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Outrageous comments from best friend:s DP

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Lucelady · 06/03/2025 18:49

I'm shocked and don't know what to say.
My friend of thirty plus years moved in with a new partner last year.
She had few options due to three divorces and very few savings.
I've met the chap once, he seemed OK but over handy for my liking. Both her adult daughters have said they don't like him. I thought it was an age and class thing (he's 27 years younger).
It turns out he is an admirer of Hitler and Trump.
I said to my friend well he won't be invited to dinner here. He apparently made the statements at a family party last week. The daughters quite rightly walked out. I'm disabled, my husband not white. My uncles POW. I can't believe she's with him. She was very lonely. Aibu to be shocked or none of my business?

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Spirallingdownwards · 06/03/2025 20:47

Horriblevirusagain · 06/03/2025 20:43

Hitler and Zelensky are Dictators.
Trump is a leader who wants peace and what's best for his people.

Don't be ridiculous.

Spirallingdownwards · 06/03/2025 20:46

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DFOD

That's just disgusting. Hoping you are some random MAGA twat who has found a UK site

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 06/03/2025 20:46

How are Hitler and Zelenskyy alike ?

Both dark haired and not tall?

notatinydancer · 06/03/2025 20:44

Can't she go back to work if she's skint ?
Why can't she be single ?

Horriblevirusagain · 06/03/2025 20:43

Hitler and Zelensky are Dictators.
Trump is a leader who wants peace and what's best for his people.

AngelicKaty · 06/03/2025 20:43

@Lucelady If she's a "great friend" I think you need to try to maintain your friendship with her as far as you can - just don't extend any invitations to him. And if she voices any similar opinions to his, drag her back from the dark side - she needs to hear views other than his.

FozzieWozzieWasABear · 06/03/2025 20:40

Errors · 06/03/2025 19:59

She has my vote

@BlueBatsAndOranges and others who have commented on Luna, thank you.

I can try to teach as she will do anything for a treat (Spaniel so food led). She’d even support Trump if he fed her, little traitor!

notatinydancer · 06/03/2025 20:40

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How are Hitler and Zelenskyy alike ?

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 06/03/2025 20:38

I can't keep up!

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BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:34

Maray1967 · 06/03/2025 20:32

The Kremlin spokesperson has arrived.

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Maray1967 · 06/03/2025 20:32

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The Kremlin spokesperson has arrived.

Lucelady · 06/03/2025 20:31

WW2

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Stairsdown · 06/03/2025 20:30

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BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:29

Errors · 06/03/2025 20:10

In fact I have already started 🤫

I’ve found your work 👏

Triakne · 06/03/2025 20:27

I'm just here for the dogs
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Stirabout · 06/03/2025 20:25

BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:21

Ok

You beat me to it Bluebat 😆

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IButtleSir · 06/03/2025 20:25

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The fuck?

Lucelady · 06/03/2025 20:23

@Cucy cock before conscience .

A bit like cock before kids, a mumsnet favourite.

The website was 'adult fun' I believe. Full of shaggers obviously. Most were hysterical.

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Stirabout · 06/03/2025 20:22

Just getting off twitter to read a book

Read Texas Am GIF by Texas A&M University
MaryGreenhill · 06/03/2025 20:21

Love the dog ❤️
It is Crufts week after all 😁

BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:21

CunningLinguist1 · 06/03/2025 20:16

Brainwashed much? Get off Twitter & read a book

Ok

Read Texas Am GIF by Texas A&M University
HausofHolbein · 06/03/2025 20:19

.

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CunningLinguist1 · 06/03/2025 20:16

BlueBatsAndOranges · 06/03/2025 20:00

Trump is not anywhere near in the same league as Hitler and those who say he is just make themselves look silly.

Brainwashed much? Get off Twitter & read a book

Lucelady · 06/03/2025 20:15

@livelovelough24 no probs. I just had my jaw on my chest but as I don't drink I didn't go into a rave. Others did apparently.
I work for a jew, my husband is black and I'm disabled. We would have been rounded up and gassed. He must be pretty thick if he didn't know this. My lady bits would have healed over when he said this. It was my friends War baby mother's birthday. So a real WTF moment.
I thought a bit iffy, but I am quite good at male scumbags.

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Errors · 06/03/2025 20:15

Cattery · 06/03/2025 20:12

She probs found him on a dating site called Plentyoftwats

Oh I think I have used that one!!