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WTF, Mumsnet is peddling butt plugs

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BellyPork · 15/03/2025 21:02

Just enjoying a quiet Saturday night reading Mumsnet and this pops up!

YANBU: Mumsnetters are not the target market for butt plugs

YABU: I think I might buy one

WTF, Mumsnet is peddling butt plugs
OP posts:
Feelinghurt2 · 16/03/2025 00:10

PS I also thought at first glance that the accompanying thread about the cost of a cleaner was part of the advert. "I pay £19 per hour in London". "Yeah this is for regular cleaning". I genuinely thought for a minute that you could get your bum cleaned by one of these contraptions for £19 an hour (but only in London). 😂

Feelinghurt2 · 16/03/2025 00:05

After having to use a suppository for the first time in my life today, which was not my finest hour and actually made me heave, I cannot understand why people would want to stick anything up their bums! Call me old fashioned 😅 😂 I just get adverts for my local garage on Mumsnet. 😂 Maybe they know a prude when they see one. Ha ha 😂

handsdownthebest · 15/03/2025 22:02

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:51

Oh damn! 😆

I should have gone searching for it 🙄

BansheeOfTheSouth · 15/03/2025 21:57

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/03/2025 21:33

https://www.mumsnet.com/h/swearsby/sex

In defence of the op 😁 it's an actual mn section, not a Google ad

They really should be pushing the condoms section.

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:52

BansheeOfTheSouth · 15/03/2025 21:39

Ahhhh it's the nipple clamps I'm missing 😉

😂

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:51

handsdownthebest · 15/03/2025 21:28

I had something pop about about a swingers event…but it quickly disappeared before I could click on it. 😂

Oh damn! 😆

butterfly0404 · 15/03/2025 21:41

I'm getting adverts for Welsh Gold jewellery - buttplug free zone here 😋

EconomyClassRockstar · 15/03/2025 21:40

Mine are for ON sneakers and a pickleball store/Caribbean island thing that keeps rotating. Both of which I have searched for lately.

BansheeOfTheSouth · 15/03/2025 21:39

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:21

@BansheeOfTheSouth · Today 21:18

Why are so many people getting sex toy adverts? Where are mine MN??

You need to search for some dildos and nipple clamps. 😆

Ahhhh it's the nipple clamps I'm missing 😉

loadalaundry · 15/03/2025 21:39

I'm afraid that the adverts are related to searches and clicked links from your IP. Maybe ask your DH if he's been interested in buying one...

This cannot always be true, I had weird Temu ones for a while that showed really odd things like some weird creature with lots of legs. No one as googled that on my phone,

Poutx · 15/03/2025 21:38

pimplebum · 15/03/2025 21:36

OP. Oh dear ….
i think Hubble may have a little surprise for you later
at least I hope it’s you he has in mind

no. The mumsnet native ads are not influenced in the same way as say Google ads are

pimplebum · 15/03/2025 21:36

OP. Oh dear ….
i think Hubble may have a little surprise for you later
at least I hope it’s you he has in mind

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/03/2025 21:34

sometimesmovingforwards · 15/03/2025 21:27

The miracle of personalised ads based on IP search preferences.
Thanks for sharing this Information OP!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It's a Mumsnet ad. Part of their Swears By affiliated ads.

feelingalittlehorse · 15/03/2025 21:31

Furious that my ads are so PG now.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/03/2025 21:31

That's from the mumsnet swears by section. They've got a sex subsection

handsdownthebest · 15/03/2025 21:28

I had something pop about about a swingers event…but it quickly disappeared before I could click on it. 😂

sometimesmovingforwards · 15/03/2025 21:27

BellyPork · 15/03/2025 21:02

Just enjoying a quiet Saturday night reading Mumsnet and this pops up!

YANBU: Mumsnetters are not the target market for butt plugs

YABU: I think I might buy one

The miracle of personalised ads based on IP search preferences.
Thanks for sharing this Information OP!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ItGhoul · 15/03/2025 21:25

I really can’t see why it’s any different to getting any other advert for something you’d never buy. Currently I’ve got adverts for an online casino and some kind of expensive dry cat food. I don’t gamble online and I’ve never owned a cat, but I’m not kicking off about it.

They’re just sex toys. There’s nothing distressing or upsetting about them.

BlueBatsAndBakewellTarts · 15/03/2025 21:24

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:10

How? I can't post feck-all unless I disable the ad blocker. (So I keep ad blocker off!) I haven't had this butt plug ad. I never get anything like this. Fortunately!

Edited

Someone on here suggested the ‘Brave’ browser as Ad block doesn’t work anymore and it’s been fine so far 🤫

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:22

FreeloaderWithAnAdBlocker · 15/03/2025 21:18

I’m in an iPhone so the “hide distracting items” does wonders on websites with ad blocker pop ups.

Thank you. Smile I don't own an iphone though. I'm stuck with the bloomin' ads!

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:21

@BansheeOfTheSouth · Today 21:18

Why are so many people getting sex toy adverts? Where are mine MN??

You need to search for some dildos and nipple clamps. 😆

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/03/2025 21:19

Good to know this is what we're called freeloaders by Justine for wanting to avoid.

FreeloaderWithAnAdBlocker · 15/03/2025 21:18

BatchCookBabe · 15/03/2025 21:10

How? I can't post feck-all unless I disable the ad blocker. (So I keep ad blocker off!) I haven't had this butt plug ad. I never get anything like this. Fortunately!

Edited

I’m in an iPhone so the “hide distracting items” does wonders on websites with ad blocker pop ups.

BansheeOfTheSouth · 15/03/2025 21:18

Why are so many people getting sex toy adverts? Where are mine MN??

Not sure you're right about the target audience @BellyPork, there are plenty of men who like it and a lot of MNters have male partners. Even some who have ED that are assisted by such devices. Shock horror some women use them too.

@Chester23 I get cat treats ads! Also relevant to me are clothing, men's shoes (specifically the ones partner wanted), hotels. Completely irrelevant heating systems and package holidays.