My partner and I seem not to agree on many things.
It's either we go by what he wants or I am mostly the one who backs out and let's him be the boss.
He pretends to ask my opinion but eventually does what he wants.
Basically I can't even change anything in our house as it always stirs up trouble.
Whenever I suggest even purchasing something for our house, it's met with "we don't need it, or if I ask his opinion on something I would like to get for our home he meets it with " do whatever you like".
Recently we went to buy a door carpet that he has declined for ages.I had to put my foot down as I really tire with cleaning the door step "which my partner doesn't do".When we were at the shop, he kept looking at his phone chatting with his friend who had a party later and when I asked for his opinion all he said was "I wouldn't even be here at this time were it not for you"
What to do?
Are we really a team?