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To be embarrassed my colleague announced my coat size to whole office

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howemb · 15/03/2025 15:19

Bit embarrassing … or am I being over sensitive?

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LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 15/03/2025 15:26

Just can't imagine how that conversation even goes.
I ve never moved a colleague s coat or peered at it and felt the need to announce "omg you take a size 22" or "size 4 God you're skinny".

How was it said?

Notonthestairs · 15/03/2025 15:25

Why would anyone need to call out the size?

If you needed to check who the coat belonged to surely you’d just describe the colour, fabric & style?

Anotherdayanotherdollar · 15/03/2025 15:23

Hoplolly · 15/03/2025 15:20

Oversensitive, it's just a number, and unless they are blind, surely they'd have a good idea what size you are anyway?

Exactly. Whether you're a size 8, 16 or 24, if people are able to see you then they can see what size/shape you are!

BrownPapery · 15/03/2025 15:23

Oversensitive (I’m assuming it was something like “whose coat is this? Jigsaw, size 16?” Not “omg did you know howemb’s coat is a size x?”

Sizes aren’t emotionally laden for some people. They’re just numbers.

DejaMooo · 15/03/2025 15:22

I think it depends on the context. Was it in a sneery way?

SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 15:22

Hard to say really.

I wouldn't give a shite but maybe some others would?

To be fair, you could've written your OP on the back of a fag packet so maybe a bit of context might help?

DingDingRound3 · 15/03/2025 15:21

Was it done to be mean?

ZekeZeke · 15/03/2025 15:21

Well what exactly did they say?

Hoplolly · 15/03/2025 15:20

Oversensitive, it's just a number, and unless they are blind, surely they'd have a good idea what size you are anyway?