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To still prefer browsing via my laptop than a phone?

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MissMarplesCat · 15/03/2025 11:35

I run a small business online so have used a laptop for web related work now for many years - site maintenance, building, etc. Obviously a lot of this kind of work doesn't fit well 'in-app', so an ipad or phone would be arsey.

Reading my stats I am aware that over 96% of my visitors are using Android mobile, followed by iphone. Of course I see this all around me, so it isn't quite news, but it did make me realise that I have a preference.

Whenever I have to access the net via my phone the experience always feels much poorer, a bit hemmed in, and less immersive?

At home I will watch film, view art/photography and shop on my laptop, as well as using it for work purposes. It isn't just the larger screen, I find it better for posture, general chilling out and just moving around the web. I do prefer the ipad to view app related stuff such as instagram, but would always use my laptop to view mumsnet, because the app feels a bit too 'locked in' and and there seem to be fewer choices around navigation and jumping between browsers, etc.

ipads seem to be somewhere in the middle, and according to stats, a much younger age group prefers them. That makes sense, especially for children, but I can't get my head around why adults prefer to do most of their browsing on a phone. My sister is one of them, and has barely used her ipad in years. She's developing a bloody hump!

But what probably concerns me the most is that in-app browsing feels very corporate controlled and restricted, so many apps are like a walled garden that don't have much fluidity regarding getting out of them without losing your place, IYSWIM?
So if I am reading a site like Reddit in an app, if I pop somewhere else for a moment the damn thing resets when I pop back. This feels really limiting and utterly fucks with my attention span.

OP posts:
MissMarplesCat · 15/03/2025 14:01

Well I will be honest , expected a roasting, lol.
I am 52, so do wonder if age has anything to do with it, since I began on a larger screen, whereas many very young people didn't? I also first discovered computers via image editing in art school, so that might explain my preference, too.

I love my phone for maps, texting, a bit of insta and pinterest scrolling in doctor's waiting room or waiting for a train, not to mention booking tickets, but never for relaxing or pleasure.

I think if you are heavily into social media the phone is the thing, too. I never took to SM so only used it for work.

Surprised people are still using desktops - I loved them for creative stuff, but sad to see less of them on the market now. I also think many tech skills are lost to apps, too. I used to run several blogs back int he day, and it used to take some serious fiddlng/code, etc.

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BustingBaoBun · 15/03/2025 12:08

Always use laptop if there is a choice. If I'm on hols and stuck with my phone, I hate it!
I can type quickly on a laptop, I can have lots of tabs up and flit between them. So OP ... I totally agree with you!

I have a tablet too, even that is nowhere as easy as a laptop... but better than a phone!

Ooral · 15/03/2025 12:00

100% agree OP. Computer for me, preferably desktop.

BobnLen · 15/03/2025 11:46

I mainly use my iMac, in fact I have two, I bought a new one recently and put the old one upstairs, I much prefer it for shopping, banking and general browsing, I don't really use my iPhone much at all but do use my iPad more often, all of these are linked so any message and 2FA codes come through automatically to all of them. When we go away in our caravan I tether my iPad to my phone and generally use that, phone only gets used when I'm out really.

Borborygmus · 15/03/2025 11:45

I agree OP. I only browse on my phone as a last resort, I find using a PC is much easier

Uyt · 15/03/2025 11:40

Mostly I prefer using my phone, especially when there is a lot of text. I never read mumsnet on my pc I find it much harder to read. I pretty much only use my computer for work and watching some videos

SherlockHomies · 15/03/2025 11:40

YANBU, I even doom scroll on my laptop 🤣

But that's because my eyes are quite bad even with glasses and I guess I'm just used to a bigger screen.

Also, I'm a touch typist and one-fingered typing on a phone is just slow and weird.