I know it's early but I'm so upset.
I left a DV relationship last year. My mum was reluctant for me to come back to her house as she didn't want me there with the kids but my dad did. He said escape the situation and come back. Soon as I come here my mother made me feel unwelcome and uneasy. I feel like I've had no support from my family behave they said it's my own fault that I kept going back and went near him in the first place. Now I never knew this man was bad. He was an abuser so of course he seemed so lovely at the beginning. I went through hell with him day in day out I even tried to take my own life it got so bad but no one's sat down with me and said "are you ok" or "do you want to talk about it". Anyway, my mum fell out with me and has been doing sly things behind my fathers back to get at me like cramming silly things some aren't even mine into my small room I share with my two children along with all of our belongings. She's unreasonable and very aggressive so I didn't confront her I went to my dad.
I then heated my dad say the things are being stored elsewhere for now. She started calling me the worst most hurtful names to my dad to which my dad was defending me telling her I am living here and that's that room is going to be made. Then she proceeds to say "I wonder what she did to wind perpateators name up" I went downstairs at this point as I lost it. She's basically saying I deserved the abuse? She has no idea what I went through because she wasn't there at the time or afterwards! I basically told her she's out of order and had a volition mouth and mind for thinking and saying such thing. She then said "erw look at your face going on".
I don't know what to do. I am so hurt. It's clear here my dad wants me and my children here but she doesn't. The alternative is to go into a sheltered accommodation which at this point I'm quite considering doing because I can't keep my kids in this toxic environment or around her. I start a new job on Monday too and so I'm really on borrowed time.
Thank you