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AIBU to expect my child's Year 1 teacher to spell correctly?

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PerkyShark · 11/03/2025 08:04

DD is 5 and currently in Year 1. Every Monday, we get a new spelling list for a test on Friday, which I think is a great idea in theory. However, nearly every week there seems to be a glaring spelling mistake on the list.

A couple of weeks ago, "tarpoon" appeared instead of "harpoon." Last week, we had "Artic" instead of "Arctic." I brushed these off initially, but this week, THREE words are incorrect: "micture" (mixture), "nuture" (nature), and "murcury" (mercury).

I approached DD's class teacher politely to point this out, assuming she'd be mortified and promise to ensure it wouldn't happen again, but instead she shrugged it off, saying "human error is to be expected."

I'm also starting to worry, as these spelling lists are the only written examples I see regularly. It makes me question whether the teacher is consistently spelling things incorrectly during lessons or, even worse, not picking up on spelling mistakes my child might be making in her work.

AIBU to think that consistently misspelling words on weekly spelling lists undermines the purpose of the tests and possibly the children's learning? Or am I just being overly precious about something that doesn't really matter?

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StMarie4me · 11/03/2025 21:17

I have co just read about a secondary school where a third of the children who start are illiterate.

You are right to complain.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 11/03/2025 20:32

YANBU - that's appalling, but I'm not that surprised. My dc used to correct their primary school teachers' spelling!

BeaTwix · 11/03/2025 20:32

This isn't new. My Mother was "that" parent way back in the early nineties when I was at school as my secondary school English teacher couldn't spell for toffee.

In his defence it was pre-desk top publishing of worksheets with spell checkers became routine. In retrospect I wonder if he was dyslexic. He was actually a really good classroom teacher and made English engaging to a very mixed bag of pupils.

In the end it became a running joke between him and my Mum and he enlisted her to proof read the school magazine for him.

My mother had very few academic qualifications but she was a ninja proofreader - she read every academic essay my siblings and I wrote for school and University. She also used to read workstuff for my Dad (engineer). She was a very good barometer to test if you had explained your concept well and my brother (barrister) was only bemoaning her loss a few weeks ago when he was toiling over a written opinion.

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/03/2025 20:25

Malbecfan · 11/03/2025 20:21

My DDs are adults now but I was one of those parents who did correct letters in red pen and send them back. It did not endear me to the admin person, but the Head did thank me.

To the poster who claimed that private school teachers earned more than their state school counterparts, please check because this is most definitely not always the case. I work in a (lovely) state secondary school. My new Head of Department came from a private school where he had been for the last 4 years as HoD. He actually received a pay rise when he joined us.

There's a private primary in my area which, at one time, was paying half the state school salary. I knew 2 or 3 teachers who worked there because it was easier, they came in just before school started and went home just after the pupils.

Malbecfan · 11/03/2025 20:21

My DDs are adults now but I was one of those parents who did correct letters in red pen and send them back. It did not endear me to the admin person, but the Head did thank me.

To the poster who claimed that private school teachers earned more than their state school counterparts, please check because this is most definitely not always the case. I work in a (lovely) state secondary school. My new Head of Department came from a private school where he had been for the last 4 years as HoD. He actually received a pay rise when he joined us.

Covidwoes · 11/03/2025 20:05

Primary teacher here. That's absolutely awful! I am not impressed at all. Or should I say, impresed. 😂

JMSA · 11/03/2025 19:10

Why would Arctic and mercury appear in a 5 year old's spelling test?

OldCottageGreenhouse · 11/03/2025 19:06

APATEKPHILLIPEWATCH · 11/03/2025 08:13

YANBU - we don’t get incorrect spellings but the shocking SPAG in the weekly newsletter make me seeth. They also say “We be doing”. “we be doing Maths this week.” WTF

I am begging you to please pull them up on this. Don’t let that monstrosity slide. We be? That's outrageous

timyam · 11/03/2025 18:09

@InscrutableFox sorry, I didn't mean for it to cone across that TAs didn't have the intelligence to spell properly! I've worked as a TA and most I've met are incredible... it was more a point to say I wouldn't be scrutinising a TAs spelling in the same way I would a teacher, who is paid much more than a TA.

Sherrystrull · 11/03/2025 17:37

mixture and nature are perfectly normal words for y1 and I assume they are learning the 'ture' sound.

I've taught Year 1 and every colleague I've worked with in my state school can spell those words and would be mortified at making basic spelling mistakes on a document that went to parents.

I'd be looking for a better school.

IglesiasPiggl · 11/03/2025 17:30

That's terrible. Human error is the odd typo on a worksheet or newsletter. All words on a spelling list, designed specifically for the purpose of teaching correct spelling, should be correct.

InscrutableFox · 11/03/2025 17:26

timyam · 11/03/2025 17:04

@Thatcannotberight I don't see the problem so much for TAs who get paid minimum wage and are expected to do so much. But from a teacher is shocking, just gives a 'can't be arsed' attitude!

In defence of TAs:

I am one. I also hold the highest English qualifications in the school. We're not stupid people - just badly paid!

InscrutableFox · 11/03/2025 17:22

I work in a tough state primary, in a deprived area.

The vast majority of our parents do not read in English. A very large minority speak no English. There is almost no chance of parental complaint in this circumstance.

My head would rip strips off us if we sent home incorrect spellings to learn at home. I'd not be paying for that quality of teaching... You can get much better than that included in taxes.

StrawberryWater · 11/03/2025 17:15

My nieces teacher tried to insist the word don't was spelled do'nt.

I thought she was taking the piss at first but she was deadly serious. I put my head in my hands.

ForWorthyTiger · 11/03/2025 17:07

I wouldn’t be happy about that, and it is human error but it doesn’t take much to use a spelling checker. Just like how I’m crap at maths I’ll use a calculator and double and triple check I’ve got the right answer. Especially in an educational setting!

timyam · 11/03/2025 17:04

@Thatcannotberight I don't see the problem so much for TAs who get paid minimum wage and are expected to do so much. But from a teacher is shocking, just gives a 'can't be arsed' attitude!

timyam · 11/03/2025 17:00

This is so depressing. I am a career changer looking to start a PGCE next year and am having a confidence crisis before I've even begun. But if teachers can't even be bothered to check their spelling, the bar must be really low. If it keeps happening I'd mention it to someone more senior.

ZookeeperSE · 11/03/2025 16:56

Cosyblankets · 11/03/2025 11:30

So what happens when the kids put the correct spelling in the spelling test?

Well, I can tell you what happened at my DDs school (and for all of the gleeful anti independent school posts, it was a state school).

DD spelt the word Repeatedly, correctly.
The teacher marked it wrong and made her write it as Repeatidly, three times. (Rather ironic, given the word). I saw the evidence, in her work book, at an open evening.

The same school that insisted my DD was not dyslexic and didn’t have any issues that needed investigation (she did, her secondary school, thank goodness, tested her and declared her very much dyslexic in Year 9 when she suddenly couldn’t compensate for it any longer, poor girl), she didn’t stand a chance. At least the HT had the decency to be horrified.

BurntBroccoli · 11/03/2025 16:39

WaryCrow · 11/03/2025 08:59

YANBU I came across far too many teachers like this. One tried to excuse herself by saying she was picking up bad habits from the kids - she was the teacher ffs! It’s the direct result of all those middle class ‘nice’ people on here years ago whining that their darlings couldn’t pass a numeracy or literacy test but ‘would make wonderful teachers’, and those of us who actually have skills to teach being told on placement that we didn’t socialise enough or the placement teacher plain not liking them. The direct result of the gentrification of education and information both and the driving out of the working classes.

I applied to do teacher training but was turned down as I didn't have any practical experience of working in a classroom. I was working full time in another job at the time and would have loved a change in career.

BurntBroccoli · 11/03/2025 16:33

This used to drive me mad when letters came home from school full of spelling mistakes.
I was often tempted to mark them in red pen and send them back with comments. Never did though!

Daisydiary · 11/03/2025 16:28

The teacher sounds thick. So thick that she can’t spell the most basic of words, and thicker still that she thinks ‘human error’ can be used as the justification for her stupidity. I wouldn’t be paying for this. In fact, I’d be asking for a refund on the grounds that she is clearly incapable of doing her job to the required standard.

WatchingTheClowns · 11/03/2025 16:09

That's appalling. I'd be circling the teacher's spelling mistakes with a red pen, and I'd tell the head teacher how poor I think it is.

BlueBatsAndOranges · 11/03/2025 16:09

Biffbaff · 11/03/2025 10:30

Just saying, it's rarely the "better education" you're paying for when you send your kids to private school. Luckily for them, nepotism and old school tie is still rife, so they'll be fine. 👍🏻

Wth? Maybe get that chip on your shoulder looked at?

My DC had this with their spellings years ago, also the head teacher used to write a monthly newsletter full to the brim with spelling mistakes. I told my kids I was going to mark it one day in red pen and send it back to him - I never did but was so tempted. The fact you are paying for this OP is even worse.

Ilovecleaning · 11/03/2025 16:06

I taught English for 30+ years, took retirement to study and did some supply work. I’m ‘old-school’, grammar school.
I was horrified at the poor level
of SPAG of some teachers and office staff.
One example: I was given a set of worksheets containing the word ‘theirselfs’.
I refused to use it. I accessed it on the system, corrected it and printed off 30 copies.
What worries me about wrongly spelled word lists is that some parents might not recognise all the mistakes and help their children to learn the wrong spellings.
I also think, if the teacher is making such bad mistakes, what else is she doing wrong?

neilyoungismyhero · 11/03/2025 15:56

It's a spelling test but she shrugs off her own misspelled examples....the mind boggles.