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766j · 09/03/2025 16:46

I have only ever had one dog who was a terrier, and he was a typical terrier in that he would bark all the time no matter how much I tried to train him. He hated cats, would bark any time someone walked past the house and would bark at the TV a lot. This was despite extensive training and getting a behaviourist round. I am wanting something a bit quieter (!) and more affectionate this time around.

I work from home, and want it to be good around children. Ideally one that only needs less than an hour of walking per day and is low/no shedding. I have a pretty good sized garden if that helps too. A friend has a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel who I adore, she is so sweet-natured and gentle and I would put up with the shedding for one of those, but the breed has so many health issues that it concerns me.

Does anyone have any recommendations?

Thank you

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WinterBones · 10/03/2025 19:20

766j · 09/03/2025 16:46

I have only ever had one dog who was a terrier, and he was a typical terrier in that he would bark all the time no matter how much I tried to train him. He hated cats, would bark any time someone walked past the house and would bark at the TV a lot. This was despite extensive training and getting a behaviourist round. I am wanting something a bit quieter (!) and more affectionate this time around.

I work from home, and want it to be good around children. Ideally one that only needs less than an hour of walking per day and is low/no shedding. I have a pretty good sized garden if that helps too. A friend has a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel who I adore, she is so sweet-natured and gentle and I would put up with the shedding for one of those, but the breed has so many health issues that it concerns me.

Does anyone have any recommendations?

Thank you

if its any comfort, i have an 11yo King Charles, he is the 4th we've had, we really did our research on picking him, did all the looking into the background of the breeder, his pedigree, the parents health...etc. The last one before him made it to this age with only a slight heart murmur

This one has been stoically healthy right up to 10 years old, and then developed the smallest murmur and idiopathic epilepsy, something that can happen in any dog of his age in any breed.. At his vet check yesterday they commented that epilepsy aside, he's in incredible health for a KCC his age.

Yes the breed have problems, but honestly, do your research, get good insurance, feed them well, they're no problem :)

JMSA · 10/03/2025 19:05

Arran2024 · 10/03/2025 19:01

"Extremely protective"? You mean they attack or growl at any dog that comes near? I have 2 big bernese mountain dogs who would protect me if I was attacked, but they behave nicely around other dogs. I couldn't have a dog I couldn't trust to be nice on walks.

I'm trying to be helpful but no, that's not actually what I said!
I don't think you like the breed so probably no point continuing the convo.
Enjoy your evening Smile

Queenofthestonage · 10/03/2025 19:05

I have a Westie, yes he’s a bit barky but an absolutely lovely dog, good with children pretty quiet and sleepy as long as he’s had a decent walk - 40 mins or so - doesn’t shed and coat is low allergy. They do have health issues - like all pedigrees - but mine is 9 and fine so far so would recommend

Arran2024 · 10/03/2025 19:01

"Extremely protective"? You mean they attack or growl at any dog that comes near? I have 2 big bernese mountain dogs who would protect me if I was attacked, but they behave nicely around other dogs. I couldn't have a dog I couldn't trust to be nice on walks.

JMSA · 10/03/2025 18:40

@Arran2024

They've mostly been oblivious to other dogs. They're too absorbed by their human to play. All have been extremely protective.

Jenkibubble · 10/03/2025 14:39

ladymammalade · 09/03/2025 20:25

I'm a sucker for bigger dogs and love labs/retrievers, but we looked after a border terrier the other week who was great.

Didn't wake up early, put us under no pressure to get out for a walk but would walk miles when we wanted to. Didn't yap and was low shedding. Proper little character, very loving and friendly.

Ditto , big dogs !

Fell in love with Colin from
accounts though (border terrier )

Arran2024 · 10/03/2025 12:18

JMSA · 10/03/2025 10:43

@Arran2024

It's down to the training. No Staffie owned by my family has ever had to be kept on the lead. But it does require a lot of work.

Really? Do your dogs play nicely with other dogs? I have known people get staffies and bring them onto the rec, but they grab other dogs by the neck in their play and other dog owners don't like it so they end up not coming back. It is what puts me off a staffie.

VanGoSunflowers · 10/03/2025 11:28

Hi OP I am looking to get my first dog soon and have been researching the hell out of breeds!
For you, I would echo the suggestion of a retired greyhound. My friend has one and she is literally no trouble at all. Very sweet natured. Will come and say hi but is quite independent.

What about trying to find ways to ‘mitigate’ the issues as well?

Someone else may be able to help with this but, if you get a breed that sheds, could you afford a robot vacuum cleaner? And get a breed that sheds fur thats easier to hoover up? So not a jack russel as the fur is so wiry you have to pick it out of the sofa - it won’t come up with a normal hoover!

Also, what about hiring a dog walker to do the second walk of the day if you get a breed that needs a lot of exercise? Or sign up to Borrow My Doggy or task other members of the household with doing the second walk of the day?

KimberleyClark · 10/03/2025 10:52

JesusFuckingChristAmerica · 09/03/2025 17:03

Labs are the best! 🐾🐾🐾

But they shed which the op doesn’t want, and they need a lot of exercise.

OP how about a chihuahua? Minimal exercise and little shedding with the short haired variety. We looked after a friend’s chihuahua for three weeks and I ended up quite falling in love with her. Such a funny little personality.

Vates · 10/03/2025 10:50

I have a sleeping whippet next to me right now. She's my Sister's dog though. Affectionate, not much shedding, sleeps most of the day away! Exercise wise, they do short bursts of fast activity and are content. On the days I look after her I just take her round the block.

If I had the financial means and suitable housing I would love to adopt a Greyhound, like lots have mentioned. That would be my dream.

To ask for your dog breed recommendations?
JMSA · 10/03/2025 10:43

@Arran2024

It's down to the training. No Staffie owned by my family has ever had to be kept on the lead. But it does require a lot of work.

JMSA · 10/03/2025 10:39

Just to add to previous comments, my Shih Tzu doesn't shed at all. Not one bit. Downside is the grooming costs but I'm houseproud and happy to pay the price for a clean and non-hairy home.

Runssometimes · 10/03/2025 10:36

Labs and goldens are the best dogs IMO but not for you OP, they need plenty of exercise to be happy and shed a lot. I’ve experience of CKCS and greyhounds too and recommend the latter for you. Cavvies are gorgeous but they do shed and their coat needs a bit of care, plus they love getting dirty so it’s not a quick hose or wipe down like you have with a lab. Greyhounds tend to be fairly chilled as long as they don’t see anything to chase and love to snuggle. Their coats are short and easy to care for. A retired greyhound is probably perfect for you.

TumbledTussocks · 10/03/2025 10:22

CatsWhiskerz · 09/03/2025 17:20

Samoyed - they are barky but everything else is amazing. They don't shed much, just 2x per year - my BF had a boxer who literally shed all year around which was really annoying. Sammies don't drool either and a couple of half hour walks with off lead running a day is good, they love outside too so a
Good fenced off garden is perfect

The only one I knew she'd constantly - huge amounts of fluff everywhere!

Barbadossunset · 10/03/2025 09:45

We have got an Italian Greyhound as well as a whippet. The Iggy is adorable, loyal, affectionate, etc but……it took us 8 days to house train the whippet and 8 years to house train the Iggy.

Arran2024 · 10/03/2025 09:27

JMSA · 09/03/2025 21:21

The best decision we ever made getting a Staffy. We would never have any other breed now.

I loffs da crazy, chonky Staffos.

Their owners look at me like I'm mad when I speak to them in my voice reserved for Staffies Blush♥️

They are not always good with other dogs and can be a nightmare to take out to parks, let them off lead etc. My local rec sees hundreds of dogs every day but no staffs. They are lead walked round the streets.

Menobaby79 · 10/03/2025 09:21

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 10/03/2025 08:25

Oh I didn't realise they could shed! Maybe we've just been lucky with the ones we know - super chill & non shedding. Stubborn though - will sit for treats & was toilet trained to go outside within a couple of days but that's about all the obedience training she will entertain.

Yeah, if I keep his fur short he doesn't shed but if it gets past a certain length then it will.

Unbelievably stubborn at times yes definitely! 😂 Like if its raining outside he will not go for a walk. He'll dig his heels in and not move his paws off the ground. Also if you ever tell him off, he will turn his whole body away from you and sulk for hours.

He has a great personality though. He's 12 and sometimes he looks old and tired. The next thing he's running around like a mad thing with his chew toy wanting to play. I love Shih tzu dogs though, they're the best. 💖

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 10/03/2025 08:25

Menobaby79 · 09/03/2025 19:12

The opposite to my shih tzu from what you've described. He sheds everywhere and barks at anyone who dares to walk past our house, even on the other side of the road. 😂 He is a great dog though, very intelligent too.

Oh I didn't realise they could shed! Maybe we've just been lucky with the ones we know - super chill & non shedding. Stubborn though - will sit for treats & was toilet trained to go outside within a couple of days but that's about all the obedience training she will entertain.

CorduroySituation · 09/03/2025 22:40

Newname71 · 09/03/2025 18:07

Our dog is the best boy.
Loves a snuggle, happy with a 30 minute walk, loves everyone and doesn’t shed a lot.
He’s very, very obedient and could be walked off lead anywhere (he isn’t but could be) he never leaves my husband’s side when out. We can even take things from his mouth if we tell him “leave it”
He only ever barks when it’s dark out and he hears someone outside the house or at the door. Never in the day.
He’s just a beautiful all rounder. Everyone who meets him loves him.

@Newname71 sounds amazing but I don't think you've said which breed he is Grin

Feelingleftoutagain · 09/03/2025 21:45

I have a cockapoo, I've taken a bit of heat from some people who say cockapoos shouldn't be allowed!. He is 9 years, he is funny, comical, cuddly, loyal, acts and looks like a puppy and the best dog I've ever met. He was easy to train, yes I got him from a breeder, who I did do checks on and who did checks on me. If I was to get another dog I would go to a rescue and get another cockapoo as I just love them! Oh and he doesn't moult that much, never seen any hairs on my furniture etc.

JMSA · 09/03/2025 21:36

@Newname71

They sure are. I grew up with one. She made our childhood. An absolute legend of a dog.

JMSA · 09/03/2025 21:28

@StellaAndCrow

He has the best little character ever. He's lovely with people but slightly aloof with those he's not connected to in any way, especially random kids Grin He's very gentle with them though.
They're hilariously entitled, having been given out as gifts to emperors in the past.
He absolutely loves his family and just wants to be with us all the time.

I got him at a sad time, when I divorced my children's father. I did it for them mainly, and now can't imagine my life without him. He brings joy, love and laughs into our house every day.
The only thing is that toilet training him was an absolute nightmare, no doubt due to the fact that he ain't the brightest 😬 He makes up for it in looks and personality though!

XenoBitch · 09/03/2025 21:24

Greyhounds. They sleep 18 an hours a day, don't need lots of exercise, they fold up small, barely shed. Simply perfect dogs 😊

GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 09/03/2025 21:24

I have a Pomeranian, they meet the low walking requirement but can also manage more if you want them too. However they do shed and the coats require a lot of upkeep. Mines lovely and quiet at home but not so much elsewhere, they do have a rep for being a bit yappy.

A Chihuahua would have the same exercise requirement with a short coat for less hassle, can also be a bit yappy though.

I think the suggestions of greyhound are a very good shout, or if you wanted something a bit smaller maybe a whippet.

If you like Cavaliers they are a good shout too, never met one that isn’t lovely, just make sure to purchase from a reputable breeder that tests for health, you can get a list of the testing a reputable breeder should do, a kennel club approved breeder has to do all the tests to get approved status and be inspected so I’d start by at looking at their list of approved breeders.

Newname71 · 09/03/2025 21:23

JMSA · 09/03/2025 21:21

The best decision we ever made getting a Staffy. We would never have any other breed now.

I loffs da crazy, chonky Staffos.

Their owners look at me like I'm mad when I speak to them in my voice reserved for Staffies Blush♥️

They’re just the best aren’t they ❤️❤️