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To think the average Londoner is better looking?

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raelech · 16/03/2025 09:11

I’m from a town near Manchester. Often go to towns nearby and into Manchester. There are all sorts of people of course.

I am currently in London and I can’t get out of my head that the average person here is much more attractive than the average person outside of London. I can’t place why. Is it that people here have more dosh for skincare?😂

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babasaclover · 17/03/2025 07:27

It’s true and if you want to see the best of the best visit Canary Wharf. The women are so stylish and slim and beautiful! And presumably intelligent as working in the banking sector

RampantIvy · 17/03/2025 07:25

My local authority had the highest incidence of adult obesity in the UK according to one survey by Public Health England a few years ago.

I can believe that it might still be the case. Whenever I go into town I do see a lot of very overweight people.
It will be due to deprivation, poor job prospects, lack of good public transport and poorly educated people.

ElbowsUpRising · 17/03/2025 07:20

JoanOgden · 16/03/2025 09:19

I live in London and IME Londoners are slimmer on average than the UK population generally - probably because they drive less and use public transport more so have to walk a lot. They're also richer on average so have more money for healthy food and nice clothes.

I think there's something in the walking more and being slimmer. I spent a week in London once and ate out every day, loads of cake and snacks. Walked an average of 25,000 steps a day compared to my usual 7000/8000 and lost 2lbs in a week!

Simplestars · 17/03/2025 07:18

They are slimmer due all the walking I guess.
They seem to eat better. More choice and money.
The dress sense is usually well put together and you get many individual styles.
Loads of confidence.

BrownPapery · 17/03/2025 07:13

Londoners are (on average) younger, slimmer and richer than the rest of the country. All things that make it easier to be attractive.

FNDCausedByAntipsychotic · 17/03/2025 07:11

fatgirlswims · 16/03/2025 09:25

YANBU for the places I have visited in London I agree. But also depends on the place. I’m sure some of the areas with highest levels of deprivation won’t be the same.

But yes statistically:
more money /less deprivation
longer life expectancy
younger average age
more access to services
high number in creative industries
Better clothes shops
higher rates of exercise
Higher public transport use so more walking
More media influence / lifestyle influence

I think this nails it, at least for the fashionable areas of London anyway.

Stepfordian · 17/03/2025 07:10

I haven’t read the full thread but there was a study on this and in general people who are more attractive are more successful and gravitate towards London and the south east, I think I heard it being discussed on the radio or on a podcast.

sideeyes · 17/03/2025 07:10

raelech · 16/03/2025 09:11

I’m from a town near Manchester. Often go to towns nearby and into Manchester. There are all sorts of people of course.

I am currently in London and I can’t get out of my head that the average person here is much more attractive than the average person outside of London. I can’t place why. Is it that people here have more dosh for skincare?😂

I have a friend (male) with a Canadian partner (male). When they first got together (London), he would occasionally take his Canadian partner to Canal St in Manc and say, ‘see, it could have been a lot worse than me…’

CaptainMyCaptain · 17/03/2025 07:08

Lambington · 16/03/2025 09:22

Yanbu. It's the way Londoners hold themselves. Comfortable in their own skin.
They are also generally kinder and more tolerant than those in other parts of the country which comes out in their faces - a smile makes everone look more attractive than a frown.
People in the "regions" always seem to be scowling / complaining / blaming someone else. Not attractive behaviours.

Really? I couldn't wait to get away from London having lived there for 10 years. I hated it and never go back to visit. I don't think I'm uglier now although I am definitely older.

winterdarkness · 17/03/2025 07:08

London is full of people from other countries so not sure whether you mean exclusively the British ones, or you are comparing with all the Italians, French, Spaniards, Russians etc.

in any case, people walk a lot in London so they tend to be slimmer.

Adelstrop · 17/03/2025 07:02

I worked in London for 30 years. Unfortunately during that time I was not amazingly good looking, but the upside is that I haven't got uglier since moving away. The thing that has happened (much to my surprise), is that I have got older. Now when I go up to London, I notice how much younger most people are. That's obviously because most people are going to (central) London for work, so are working age, and not the high end of that, as by that time they are burnt out and heading for the provinces. That could account for all the beautiful people.

ThisUsernameIsNowTaken · 17/03/2025 06:59

It's more diverse / international and more people are educated to a higher standard. So better diets and more fashion awareness.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 17/03/2025 06:56

People are noticeably a lot thinner.

More likely to be childfree in London, so more time to spend on selves.

CurrentHun · 17/03/2025 06:50

London people are friendly. And from all over the world and have a different energy to the rest of UK. It’s having money ( in some cases) and an outlook as well. More open.

CheekyNameChange123 · 17/03/2025 06:45

I agree! We live near Manchester and whenever I go into town it strikes me how unattractive 90% of the population is…. Down south generally people are more attractive it must be due to socio-economic factors.

Itsalljustinmyhead · 17/03/2025 06:39

Interestingly a school mum who moved here from Cape Town a couple of years ago said the most striking difference to her was how many disabled people we have, plus people who for want of a better word are ‘odd’. We have a lot of people who sit on benches with cans of beer half out of it, or sit vaping in their mobility school, talking to themselves.

Becs258 · 16/03/2025 23:37

I’m from London and go back regularly, can’t say I’ve noticed it there. However, on a trip to Liverpool, the men were decidedly better looking. So maybe it’s taste. Maybe it’s where you come from 🤷‍♀️

Livelovebehappy · 16/03/2025 23:05

You’re kidding right? The last time I was there (and I lived in London a few years ago for a period of time) it was full of very shady, scruffy looking chancers (apart from the tourists who were pretty identifying).I’ve no doubt there are a few glamorous people there somewhere, this is London after all, but far more beautiful people in cities like Rome and Paris.

SixtySomething · 16/03/2025 22:45

Perhaps it's because there are so many more young people in London. Youth and attractiveness are conflated in our society.
Plus, don't forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You might have a different idea of beauty from me.
Actually, I don't agree that people in London are more attractive. They don't smile; they just push past you at speed. But I'm an oldie talking!

HeyThereDelila · 16/03/2025 22:40

It’s because they’re wealthier.

It’s awful and frankly heartbreaking to say it, but it’s true.

We live in a very well off part of the country- when we visit some v poor areas to visit family, often some of the people we see look under nourished and very unhealthy. It’s money and diet.

NewMarmiteJar · 16/03/2025 22:37

For sure mate, Londoners dazzle.

Pipsquiggle · 16/03/2025 22:23

When I first took my Londoner DH to my northern home town, one of the most striking differences for him was that there were so many disabled people and more poverty

There is just so much more money in London - particularly central parts

Itsalljustinmyhead · 16/03/2025 22:14

I’m not from London but I absolutely love Londoners. The accent, the sense of humour, just everything. I don’t recognise what people say about them being unfriendly at all. I used to go a lot for work and quite a few people went out of their way to help me with directions and so on.

Itsalljustinmyhead · 16/03/2025 22:12

JandamiHash · 16/03/2025 21:59

yep. I do think where I am (posh North Yorks) has v good looking people. Who actually say hello! I love going on a walk round these parts as I meet so many lovely people and always manage a nice chat with one or two. That would be seen as weird in London

That’s because you’re much better, more authentic, salt-of-the-earth people than those weird Londoners you speak of. Just a better class of person.

Seventree · 16/03/2025 22:11

I think people in London generally look slimmer and more stylish but not more attractive. I don't know if it's the pollution or tiredness from having so much entertainment on their doorstep, but I always think people look less healthy in London than 'up north'.