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Parking in a disabled parking bay

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VividLilac · 15/03/2025 15:37

I am trying to give my 10 year old a little independence. He wanted to get himself ready after swimming lesson and meet me in car park of leisure centre. I was right on time and it was getting a little dark out so I swung into a close(ish) to entrance disabled parking bay. There are around 10 bays in total with one car parked up (I would never have pulled into these spaces if busy and certainly would not have taken the last space). I stepped out the car, waiting next to it for the 40 seconds until he came out of the leisure centre to wave him over. A small child was walking past hand in hand with their grandmother and she loudly started to speak to the child about how selfish it was to park in disabled spaces. Of course she is right and I wouldn’t do it again, no matter what the circumstances but ffs was there any need.

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NewPapaGuinea · 15/03/2025 15:45

“but ffs was there any need…” to park in a disabled space?

Laserwho · 15/03/2025 15:43

If it's late in the day and there's lots of spaces available why didn't you just use a normal space? I'm certain your 10 year old could still have had independence by walking to that space. My own 10 year olds walked back from the sports centre alone at that age

DinoLil · 15/03/2025 15:43

As someone who is disabled and has a painted disabled bay parked on the road outside my house. Which I had to jump through hoops for. And who everyone, no badges, ignores and parks in it, or even literally on my car, boils my piss.

If it was, as you say, empty and you were getting your lad for a couple of minutes pick up, fair enough. But if not, then it's unacceptable.

NotTheDebtDoctorWithTheHungryScalpel · 15/03/2025 15:41

"I would never use a blue badge space, except from circumstances that benefit me" and then you expect others to be mind readers and guess what circumstances you deem appropriate or not.

You were wrong, the lady was right, you just don't like hearing it I suppose.

LittleRedRidingHoody · 15/03/2025 15:41

To be fair, it’s often the straw that breaks the camels back. The grandmother may have her own blue badge and is sick of being unable to park due to people without them. There’s no way for her to tell you’ve considered the empty spaces etc (not that you should’ve stopped there anyway, but you know that)

Whammyyammy · 15/03/2025 15:39

If there's lots if empty spaces and late in the day I really don't see the issue.

mylittlekomododragon · 15/03/2025 15:39

Yes, it’s an ignorant move to park in a disabled bay if you don’t have a blue badge.

cressidahun · 15/03/2025 15:39

She’s right though

MumChp · 15/03/2025 15:38

The grandmother is right...
Was it a need to park there? No.

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