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To be worried about sending DD to school

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Journeyintomelody · 04/03/2025 20:15

Increasingly I am starting to think the pros of sending DD to school no longer outweigh the cons. 5 years ago, homeschooling was not on my radar. I hadn't considered anything other than mainstream school for DD.

However, I am seriously worried about the state of UK schools to the point where I am starting to explore other options. The school system goes against pretty much everything I believe in. I understand how important the social aspect of school is, but, I am also worried about some horror stories related to worsening behaviour.

Am I being completely unreasonable?

I would be interested to hear the experiences of parents with children in reception, year 1 and 2 and also from parents who homeschool. Is mainstream school as bad as the media makes out?

Private is not an option for us.

Note: DD is neurotypical, no additional needs. She's bright but not exceptional - just a happy child.

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Scirocco · 04/03/2025 20:24

Maybe explore your options - find out about and visit local schools, and reach out to the local home education community to find out more there, too.

Porcuporpoise · 04/03/2025 20:22

If you can afford not to work so you can homeschool your daughter then surely you could work full time and fund private school?

Sirzy · 04/03/2025 20:19

Visit your local schools. Get a feel for the ethos of them and see if any feel right for you as a family.

RobinHeartella · 04/03/2025 20:18

The school system goes against pretty much everything I believe in.

What do you mean, in what way? I think that would clarify what sort of advice you're looking for

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