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Lodger entering my room

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rockchic65 · 13/03/2025 12:01

Hi I've had a lodger for 2 months now and have caught him coming out of my bedroom his excuse was to check on my cat.my cats not well and he sleeps in my bedroom.my point is this is not the first time he been in my room and I have told him before it's my room please don't go in my room you don't have permission. The other day I came back from work and caught him coming out of my room again I was fuming and told him 1 more time and your out I have installed a camera today and I'm not telling him.if he did it again can I evict him same day or do I hsve to give him 28 days notice.i don't think he's all there. There was a time I was getting undressed and he poked his head around the door because he wasn't sure if I was in or not but my room is my privacy and he seems to forget what I told him

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MoanasTummy · 13/03/2025 12:02

Red flags everywhere!!!

Lilaccrystal · 13/03/2025 12:02

YABU for not asking him to leave already

Purplecatshopaholic · 13/03/2025 12:02

Yuck, you need to get rid asap op, this guy is not forgetful, he’s a creep.