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Can School Extend Easter?

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EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 18:44

My kid’s school had published Easter holidays as:
Mon 7 April - Tuesday 22nd April

They have written today to extend it to:
Friday 4 April - Thursday 24 April
An additional 3 working/school days

I can’t list all the reasons this is a fucking nightmare for me. Can they just announce this without any consultation and just 3 weeks notice? They haven’t taken any subsequent days off to compensate. It’s an additional 3 days.

YABU - of course they can
YANBU - no they shouldn’t be able to do this

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Moll2020 · 12/03/2025 20:28

If they are having building work done and have to move stuff from one building to another then the council probably haven’t given them much notice.

Matronic6 · 12/03/2025 20:25

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 20:00

Thank you @PhoneStand.

Yes, it’s primary so cannot have DC alone at home. This closure is just the tip of the iceberg in terms of unhappiness at the school for various reasons. I understand costs prohibit an external company being used but I honestly don’t understand why it can’t be a phased move without the need to close the school.

Anyway, I will have to put a plea out to see if anyone will share the leave and hope I can limit my personal leave to 1 day.

And to the poster asking me why I had kids, mainly because I was bored and hoped they would look after me in my old age.

But that would be more disruptive. Instead of all kids missing the days at the same time, you'd have repeated blocks of three days for each kid. If someone had 3 kids in school they may have to sort childcare out for 9 days instead of 3.

JohnofWessex · 12/03/2025 20:21

Schools take a view that they are not childcare which is true to a point BUT parents also plan on them being open on the published dates.

When mine were at First School there was an inset day at short notice over Christmas. We managed to cover it but I did have words with the head and had to point out that my wife & I had to book Christmas leave in advance by a deadline. In fairness she did get the point

blackbird77 · 12/03/2025 20:19

OP this is an exceptional event and a one-off. It’s not something that could be helped. The school literally have to move everything over to the other building! They probably had to wait until the new building was ready. I’m amazed it’s only 3 days.

Students have to have 190 days in school and teachers are allowed 5 inset days for training. These 5 days come off their holiday allowance, not your child’s school allowance. The school can put these 5 inset days anywhere in the school calendar year but usually tack it on to the front or back of a holiday to make it easier for everyone. They are probably using 3 of their Inset days here that they have held in the bank until the new building was ready. Yes it’s usual for schools to publish a calendar in advance with all the inset days on but this is a very exceptional circumstance!

Also schools can be granted extra days in excess of inset days at short notice for things like serious repairs, extreme weather, safety reasons or unusual circumstances.

Sometimes things can be annoying without anyone having done anything wrong. You are right to feel annoyed as it’s unfortunate for your circumstance but it doesn’t mean the school are doing anything wrong here- it’s an unusual situation!

Teenagehorrorbag · 12/03/2025 20:18

Sorry, hrtft but I thought schools were obliged to provide xx days schooling. Assuming the teachers aren't all humping boxes, they should be providing online learning as during covid, at least.

I appreciate that doesn't help childcare issues and the whole thing sounds very poorly planned! Assuming it's a primary school, have you any school mum friends who are SAHPs who could help?

Not sure what else you can do tbh....

Itdoesntmatteranyway · 12/03/2025 20:13

They can if it’s unexpected or if what they need to do can’t be done with pupils on site. And whether they could do it classroom by classroom, or not they will say they can’t.

As others have said, they will have had to ask the LA who will have authorised it so as you said you don’t want to be ‘that’ parent…. only suggestion is if you’ve already taken annual leave for over Easter use the opportunity to have your children’s friends over for a day, on the proviso that you get payback on those extra days? Not ideal I know. But the short answer to your question is yes they can, sorry.

B1indEye · 12/03/2025 20:13

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You must be the world's most easy to baffle person then or are you being deliberately obtuse?

You surely dont think that everyone has a job that can accommodate extra time off with no notice or handy childcare options for unforeseen circumstances do you?

Maybe get out in the real world of working parents and find out the sruggles

Mumrun25 · 12/03/2025 20:12

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It always baffles me when people choose to have children get fined by the school/council for taking them out of school for a few days on holiday, yet here we are.

How are these 3 days of missed education going to be corrected?

ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 12/03/2025 20:12

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 19:14

I mentioned it within 3 minutes of the OP. Does the reason for closure impact on the rules around notice period?

Of course it does.

If the school is on fire, they don't have to tell you the day before that it will be closed. If they are just having an INSET day, they do.

TimeForSprings · 12/03/2025 20:11

Yes, they can do this.
We had similar - with the letters clearly stating they had authorisation from LEA and/or DfE (sorry, can't remember exactly).

Is there any way you could shift your work holiday around, and put in the days needed, and cancel some dates when holiday clubs could be available?

Hope you can find a solution.

PhoneStand · 12/03/2025 20:07

Branleuse · 12/03/2025 20:03

School isn't intended as childcare in the uk.
If parents workplaces are inflexible then that's a separate issue.

You were a sahm when your kids were younger, yes?

ThisHazelDog · 12/03/2025 20:06

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 18:49

It’s a state school. It’s to do a move of stuff from one building to another. It’s not being labelled as “Inset” days by them. The inset days are already in the calendar.

Yeah, if they’re moving building they can add on extra days for this. So the teachers and staff will all be in working to set up the new building and make sure it’s safe for the kids

BallerinaRadio · 12/03/2025 20:05

What are you hoping for, someone to tell you it's not allowed and you're going to march into school and demand they remain open with the threat of legal action? How far are you going to take it?

These things happen. As others have said school don't 'owe' you childcare, it's just one of those things. You'd have to find childcare if your child fell ill so instead of thinking about what you can say to the school focus on sorting it out instead

PhoneStand · 12/03/2025 20:05

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ShhhhhItsASurprise · 12/03/2025 20:04

School that I am a governor of had building works over the summer. Staff went in the last week of the holidays and the dust was inches thick. They had to delay the start of the school year by 3 days to get it finished (and that was with all of the staff and most of the governors helping!).

Branleuse · 12/03/2025 20:03

School isn't intended as childcare in the uk.
If parents workplaces are inflexible then that's a separate issue.

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 20:00

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Thank you @PhoneStand.

Yes, it’s primary so cannot have DC alone at home. This closure is just the tip of the iceberg in terms of unhappiness at the school for various reasons. I understand costs prohibit an external company being used but I honestly don’t understand why it can’t be a phased move without the need to close the school.

Anyway, I will have to put a plea out to see if anyone will share the leave and hope I can limit my personal leave to 1 day.

And to the poster asking me why I had kids, mainly because I was bored and hoped they would look after me in my old age.

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Lilactimes · 12/03/2025 19:59

TeenLifeMum · 12/03/2025 19:33

Buddy up with other parents so you cover one day and look after all the dc and the other parents do a day each so it only impacts one day.

What ages are the dc?

Definitely was a big fan of this - sharing the load with other working mums … plus kids loved it!

ForTealBee · 12/03/2025 19:57

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 18:55

I guess I’m after the ‘rules’ if that is the correct word. I would have thought they would have to give us 3 days back. Appreciate I know nothing about how these things work in practice, hence the thread.

Your frustration is understandable but schools aren't childcare facilities. They don't owe you any days

pengwing · 12/03/2025 19:51

" I expect the SAHM’s are already cringing in anticipation of more of these messages."

Wow, I'd be offering in that situation to help my friends out not cringing.

Mightymoog · 12/03/2025 19:48

EasterEvenLonger · 12/03/2025 18:49

It’s a state school. It’s to do a move of stuff from one building to another. It’s not being labelled as “Inset” days by them. The inset days are already in the calendar.

well if you have plans stick to them and tell them it shouldn't be unauthorised

PhoneStand · 12/03/2025 19:48

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howshouldibehave · 12/03/2025 19:39

Lots of schools around here had terrible problems with RAAC-some were closed for weeks on end before alternative buildings were found. Sadly, it's just one of those things sometimes. I would either buddy up with friend at school and try to do one day each or ask work for parental leave.

Tiswa · 12/03/2025 19:34

Yes if cleared by the LEA for works done. Emergency closures are also fairly common - 2 local high schools and 3 primaries shut down 3 days early at Christmas due to water issues (thankfully it was my year 11) so yes they ca

Frenchbluesea · 12/03/2025 19:34

School is not childcare and it’s not their responsibility to arrange your childcare.