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DH accidentally let baby eat some cinnamon bun?

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August24Mama · 13/03/2025 22:56

AIBU to be annoyed by this... DH had my 6mo and he was eating a cinnamon bun. He said baby grabbed it (she's very fast with her hands) and brought it to her mouth. He immediately stopped her but not before he said she ate a tiny amount of it. Baby is acting fine and no reactions or anything but I'm still annoyed? I'm strict with what she eats don't want her eating processed foods, and obviously no added sugars until 2. She's only had a handful of freshly made fruits and veggies since starting solids at 6 months, I guess now we can add cinnamon bun to the list.

AIBU to be annoyed when it was an accident? I didn't go mad at him or anything but it's been nagging at me since it happened.

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WhenSunnyGetsBlue · 14/03/2025 03:37

Some of these posts are harsh! I mean, the OP says she has PPA and I completely understand the wanting to control food when baby is very little.

OP, it's ok. My first arrggh moment was went I gave my daughter a spoonful of my food which had shellfish in... everything was fine. DD was fine.

I think it's more damaging to obsess over sugar and label good and bad foods than it is to let your child have some occasionally. As she gets older you can't stop her having food like cake etc at parties etc. those who have had no exposure to sugar etc (my DD included) were stuffing their face their face at the first opportunity they had to have something 'sweet'. Ie. Low sugar cake. That was a wake up call for me to relax a little. Ill let her taste whatever I'm eating (soup which is probably too salty), yogurt (with a touch of maple syrup). She enjoys it, it's nice to see her happy. I'm also hoping that desensitizes her a bit.

My point: tiny tastes here and there are probably better than nothing at all. Unless you want a child that eats so many sweets on Halloween that they throw up, or chocolate at Easter, or birthday cake.

Ps. I started a list of 'babies first foods'. I stopped adding to it at about 10 foods because she was just having everything. Just make sure to introduce the allergens separately. ☺️

LBFseBrom · 14/03/2025 03:22

For goodness sake what is wrong with a 6 month old baby eating a bit of cinnamon bun, it's not going to hurt her, she isn't gorging on them.

Waterballoons · 14/03/2025 02:24

August24Mama · 13/03/2025 22:56

AIBU to be annoyed by this... DH had my 6mo and he was eating a cinnamon bun. He said baby grabbed it (she's very fast with her hands) and brought it to her mouth. He immediately stopped her but not before he said she ate a tiny amount of it. Baby is acting fine and no reactions or anything but I'm still annoyed? I'm strict with what she eats don't want her eating processed foods, and obviously no added sugars until 2. She's only had a handful of freshly made fruits and veggies since starting solids at 6 months, I guess now we can add cinnamon bun to the list.

AIBU to be annoyed when it was an accident? I didn't go mad at him or anything but it's been nagging at me since it happened.

Oh Jesus. It’s your first child isn’t it.

I am all for the world ending its relationship with processed foods - would happily see the back of the forever - however, get a grip.

Inyournewdress · 14/03/2025 02:10

Don’t worry OP, it’s natural to feel concerned when you are doing everything you can night and day to protect a little one, and especially if you have PPA or similar things will sometimes be even harder. You’re doing a great job.

Wildflowerswildhorses · 14/03/2025 02:03

My DD used to eat the dirt out of my planters. She's 40 now.

marmellows · 14/03/2025 01:53

I vividly remember whenever I went to a certain friends place we would sneak to the garage and eat all the dogs choc drops ( I assume they were cacao mixed with god knows what).
Sorry to be a bore but please do not let your child eat a snail or slug. A teenager close to where I lived ate one as a dare and caught the bacteria that some can carry.( rat lung disease) He lived for about 3 more years, heavily brain damaged. 99.9% of the time it would be fine but he was very unlucky. I just thought I'd let people know, as it's so rare that it doesn't seem to be well known.

MsAmerica · 14/03/2025 01:50

Not only are you unreasonable to be annoyed - you're showing a disturbing level of fanaticism.

Agapornis · 14/03/2025 01:42

My sister and I regularly ate cat dry food for their bowl. We survived.

Do unfollow the accounts that you find anxiety inducing. Life became easier once I deleted Insta!

MixedBananas · 14/03/2025 01:36

1st baby I see. 😂

ChampagneLassie · 14/03/2025 01:11

sharing food with babies is one of best ways to encourage them to eat. Obviously processed sugar isn’t ideal but I really wouldn’t stress. A friend was over the other day with her 7 month old and let her eat cake, not the icing and we laughed at how much her face lit up and how we’d never have done this with PFB, but a wee bit sugar isn’t going to harm them

Stirabout · 14/03/2025 00:57

they will put all sorts in their mouths

poop GIF
Stirabout · 14/03/2025 00:56

MotherCarmody · 13/03/2025 23:01

One of mine ate a fag butt once. She's 28 now. Pretty sure your baby will be fine 🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

andthat · 14/03/2025 00:50

MummytoE · 14/03/2025 00:31

No worries, you're right I was out of order x

and also very gracious in accepting an apology.

Ruebolive · 14/03/2025 00:49

August24Mama · 13/03/2025 22:58

That's the main thing I was worried about, that it would negatively effect baby in some way. I see now I'm probably overreacting. I'm diagnosed with PPA and it can be very annoying sometimes.

I gave my friends son marmite toast to chew on aged 12 weeks,he thoroughly enjoyed it and is now aged 30 earning mega bucks in the city!!

Proudestmumofone1 · 14/03/2025 00:46

Chill. Childhood is going to be a long road if you’re posting about this at 6 months…

Panpastels · 14/03/2025 00:44

Ffs Cake

SnowFrogJelly · 14/03/2025 00:43

Omg call the cops!!

WellsAndThistles · 14/03/2025 00:41

Get a grip, she'll be eating carpet fluff and licking the doormat soon 🙄

MilnersGold · 14/03/2025 00:39

My first born aged 6 weeks put their fist in a pot of kipper pate and licked it clean and asked for more. They are now 19 and still love smoked fish!

Coaster99 · 14/03/2025 00:36

My husband’s grandmother shoved a small piece of chocolate into my 6mo child’s mouth whilst she was holding him. I protested No No and went to grab him off her, she pushed my hands back, other family members laughed out loud and to my surprise, darling baby boy slobbered and chomped away on the choc with great delight. He didn’t choke or die, but I was extremely bothered by her audacity to do such a thing to my baby.

WillIEverBeOk · 14/03/2025 00:36

Precious First Born syndrome OP? What is wrong with a 6 month old having a bit of cinnamon bun?

MummytoE · 14/03/2025 00:31

andthat · 14/03/2025 00:08

@MummytoE my turn to apologise… have just seen that you said sorry to the OP.

No worries, you're right I was out of order x

Ilikeadrink14 · 14/03/2025 00:20

Chocolateisameal · 13/03/2025 23:02

In the next few months, I can guarantee that she will also manage to eat small amounts of carpet, fluff, clothing, soil and anything else that she can get her hands on. She will be fine.

Why on earth would it affect the baby? You are totally over-reacting! From when they were about 6 months old, my husband would give them a tiny bit of what he was eating, suitably mashed, puréed etc so they could cope with it. When I queried it, he said it was to get them used to different flavours so they wouldn’t be picky eaters. Obviously, he only gave them food that was safe and easy for them to eat, scrambled egg, mashed potato, white fish mashed up, banana etc. They are in their 50s now and eat anything (except for our elder daughter who won’t eat raw tomato, but she doesn’t know why she can’t).
on the strength of that, and assuming the food itself is baby friendly, I think he is doing the right thing.

HarrietofFire · 14/03/2025 00:19

When my dd was 8 weeks old my mum took her dummy out of her mouth, dipped it in a sugar bowl and then popped it back in.

Mumwithbaggage · 14/03/2025 00:15

Dread to think what mine ate :) Oldest is 31 now so they survived.

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