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sourgrapes45 · 07/03/2025 08:22

Is currently getting her arse handed to her by Judge Rinder on Good Morning Britain...

She is not coming across well.

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daisychain01 · 07/03/2025 11:00

sourgrapes45 · 07/03/2025 08:25

Rob Rinder is barely containing his contempt for her.

On one hand I do feel a bit sorry for her, her reputation is in tatters and she looks very meek and uncomfortable. But she obviously is a dodgy character.

I haven't seen the programme but surely she agreed to appear on it, so presumably it wouldn't come as any big surprise?

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:56

LittleCharlotte · 07/03/2025 10:53

I didn't expect to be reading about Captain Tom's sex life on here, or anywhere. That's for sure! 😄

I was a bit surprised about that. I obviously haven't been following the story closely enough but I know nothing about his sex life except he must have had one as he has two daughters.

SassK · 07/03/2025 10:56

There are far worse grifters and charlatans than her walking among us. She's a chancer, of that there is no doubt, however I think the backlash is inordinate.

MrsSkylerWhite · 07/03/2025 10:55

Good. Profiting from the public’s goodwill at a very difficult time for everyone was reprehensible.

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:54

AthWat · 07/03/2025 10:47

"Captain Tom" was her creation, entirely. Tom Moore was just a fairly boring old man who hadn't done much at all. It was the daughter, with her PR background, who created "Captain Tom" and all that went with it.
If anyone deserves to profit from it, it's her. I mean, obviously nobody deserves to profit from it, but all she has done is fleece a lot of idiots, which is all that PR people do every day of every week.

I never bought into it so I am not particularly angry. I think it's those who did, without doing the slightest bit of thinking, who are now furious with her. Although she's awful and deserves nothing, they would be better off being furious with themselves and resolved to learn from this and not act without thinking in future.

That's an interesting perspective and probably applies to me. I found it all a bit cringe, especially the awful record, but although I can see she's dodgy I'm not all that bothered.

BobbyBiscuits · 07/03/2025 10:54

What is wrong with her?! Flogging self published self help books about grief?
"Best way to get over the loss of you 100 year old parent, install a miniature version of a leisure centre/swimming pool complex in your back garden linking it to the name of a charity it was in no way connected to?
Then hire a man with bulldozer to knock it down when you failed to get correct planning.
Very cathartic way to deal with bereavement."

She must be absolutely batshit to show her face on public television ever again.

LittleCharlotte · 07/03/2025 10:53

I didn't expect to be reading about Captain Tom's sex life on here, or anywhere. That's for sure! 😄

Hoppinggreen · 07/03/2025 10:53

I agree she is grabby (probably got it from her father) and the whole Captain Tom thing was nuts. She should just slink off now and hope everyone forgets the whole thing but maybe she needs the money?
I would say though that there was a lot of insanity during Covid and she is not the only one to take advantage of that and while she doesn't come across well she hasn't done anything really awful
She is being treated like she kicked kittens to death on live TV

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:52

Mightymoog · 07/03/2025 10:39

Wasn't it all over the bbc?
I know my parents in law were loving it and they're very much bbc people

I'm sure it was on all the news channels/programmes but it was certainly on GMB a lot.

LizardQueeny · 07/03/2025 10:51

She should lean into the villain thing, maybe go on Celebrity Traitors or IACGMOOH.

BatchCookBabe · 07/03/2025 10:50

Ooooh I missed this. Will try to catch up later. Maybe it will be on My5 or YouTube.

Cannot STAND this woman. She has destroyed Captain Tom's memory. 😢

AthWat · 07/03/2025 10:47

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 07/03/2025 10:21

The whole "Captain Tom" thing was the DD's idea apparently - it taps in to the nation's nostalgia for the war (particularly as we'd just had the 75th anniversary of VE Day in 2020). The public loves a little old man in a suit and medals. Yes, the bloke was a veteran but so was pretty much everyone else's grandad if they were that generation! He left the army after the war so it's not even though he spent a whole career in the military...

"Captain Tom" was her creation, entirely. Tom Moore was just a fairly boring old man who hadn't done much at all. It was the daughter, with her PR background, who created "Captain Tom" and all that went with it.
If anyone deserves to profit from it, it's her. I mean, obviously nobody deserves to profit from it, but all she has done is fleece a lot of idiots, which is all that PR people do every day of every week.

I never bought into it so I am not particularly angry. I think it's those who did, without doing the slightest bit of thinking, who are now furious with her. Although she's awful and deserves nothing, they would be better off being furious with themselves and resolved to learn from this and not act without thinking in future.

NebulousDogBollocking · 07/03/2025 10:41

JudgeJ · 07/03/2025 10:16

Loving all the sympathy for her, I wonder if it would have been the same had he had a son who cheated like she has, or is it the usual MN standpoint that a woman can't be wrong?

I've got no sympathy for her at all and I do not think she's not in the wrong, I just think there are more than her who need light shone on them.

It's an interesting question if quite so much hate would be shown towards a male offspring if he had done the same. I very much doubt it. Look how much 'she's the bad one, poor Captain Tom' there's been. Her husband has taken a backward step, that's the only mention he's had today. But he will have drunk, perhaps even bathed in, the champagne that that donated money bought. But he's done the decent thing so we'll let him off.

Mightymoog · 07/03/2025 10:39

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:30

GMB were a big part of he frenzy, I remember Piers and Susanna being all over him not to mention the poor child who was regularly paraded with everyone informed of his adoption status and the abuse he had at the hands of his birth parents.

Wasn't it all over the bbc?
I know my parents in law were loving it and they're very much bbc people

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 07/03/2025 10:35

LittleCharlotte · 07/03/2025 09:18

I'm not convinced he was a grifter. He just started doing a sponsored walk and it went crazy because blimey we all needed something to lift our spirits at that time. His family absolutely jumped on it so I'd blame them, the evidence is there that they exploited it but there's not much that he did apart from enjoying the fame and hell why not.

I think this too .

Weepixie · 07/03/2025 10:35

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:29

I think that is very unfair, I'm not particularly a fan of Kate but but she's too professional to show her personal feelings like he did.

Kate has an extremely checkered financial past that she keeps as well hidden as she can and I suspect she’d have a lot of sympathy for anyone else with one. 🙄

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:30

TootingLido · 07/03/2025 10:27

Honestly, people are just plain stupid for the most part. They’ll lap up any old media frenzy with barely one critical thought in their tiny minds. Perhaps 10% of the population - maybe less - have a functioning brain lol

GMB were a big part of he frenzy, I remember Piers and Susanna being all over him not to mention the poor child who was regularly paraded with everyone informed of his adoption status and the abuse he had at the hands of his birth parents.

PoorLion · 07/03/2025 10:30

She could have this right by simply donating a wedge of money and working out what % of the books income it was.

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:29

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 10:25

I think he's great. Glad someone says it as it is and stopped pussyfooting around the issues. Can imagine if it was Kate just there doing the interview. She'd be declaring her undying love for her 🤮😬🙄

I think that is very unfair, I'm not particularly a fan of Kate but but she's too professional to show her personal feelings like he did.

TootingLido · 07/03/2025 10:27

BrownPapery · 07/03/2025 09:16

The whole thing was a bit of a grift from the start and I include Captain Tom. The fact that the nation collectively lost its mind over some bloke walking up and down was just an effect of lockdown. From then on it was really just a freebie jamboree, including the free holiday that ended up killing him.

Now the collective delusion is that he was a saint and she’s a devil. But the truth is that both of them were on the make. Much easier to pin it all on her than accept we fell for it.

Honestly, people are just plain stupid for the most part. They’ll lap up any old media frenzy with barely one critical thought in their tiny minds. Perhaps 10% of the population - maybe less - have a functioning brain lol

BustingBaoBun · 07/03/2025 10:27

It’s a shame that this is what people remember of the CTF and not how it lifted people’s spirits during a very difficult time,

It didn't lift my spirits in the slightest. Me and my adult DCs quietly voiced between us that there was something wrong with all of this. We had to keep that to ourselves though. And I massively blame the BBC for giving the whole thing so much airtime, every bloody morning, there they were.
There were plenty of other people doing some wonderful fundraising for the NHS , they didn't get a look in because of this family.

She's got a nerve doubling down. Yes, why doesn't she donate the £££££££ she made from the book for the 'mistake' of her father saying it was his chance to raise more money in the foreward.

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 10:25

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:20

That isn't very professional though is it. I think he's very pompous.

I think he's great. Glad someone says it as it is and stopped pussyfooting around the issues. Can imagine if it was Kate just there doing the interview. She'd be declaring her undying love for her 🤮😬🙄

Boodahh · 07/03/2025 10:25

kellygoeswest · 07/03/2025 09:15

I still can't believe she went to Barbados with him in December 2020 (while most people were still in some form of lockdown) only for him to pass away from covid less than 6 weeks after returning. The whole thing was opportunistic and she deserves the backlash. I just don't know why she's still going.

Absolutely. My grandad made it to a similar age, but the thought of dragging him on a long haul flight at all, nevermind during covid would have been absolutely ludicrous.

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 07/03/2025 10:21

oakleaffy · 07/03/2025 09:51

Absolutely this, @BrownPapery . We {like most people in UK} have had old Veterans in our families, WW1, WW2 that were of that generation.
I didn't realise that he himself was ''slightly dodgy'' but looking back , the parading with zimmer and a suit and medals was part of the act- he wasn't walking in his casual clothes, it was done for show.

The whole "Captain Tom" thing was the DD's idea apparently - it taps in to the nation's nostalgia for the war (particularly as we'd just had the 75th anniversary of VE Day in 2020). The public loves a little old man in a suit and medals. Yes, the bloke was a veteran but so was pretty much everyone else's grandad if they were that generation! He left the army after the war so it's not even though he spent a whole career in the military...

TheignT · 07/03/2025 10:20

AreYouTheFarmer2025 · 07/03/2025 09:05

Throwing her late dad under the bus.😱

Did you see the side eye Rob gave Hannah when Kate thanked her for coming on. He hates her lol.

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That isn't very professional though is it. I think he's very pompous.

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