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To think if you don't like seagulls don't move to the coast

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WishILivedOnAFarm · 15/03/2025 16:15

I know i am not BU, I am just venting.

Last summer a family member of DHs's moved to their 'dream house' which is on the coast and under a minute walk to the beach. They can see the sea from almost every room. Wonderful. Gorgeous place. Large detached gardens. Idyllic. We went for their housewarming and the husband was moaning hard about the 'bloody seagulls' which are everywhere and 'fly over the house'. At one point (admittedly he was well into a bottle by then) he went out with a towel and started flapping hysterically at the seagulls flying over. Since then every time we see them or have a conversation with them on the family whatsapp etc he moans almost constantly about the seagulls and how they are doing his head in. He ranted on at our family Christmas dinner etc. We are having lunch there tomorrow and I feel like saying the above- did you not think seagulls would be at the sea? What did you expect? I know they are loud and can be noisy but the fixation on the fact they 'fly over the house' is a bit baffling.

I will confess to being a bit biased on this- I'd love to live where they do. And I don't like this family member much anyway- he's always been a bit of an arrogant 'I know best' sort.

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InSpainTheRain · 15/03/2025 16:32

I'd ask him out right "Did you not expect to get seagulls living this close to the sea?" However, aside from the eye-rollingness of it... is he ok? I mean any rational person would realise this, it seems so unreasonable and illogical (especially flapping at them with a towel) that there is perhaps something wrong with his mental state?

Novotelchok · 15/03/2025 16:30

WishILivedOnAFarm · 15/03/2025 16:16

Actually- I should probably have titled it something along the lines of 'AIBU to think you are going to get seagulls when you move the coast'. Much better title. Loads of people don't like seagulls, fair enough.

you're definitely going to get seagulls if you move the coast! #IStandWithTheGulls #CoastInThePost

Verdansk84 · 15/03/2025 16:29

ObelixtheGaul · 15/03/2025 16:27

I live in a coastal town and there are, of course, seagulls. TBF they can be a problem, but there's things you can do to stop them nesting on your roof, etc. Complaining about their existence, though, is a bit like moving next to a railway line and moaning about the trains.

The birds are part of coastal life. You can't stop them flying over your house. You can't stop them mugging tourists on the beach for their food either. There's warning notices everywhere, here, but the seagulls are experts. They do it in teams. DH and I once witnessed a man subjected to a gang mugging in which they got away with the sausage, then the bread of his hot dog.

they are very crafty, although the puzzlement is some members of the public expect the food sellers to give them another item of what ever it was just because the bird nicked it, its like once you pay then its upto you to be careful

ObelixtheGaul · 15/03/2025 16:27

I live in a coastal town and there are, of course, seagulls. TBF they can be a problem, but there's things you can do to stop them nesting on your roof, etc. Complaining about their existence, though, is a bit like moving next to a railway line and moaning about the trains.

The birds are part of coastal life. You can't stop them flying over your house. You can't stop them mugging tourists on the beach for their food either. There's warning notices everywhere, here, but the seagulls are experts. They do it in teams. DH and I once witnessed a man subjected to a gang mugging in which they got away with the sausage, then the bread of his hot dog.

Verdansk84 · 15/03/2025 16:22

or a joke in the message group what do you get at the sea side = seagulls

Verdansk84 · 15/03/2025 16:22

id ask it anyway especially as its logical sea side + seagulls, personally i like the sounds of them

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WishILivedOnAFarm · 15/03/2025 16:20

shellyleppard · 15/03/2025 16:17

Op its part of living by the sea.....tell him to house swap with you lol 😂

😄I might!

I envy hard their place. Maybe that's why I eye roll so much.

I might send DH on his own tomorrow. The DCs have had a busy week and he won't mind.

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SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 16:18

Look, everyone moans about seagulls even when they're born and bred in a seaside town.

It's a human right to complain 🤣

shellyleppard · 15/03/2025 16:17

Op its part of living by the sea.....tell him to house swap with you lol 😂

WallaceinAnderland · 15/03/2025 16:17

DH would love to live right by the sea but I won't because of the seagulls. I know they would be a complete pain and it's the only thing that stops me living near the sea. Well, that and the overcrowded resorts in summer.

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WishILivedOnAFarm · 15/03/2025 16:16

Actually- I should probably have titled it something along the lines of 'AIBU to think you are going to get seagulls when you move the coast'. Much better title. Loads of people don't like seagulls, fair enough.

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