante.
Imagine going from egging to murder in one poorly executed toss.

Mere1 · 18/03/2025 18:27

Fountofwisdom · 17/03/2025 09:07

Is it private or council housing? If it’s council, you should definitely contact your housing officer and if you know your neighbours well enough, get them to do the same so the HO takes notice.

Also find out who your local Councillor is and you’ll easily be able to get their email address and write to them. Councillors are usually keen to keep the electorate happy.

Also contact your local neighbourhood policing team - tell them there’s drug-dealing etc going on and they should be interested.

If there are double yellow lines, the Council should be enforcing no stopping, although obviously there won’t be wardens out and about late at night.

Good advice here.

OldScribbler · 18/03/2025 18:20

Porkydorky · 17/03/2025 09:02

I’m sorry OP but this made me laugh! I don’t think you are being unreasonable at all as sleep deprivation is the worst and they were being very antisocial at a ridiculous time of the night. But it might be worth going down the official route of contacting the council as well as stocking up on more eggs?

Improve your aim and good luck

Ilovecleaning · 18/03/2025 18:13

madamweb · 17/03/2025 09:07

Yabu. My children are both severely allergic to egg and that is not unusual. Contact with egg could kill them.

Not that they would behave like that (I hope!). But you must not view egg or any other food as benign and harmless. It could kill.

FFS! Are you for real??? Or are you purposely being provocative?

Doverboy · 18/03/2025 18:13

An egg hitting a car will damage the paint and you started your rant about "anti social behavior", but I guess throwing an egg is social behavior. Call your local police and let them handle it before one of the "anti-socials" teaches YOU a lesson

mrsbojangles2 · 18/03/2025 18:11

OP, definitely contact your local councillor and also the police, asking for the local lead on anti social behaviour. I had a similar problem and they 'designed out' the problem by installing a kids play area. I was pleasantly surprised how seriously it was taken. Encourage other neighbours to back you up. Good luck. Ps, I would have thrown something much heavier and damaging than an egg so don't beat yourself up. No pun intended!

RobertJohnsonsShoes · 18/03/2025 18:06

Meh. Worse things have happened

dcthatsme · 18/03/2025 18:04

I feel for you op. If there’s not much you can do my advice would be to buy yourself a job lot of silicone ear plugs. They do work. I’ve lived with a man who snores unbelievably loudly - I would have committed far worse than lob an egg at him if it wasn’t for these life savers

Kirstk · 18/03/2025 18:01

Stock some eggs in your freezer for next time.

MediatorMom · 18/03/2025 17:59

Are you private or city council and would you/they be willing to offer a neighbourhood conflict communication or community mediation sessions? Sometimes a conversation can go a long way.

Owl55 · 18/03/2025 17:56

Try a pack of beer next time!

Ferrfoxache · 18/03/2025 17:55

I'd have felt the same way as you however confronting them could turn nasty. Best thing to do is say nothing but try document it on your phone where possible and contact your local council and or Police with any evidence of their anti social behaviour. Always put YOUR safety first.

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