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To think the NHS should not be cutting funding for Anorexia and EDs if they are going to be spending ££££ on weight loss jabs

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B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 07:12

Anorexia and ED numbers are soaring. My daughter has battled the disease for 6 years. It kills far quicker than obesity and the sooner it is treated the better the outcome. During the last few years I have witnessed so many parents fighting for treatment and now in some severe cases patients are just being given palliative care.

Most areas are now planning cuts to specialist eating disorder services.

The fact we apparantly have ££££ to spend on weight loss jabs when children and young people are essentially being left to die is not ok and highlights a quick fix medicated approach by the NHS as opposed to longer term MH provision.

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PresidentBarklett · 11/03/2025 07:11

I honestly don't think it's worth anyone continuing to engage on this thread. The OP is clearly deeply traumatised by their experiences and, thus, is looking for a scapegoat. Those people who are overweight are an easy group to shift the blame on as they have been demonised for years as simply lacking self control. OP's rigid mindset will not be changed on an Internet forum and instead will likely require therapy.

I feel very sorry for OP as her experiences sound horrific. But I honestly don't think we are helping her by continuing to allow her avenues to propagate her misguided thinking - all we are doing is helping her to wind herself up even further.

Bailamosse · 11/03/2025 06:51

sashh · 11/03/2025 06:49

This.

Get angry about rainbow lanyards and hospitals spending money defending their illegal practice at tribunals.

Complain about the salaries of senior management.

Don't take it out on other people who may also have an eating disorder.

Honestly, I think OP’s history of ED themselves is still colouring their view of obese people.

sashh · 11/03/2025 06:49

Focalpoint · 10/03/2025 09:01

Why are you picking on medication used to treat obesity instead of every other thing the NHS spends money on?

This.

Get angry about rainbow lanyards and hospitals spending money defending their illegal practice at tribunals.

Complain about the salaries of senior management.

Don't take it out on other people who may also have an eating disorder.

Ashshandmaid · 11/03/2025 03:48

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 08:24

I’m aware of that however funding is under so much pressure services are being cut across the country. Less should be going towards weight loss jabs and towards other services as opposed to cuts.

And if obesity isn’t an eating disorder shouldn’t patients be taking more responsibility for it.

And there it is....

The worthy and the not

Ashshandmaid · 11/03/2025 03:45

Ooh this is a shitty take. Why are you pitting one against the other?

Proudestmumofone1 · 11/03/2025 00:18

Kindly, @B00kThi3f you really do need therapy. Your thought processes are so rigid, so extreme and so closed to facts / perspectives of others.

Parents of children with any physical, medical, neurodevelopmental or mental health difficulties have negatively impacted work schedules and ability to function. What do you think happens when your asd adolescent is unable to attend school due to anxiety and emotionally based school avoidance? What do you think happens when your toddler gets cancer and needs months if not years of inpatient treatment?

Of course the financial implications on parents is not ok. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t seek therapy for your own misguided views as they will certainly not be helping your daughter recover.

WingsofRain · 10/03/2025 23:13

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 08:50

The two groups are connected. Both involve intake of food. Some obese patients apparantly do have eating disorders too. How is it fair that one group gets the moon on a stick whereas the other just get cuts. Particularly when outcome and saving lives hinges on early treatment.

”Gets the moon on a stick”

You seem to be exaggerating somewhat and it isn’t helping your case. A very small number of people with multiple, life threatening diseases are being prescribed an effective drug which saves the NHS a great deal of money.

The vast majority of people with overweight get absolutely nothing, let alone a moon on a stick.

Your bitterness at your situation may well be justified, but lashing out at others who are also seriously ill is not at all a good look.

Smallsalt · 10/03/2025 22:13

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 17:15

No I’m blaming a system that has nothing but cuts for one sector and the latest expensive treatments for another.

In England alone WL jabs could double the annual NHS prescription budget of £17bn, with a high rate of weight gain when the drug is stopped. And, like pre-existing treatments including bariatric surgery, it has serious side effects.

Best not treat anorexic either, they have a high level of regressing as well.

9ToGoal · 10/03/2025 21:43

MummytoE · 10/03/2025 17:18

Where are you getting 17 billion from?

Making it up as she goes along.

9ToGoal · 10/03/2025 21:36

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 16:46

That’s a ridiculous thing to say. Obesity costs the NHS £11 billion a year.

SFA for Anorexia and Ed’s!

Blatant lie. It's £6.5b as you've already been told. Stop exaggerating by almost doubling the cost to the NHS to suit your own agenda.

Binge eating disorder and night eating syndrome are often associated with gaining weight. These people also are included in obesity costs. Is it only anorexics you think should get treatment for EDs?

Ankleblisters · 10/03/2025 20:17

(Although those jabs being available relatively easily, even if not always legally, is definitely problematic for a lot of people)
I don't know how to edit but I mean those jabs being available to those who are not obese is an issue - obese people are unwell and need help and treatment. Much more help than they are often provided with.

Ankleblisters · 10/03/2025 20:14

Funding for obesity services (including weight loss jabs) is definitely not the problem and I worry that you have actually undermined your point by phrasing it like this. (Although those jabs being available relatively easily, even if not always legally, is definitely problematic for a lot of people)

I also think, across (especially child and adolescent) mental health services, investing in early intervention (if we could find the money) would save millions, if not billions in the longer term. I know a child (now 19) who was showing early signs of acute anorexia at age 10 and had an incredible short term, fast-track package of therapy, dietetics, family therapy etc for 6 weeks and full recovered.
If I, and many others, had had access to that at 10 it would have saved hundreds of thousands of pounds on decades of in-patient hospital admissions for months and months at a time as well as all the years I wasn't earning and paying taxes. Speedy, short-term early intervention and prevention (like resilience training in schools) saves money long term.

scoobysnaxx · 10/03/2025 19:51

You clearly completely blame obese people for their condition even though it's a disease. Yet you don't feel the same about anorexia. Interesting.

scoobysnaxx · 10/03/2025 19:50

LadyQuackBeth · 10/03/2025 09:20

The mistake you are making isn't just conflating two completely separate issues, but ignoring completely how efficient the treatments are.

Unfortunately there are no treatments for anorexia even a fraction as effective as the WLIs are for reducing obesity. You are talking as if £1000 spent on WLI will have the same impact on obesity as £1000 on eating disorders would. It is just not the case.

If you had the money to offer someone with an eating disorder two weeks in residential treatment, what is the actual success rate of that, more than 5-10% for one person having a degree of success? For the same money you could treat about 20 or more people who are severely at risk of dying from obesity and get really good results for them - results which save money in the long run.

There are other places you should be targeting your frustration, research into better ED treatments, campaigning to limit how porn is making teenage girls feel objectified, cosmetic treatments etc. Severely obese people getting help is not it.

THIS.

You are conflating two separate issues OP. Why target obese people and not another medical group?

Your use of the word responsibility revealed your utter ignorance regarding obesity.

WL jabs are miles more effective at treating obesity and therefore eliminating the huge array of further issues associated with obesity, than treatment for anorexia.

I'm so sorry for what you are going through but you've really shown your ignorance.

RedHot2025 · 10/03/2025 19:40

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 17:15

No I’m blaming a system that has nothing but cuts for one sector and the latest expensive treatments for another.

In England alone WL jabs could double the annual NHS prescription budget of £17bn, with a high rate of weight gain when the drug is stopped. And, like pre-existing treatments including bariatric surgery, it has serious side effects.

It sounds like you have an unhealthy obsession with fatter people and you said you formally had an ED and your child currently gas one. Obsession with people who have their own battles isn't helpful and it isn't nice. Refocus your anger.

Fargo79 · 10/03/2025 19:36

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 17:06

It feels like it. The lack of concern re provision for Anorexia and EDs is frankly appalling.

No it doesn't. You just hate fat people because you see them as "opposite" to you/your daughter and your struggles. You don't see obesity as a medical condition, you see it as a moral failing i.e. gluttony for gluttony's sake. As someone up thread said, obese people can just eat less in the same way as your child could just eat more. Not that simple, is it?

There are many, many underfunded NHS services that threaten lives. You are not being singled out in order to fund WLI. There is woefully little support for any mental health condition and this costs lives. There is almost no postpartum support for women and babies. There is barely any help for children with SEND, which has a profound impact on their lives and costs them their independence for life in many cases. The list goes on. And on and on.

You are also very badly informed about the effects and risks of WLI and are spreading misinformation. Have a look at some data. Opinions are not facts, however much you would like the truth to reflect your views.

RedToothBrush · 10/03/2025 18:46

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 18:07

There are good treatments for Anorexia however young patients are being turned away and the condition is left to get worse. Some are left on paed wards instead of specialist treatment centres because there are no beds, soon to be less. Some don’t even have access to FBT. Then in adult services the bar is very high and they don’t hold on to you for long

Right lets put it another way.

YellowCarDisease is killing thousands of people. They suddenly discover a treatment which could change that and save lots of money.

But RedCarDisease sufferers are up in arms because they aren't getting more of a super expensive treatment and therefore think that YellowCarDisease sufferers shouldn't get access to the new treatment as a result and are squealling 'its not fair'.

Even though, roll out of the new treatment of YellowCarDisease might eventually help to free up budget in the NHS so more is available to help RedCarDisease in the long run.

I'm struggling here.

I'm afraid I'm in agreement with others here that you just don't like obese people and are totally focused with your own issues. You are deliberately trying to make a comparision which is totally disgenous and frankly financially illiterate as an argument. And by all accounts inaccurate to boot.

Its not a good look.

FerryMen · 10/03/2025 18:31

FerryMen · 10/03/2025 18:26

OP would you agree with the NHS spending money on WLI if doing so saved the NHS money overall? Or not?

I ask because that is the rationale behind who is being given WLI by the NHS as many people have explained. But it sounds like you still don’t agree with WLI being prescribed, and therefore NHS budget saved. So it seems you have a non-financial objection to the NHS prescribing WLI.

FerryMen · 10/03/2025 18:26

OP would you agree with the NHS spending money on WLI if doing so saved the NHS money overall? Or not?

Nameychangington · 10/03/2025 18:24

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 18:07

There are good treatments for Anorexia however young patients are being turned away and the condition is left to get worse. Some are left on paed wards instead of specialist treatment centres because there are no beds, soon to be less. Some don’t even have access to FBT. Then in adult services the bar is very high and they don’t hold on to you for long

Treatment for anorexia, and all other complex MH conditions, is massively underfunded and in consequence patients have to be extremely unwell to get anything, and that anything may well not be nearly enough. Because the treatments are long term, costly, and have no immediate cost savings for the NHS. We know. That's not the fault of obesity patients. Your anger is misplaced.

WhatMe123 · 10/03/2025 18:19

The nhs put loads more money into eating disorder teams last year and they took on many more therapists to bring waiting times down. A few of my colleagues left and went and took these jobs and the funding isn't being cut to my knowledge. But yes often the system does fail people I hear you op 🌺

justteanbiscuits · 10/03/2025 18:16

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 08:18

I can jolly well query the funding. Some of that money should be going towards ED services and the treatment of Anorexia.

Very little funding is going on WLI's, only those at very high risk, with comorbidities, are prescribed WLI on NHS.

If there was an injection, or an easy treatment for ED's you can bet they would be using it. Anorexia etc are very difficult to treat. No funding is lost to those services for WLI I can promise you. Getting psychological help for being overweight is nigh on impossible.

I have been prescribed Mounjaro because the surgery that could fix me isn't an option - if I had it I would cost much MUCH more in medication I would need to stay alive. Mounjaro seems to work and improve my life quite substantially. I also know I am very very lucky to be receiving it on the NHS, especially 'off label'.

All mental health is hideously underfunded. But it's not the fault of the relatively minimal cost of WLI.

iloveeverykindofcat · 10/03/2025 18:09

What are the good treatments you think form a fair comparison in terms of funding?

CompulsiveEaterSickandTired · 10/03/2025 18:09

@B00kThi3f I am a compulsive eater, BED sufferer or whatever the term de jour is. I've been this way since a young child. I found the NHS could offer me nothing as regards it.

I went to a support group with BEAT for people with ED. There was a young lady there with such severe anorexia she would walk or run for hours after eating half a biscuit or something like that. Her knees were damaged and she actually needed a knee replacement aged 26. but she had been turned away from our local ED unit because she wasn't in as great a need as others. As for BED, our local ED unit only could take you if you were like 500 pounds. I was at my heaviest about 370. The mental health team assessing me told me I was quite a severe case but not severe enough.

There IS no help available.

B00kThi3f · 10/03/2025 18:07

iloveeverykindofcat · 10/03/2025 17:40

Well, from what I understand, its because WLI are a relatively simple to administer, cost-effective, at-home, proven, effective solution that saves a lot of money in the long term. I don't think they have an equivalent for anorexia. From what I've seen of it in my family, effective treatments that aren't abusive, that are proved to work long term, and that don't involve massively expensive inpatient stays are....well, excuse the term of phrase but, rather thin on the ground. I've actually heard it from a doctor that we really don't have much to offer that is safe, proven, effective, and humane. Not because we can't afford to but because....well, its in the brain, isn't it? We don't even know if or how antidepressants work. Obesity is a physical condition, and a common one at that, for which science seems to have found an effective treatment. Its going to be funded from completely different allocations.

(disclaimer I do not have either of these conditions, but I have relatives who do).

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There are good treatments for Anorexia however young patients are being turned away and the condition is left to get worse. Some are left on paed wards instead of specialist treatment centres because there are no beds, soon to be less. Some don’t even have access to FBT. Then in adult services the bar is very high and they don’t hold on to you for long

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