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Absolutely sick of the shop workers and there headsets

84 replies

Pjsallday · 14/03/2025 18:18

I live in a very working class town. There's a fair bit of shop lifting etc and I know the shop assistants have alot to deal with it but I'm sick of feeling like a criminal when I walk into a shop. Went into sports direct today to buy my kid a tracksuit and immediately as I enter I hear the man on the door describe me (height, approx age, hair colour) to all staff on the headset. I was taken aback. Anyway I looked around for what I needed and couldn't find the right size i asked a assistant and he recommended i order online as theres more choice. Fair enough. I ended up purcasing some sports socks instead. Person at the asked me did I get everything I needed I replied no, there wasn't much to choose from and I'd take a look online once I got home. I put my socks in my bag. And as I walked away from the till the assistant on that served me again told.all other staff my description and that i had the purchase in my own personal shopping bag and not a sports direct one. I was then asked for my bloody receipt at the door and could they see the socks in my bag. I was embarrassed as there a 3 pack of bras I got from another sholq in the bag and he was proper peeking in. I know they have to prevent shoplifting etc but it was a uncomfortable experience. I don't really know what I expect from this thread and I probably am bring unreasonable but those headsets really wind me up!

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biscuitsandbooks · 14/03/2025 18:33

I've genuinely never experienced anything like this.

RaraRachael · 14/03/2025 18:32

I'd have asked them politely why they were circulating my description to other staff

TomatoSandwiches · 14/03/2025 18:32

That shop probably is on special measures, likely had a lot of thefts and now they have to do things like this.

HomeBodyClub · 14/03/2025 18:30

… and these shops wonder why people don’t spend money in them. I would have walked straight back out.

I always make a point of getting my receipt because you can never be sure when you’re going to be stopped which is still considering most shops don’t want to print one.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 14/03/2025 18:25

That does sound very extreme.

'Proper peeking at your bras' made me laugh though 🤣

Smokeyblueblack · 14/03/2025 18:25

That is totally ott.
I wouldn't be going back.

TwentyTwentyFive · 14/03/2025 18:24

Goodness me that sounds ridiculous, were you the only blooming customer. Surely they've all got better things to do than track you so intensely.

PrettayGood · 14/03/2025 18:22

Blimey. Was it a shop in a prison compound?

wizzywig · 14/03/2025 18:21

That sounds really extreme! I wouldn't go back