Hello
Ive been with my partner 11 years , he’s a good man and my soul mate . He has 2 sons 26 and 29 with his ex wife . He’d been divorced years when I met him . She has never met anyone else .
From what I’ve heard in the past , she absolutely rinsed him when they divorced , he gave everything to her , he ended up for a couple of years sleeping on friends sofas .
From day one of meeting him she’s always been there , ringing him up at first getting him to do DIY round her house , the 2 sons don’t have partners and there’s been issues with them growing up , nothing major but she babies both of them and they live with her .
Christmas , Fathers Day , Birthdays he goes over there , his mum passed away last year and she went to the funeral even though she hadn’t seen his mum for 15 years .
Youd have thought I’d be used to it , but yesterday as it was his birthday in the week he was going out with his 2 boys for dinner , but he got home and I found out she’d gone too ! I feel so angry about it . AIBU?
Its messing with my head !