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To think the NHS should not be cutting funding for Anorexia and EDs if they are going to be spending ££££ on weight loss jabs

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B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 07:12

Anorexia and ED numbers are soaring. My daughter has battled the disease for 6 years. It kills far quicker than obesity and the sooner it is treated the better the outcome. During the last few years I have witnessed so many parents fighting for treatment and now in some severe cases patients are just being given palliative care.

Most areas are now planning cuts to specialist eating disorder services.

The fact we apparantly have ££££ to spend on weight loss jabs when children and young people are essentially being left to die is not ok and highlights a quick fix medicated approach by the NHS as opposed to longer term MH provision.

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Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 13:05

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 12:46

I'm getting the impression op thinks that obesity is a choice and therefore not deserving of treatment, funding, sympathy

Like the way we used to treat anorexics then.

I'm glad times have moved on.

raininginlanzarote · 10/03/2025 13:00

Nameychangington · 10/03/2025 07:30

highlights a quick fix medicated approach by the NHS as opposed to longer term MH provision.

Well yes that's exactly what it is. Obese people cost the NHS more because of their co-morbidities, so it's in the government's financial interests to deal with those people's obesity. It's not that obese people are valued more than mentally ill people, it's that they cost more overall so treating them saves money overall.

This.

And was I the only one to be confused about the connection between anorexia and erectile dysfunction ?

No? Probably my age then... 😂

TY78910 · 10/03/2025 12:58

Can I ask where the cuts to ED services has come from? Can't find anything online specifically talking about this but 600m has been allocated to social care and 26m to mental health centres?

www.gov.uk/government/news/new-funding-to-fix-the-nhs-heres-how-it-will-be-spent#:~:text=As%20part%20of%20the%20Autumn,%2C%20excluding%20COVID%2D19%20years.

FortyElephants · 10/03/2025 12:56

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 12:54

They do. Tax and NI like the rest of us.

And £9.60 for each prescription.

Locutus2000 · 10/03/2025 12:54

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 08:27

So why can’t they be forced to contribute towards the cost?

They do. Tax and NI like the rest of us.

ChungkingExpress · 10/03/2025 12:53

UnbeatenMum · 10/03/2025 12:50

I agree with you about funding for ED treatment and for CAMHS, which essentially isn't providing a service at all for the vast majority. It's not always possible to go private either, even if you have the means to pay.

I'm not sure about the link to weight loss medication though, which should save the NHS money in the medium and long term. Why not just fund everything adequately?

That's the thing OP seems to be missing, if the NHS does fund weight loss jabs, they'll save a ton of money on various co-morboties, and hopefully they can funnel some more of that cash to EDs (although I won't hold my breath on that one.

UnbeatenMum · 10/03/2025 12:50

I agree with you about funding for ED treatment and for CAMHS, which essentially isn't providing a service at all for the vast majority. It's not always possible to go private either, even if you have the means to pay.

I'm not sure about the link to weight loss medication though, which should save the NHS money in the medium and long term. Why not just fund everything adequately?

SwingTheMonkey · 10/03/2025 12:49

I’m not sure what you’re expecting people to say, op. It’s a scandal that mental health is so woefully underfunded. But money isn’t being taken from treating mental health problems and being used for weight loss injections instead. It’s just not.
I think a pp asked if you’d have the same opinion of a new cancer drug being rolled out as you do the WLI. You didn’t answer but we all know what your answer would be.

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 12:46

I'm getting the impression op thinks that obesity is a choice and therefore not deserving of treatment, funding, sympathy

cardibach · 10/03/2025 12:42

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 10:33

Your link doesn’t say that, quite the reverse.

It’s not my link. I was referring simply to the figures the PP gave showing an above inflation rise.

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:35

Fargo79 · 10/03/2025 12:30

This was a well considered and thoughtful response from someone who has been closer to anorexia than even you are. And you met her with rudeness, completely failing to engage with what she was saying and the kindness she extended to you.

I'm not sure what your aim is in starting this thread OP but lashing out at other people, whether that's spreading misinformation and harmful narratives about other medical patients or being directly rude to people on this forum, is not the way to deal with it. You are under a lot of stress and your family is being badly let down by the sounds of things. Starting fights outside of that is not going to help you. Quite the opposite.

MN can be a great source of comfort and support, and has been for many people facing serious illness and worse. If you start a thread in good faith on the right board then I'm certain you will find that same comfort and support if you want it.

I found it to be a patronising and incorrect post actually. I’m extremely well informed about Anorexia having supported a young person with it for many years and having had it myself. She also had treatment, many people aren’t so lucky.

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ChungkingExpress · 10/03/2025 12:34

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:32

How? Supporting a young person with Anorexia impacts jobs and families.

Many people who need the jabs are similarly affected, no? Yet, you seem to think they should pay for their own treatment all the same.

Comedycook · 10/03/2025 12:34

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:32

How? Supporting a young person with Anorexia impacts jobs and families.

If you want therapy op or need mental health support, there's nothing to stop you going to see your GP and requesting some help.

Fwiw, I have a DC who had various health conditions and sn which impacted my ability to work. It's not unusual.

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:32

No33 · 10/03/2025 12:28

Pay for it?

How? Supporting a young person with Anorexia impacts jobs and families.

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Fargo79 · 10/03/2025 12:30

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

This was a well considered and thoughtful response from someone who has been closer to anorexia than even you are. And you met her with rudeness, completely failing to engage with what she was saying and the kindness she extended to you.

I'm not sure what your aim is in starting this thread OP but lashing out at other people, whether that's spreading misinformation and harmful narratives about other medical patients or being directly rude to people on this forum, is not the way to deal with it. You are under a lot of stress and your family is being badly let down by the sounds of things. Starting fights outside of that is not going to help you. Quite the opposite.

MN can be a great source of comfort and support, and has been for many people facing serious illness and worse. If you start a thread in good faith on the right board then I'm certain you will find that same comfort and support if you want it.

ChungkingExpress · 10/03/2025 12:29

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

You could always pay for it? You seem to think other people should pay for their treatments.

No33 · 10/03/2025 12:28

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

Pay for it?

Comedycook · 10/03/2025 12:28

What would you think op if someone said it wasn't fair that a particular cancer drug wasn't available on the NHS due to cost...but anorexics get money spent on them...when all they have to do is eat therefore it's in their control in a way in which cancer isn't. Not nice is it?

There's a whole myriad of conditions and illnesses which have to be treated...some physical, some mental, some self inflicted... trying to draw comparisons and work out who is most deserving for treatment and who isn't is futile. It's just winding yourself up even more.

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 12:22

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

She didn't say get it on the NHS. There's no money for that, it's also went to the fatties

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 12:20

Olivebrancholivia · 10/03/2025 11:17

This thread saddens me. Your anger is palpable but misplaced.

By comparing obesity with anorexia nervosa you show you don't understand anorexia at all, although it seems to be about weight,not never really is. I have spent multiple hospital admissions with people over 20 years and not once has their illness been about weight. I also calculated how much the NHS has spent on mine treatment for anorexia alone, over £250000. That's an astonishing amount of money for one person and I am grateful I was given the opportunity. I am firmly in recovery, and in all honesty if therenwas a jab that would mean it would never return I could take weekly then sign me up!!sadly there isn't.b

Obesity is an illness that causes distress and has devastating consequences, cancer, heart disease, diabetes, sleep apnoea. Why shouldn't someone be given the opportunity to tackle their illness which will ultimately save the NHS money to them be distributed amongst other services.

I understand it's an issue close to your heart, mine also, but everyone deserves treatment and obesity is neglected, as currently we're focusing on the symptoms rather than prevention.

I think you would benefit from some therapy for the enormous stress you have been under for the past years. I say this with kindness. Anorexia destroys families.

Best wishes to you

Well that’s a ridiculous suggestion . You’re lucky if you get treatment let alone therapy for families.

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HologramStumbled · 10/03/2025 12:14

What makes you think obese people are getting NHS resources, OP? Last year I had a BMI of 41 and my GP offered nothing when I made an appointment asking for help. No support, no medication, nothing. Her advice was 'get a personal trainer or an energetic dog'.

I have been overweight or obese my entire adult life and never had any help from the NHS at all.

I did get the personal trainer and I pay for weight loss jabs myself. No cost to the NHS. My BMI is 33 now; I'm still going. I spend £400 a month on the jabs, the trainer and gym membership and I'll do this forever (hopefully the medication costs will come down!)

The idea that the NHS is handing out all sorts of help to obese people is wildly misinformed. There's nothing for anyone!

Wakeywake · 10/03/2025 11:55

There is very, very limited support for people with obesity. What the NHS spends is a drop in the ocean compared to what would be required to tackle the problem. And it's very much a case of waiting and waiting until you get to a very high Bmi and a host of co-morbidities before you're entitled to any help. So I don't know where your narrative comes from. Your anger is seriously misplaced.

Jade520 · 10/03/2025 11:53

I was just reading on the BBC the other day that they same 'always hungry' gene that labs have is also found in people. I've read on here people say that they have constant 'food noise' in their head and that the injections stop it. I think the injections are great tbh and will also save the NHS money in the long term by keeping people healthier.

That said of course I don't think there should be cuts to eating disorder services.

LastHeraldMage · 10/03/2025 11:42

Disturbia81 · 10/03/2025 09:18

My friend with a history of ED lied on the prescription and got the injections and now has severe kidney problems. She keeps collapsing with the pain
I can't believe they just give them to everyone, didn't they forsee this?
They are so good for people who need them as the risks of being obese outweigh anything else but they should be a very short term thing and only for those with a lot of weight to lose.

People will always lie to get what they want, its basic human nature.

You cannot deny a large (pun not intended) group of people where this works because of some bad apples.

Do we remove cars from everyone because some people speed?
Do we remove knives from the kitchen because some people kill and stab?

Disturbia81 · 10/03/2025 11:40

@HowardTJMoon Yes it's good they're finally making it stricter.

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