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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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Ablondiebutagoody · 04/03/2025 12:43

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 12:30

Ursula von der Leyen has announced plans to hugely increase defence spending. Yes, it won't be instantaneous but it isn't just "warm words" either.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A660b1dc5-e7f9-4e94-a166-bfa26027d79d#post

That's not assistance to Ukraine though is it? That's some flaky words about rebuilding European militaries at some point, maybe, and the accounting dodge they will use to do it with debt rather than cut spending elsewhere.

Look at the UK, making a big deal about raiding the foreign aid budget to find an extra £5bn for defence spending, and still the % of GDP spent on defence will be less than half what the US spends. Pissing in the ocean I'm afraid and we shouldn't be moaning about the US refusing to do what we also refuse to do.

BunfightBetty · 04/03/2025 12:43

LittleBigHead · 04/03/2025 12:39

YANBU.

I lived through the Cold War (no joke to be forced to contemplate the end of the world fairly regularly through my youth). I saw the proxy war of Vietnam and the damage it caused in the USA and Australia (not to mention Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia!).

I would never have expected a day when the USA sides with Russia against a liberal democracy in Europe.

I would never have expected a day when the USA sides with Russia against a liberal democracy in Europe.

It was unthinkable until Trump came along. That tells its own tale.

SallyWD · 04/03/2025 12:43

It's really, really awful. Europe has been abandoned by it's most powerful ally, whilst he sucks up to Putin. There seems to be a whole new world order emerging.

PrincessOfPreschool · 04/03/2025 12:41

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 12:35

McCarthy must be revolving in his grave.

That actually made me 😂 in the midst of all this. I was telling my children that when I studied post war politics in 1989-91, I just couldn't have imagined this.

In fact, I used to think everyone 'doom-mongering' about Trump was going a bit overboard. But seeing the chaos he's unleashed so quickly, I can't imagine where we will be in 4 years time. One thing I can't imagine is him and his cronies relinquishing power. He will stay, whether it's through underhand vote manipulation or outright control of the military. If I were American I would revolt now, before it's too late. The other parts of government need to stand up him, the American people need to stand up to him.

LittleBigHead · 04/03/2025 12:39

YANBU.

I lived through the Cold War (no joke to be forced to contemplate the end of the world fairly regularly through my youth). I saw the proxy war of Vietnam and the damage it caused in the USA and Australia (not to mention Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia!).

I would never have expected a day when the USA sides with Russia against a liberal democracy in Europe.

cardibach · 04/03/2025 12:38

I’ve seen the figures, and no, Ukraine weren’t. The idea Zelenskyy is pocketing the money has been thoroughly debunked. Stop trying to justify Trump.

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:36

cardibach · 04/03/2025 12:32

The first poster was implying Zelenskyy had pocketed it. Your link, while accurate, shows that’s happening upstream.

It's happening at all levels.

Here's $40m meant for mortar rounds that disappeared
https://thehill.com/policy/defense/4435619-ukraine-says-defense-officials-stole-40-million-meant-for-mortar-munitions/

Don't forget both Russia and Ukraine were high up the corruption indexes prior to 2022. We've thrown billions at Ukraine with very little accountability and oversight.

BunfightBetty · 04/03/2025 12:36

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 12:35

McCarthy must be revolving in his grave.

Absolutely.

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 12:35

McCarthy must be revolving in his grave.

Anniegetyourgun · 04/03/2025 12:33

Yalta · 04/03/2025 12:32

Maybe Trump is softening the American people up to the idea of communism

Wouldn't that be ironic!

Yalta · 04/03/2025 12:32

valder · 04/03/2025 12:27

Maybe if the US economy tanks and people's standard/costs of living hugely deteriorate, then the worms may turn.

The person in the street is not all that involved in wars and espionage and Project 25 and NATO etc. But they are very cognisant of the cost of living. They were promised more money in their pockets if Trump won.

If that doesn't happen very soon (and many Americans don't get the potential impact of tariffs on their pockets yet), well that may turn things around. Protests etc. Bad publicity. Bad vibes. I don't know, just thinking out loud.

It's the economy Stupid.

Maybe Trump is softening the American people up to the idea of communism

cardibach · 04/03/2025 12:32

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:29

Here you go, from the Kiev Independent in January

Ukraine has received less than half of US assistance allocated during full-scale war, Zelensky says

https://kyivindependent.com/ukraine-has-received-less-than-half-of-us-assistance-allocated-during-full-scale-war-zelensky-says/

The first poster was implying Zelenskyy had pocketed it. Your link, while accurate, shows that’s happening upstream.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 12:30

Ablondiebutagoody · 04/03/2025 12:25

Europe isn't doing anything. Warm words aren't what's required here. It's military power and we don't have any because we've been sponging off the US for decades. If our electorates had prioritised defence spending over welfare, things might be different, but we didn't, so can't really be moaning that US taxpayers don't want to foot the bill any more.

Ursula von der Leyen has announced plans to hugely increase defence spending. Yes, it won't be instantaneous but it isn't just "warm words" either.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A660b1dc5-e7f9-4e94-a166-bfa26027d79d#post

Ukraine war latest: Ukraine's PM says Kyiv determined to continue co-operation with US after Trump pauses aid

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A660b1dc5-e7f9-4e94-a166-bfa26027d79d#post

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Careertimenow · 04/03/2025 12:29

Itisbetter · 04/03/2025 12:06

It’s time the world shunned the US their behaviour is disgusting. Maybe China will save us.

China's only interest is in themselves. Read the below paragraph and you will understand why.

"Drug addiction in China began with the importation of Indian opium by the British in the 16th century and brought severe social and health problems. While drug abuse abated following the establishment of People's Republic of China, modernization and Westernization in the 1980s led to the reemergence of this problem."

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:29

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 12:21

"Hysterical" is a misogynistic term to use for women discussing politics. No-one is asking America to fund "everything" but they are part of NATO and NATO countries are under threat also if Ukraine isn't defended.

Also, the UK backed up the US in the Iraq war, so yes, they do "owe" us.

Please provide links for "billions of pounds going missing".

Here you go, from the Kiev Independent in January

Ukraine has received less than half of US assistance allocated during full-scale war, Zelensky says

https://kyivindependent.com/ukraine-has-received-less-than-half-of-us-assistance-allocated-during-full-scale-war-zelensky-says/

Yalta · 04/03/2025 12:28

PerkingFaintly · 04/03/2025 11:40

To which Vance has added this:

https://bsky.app/profile/newseye.bsky.social/post/3ljk3ly6iuk2g
NEW: JD Vance describes UK & French troops in Ukraine as “20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years”.
Spits in the face of UK & EU troops that died supporting the US in Iraq & Afghanistan.
So revealing. The Atlantic alliance & “special relationship” is dead.

And people kept telling me on another thread how intelligent Vance is.

Must be keeping it well hidden if he keeps coming out with stuff he should remember

Early onset Dementia maybe if he has forgotten so much?

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 12:28

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:11

After the amount of hatred levelled at Trump over the last months I'm not surprised he has decided not to play the game any more.

He is playing the game - Putin’s.

ssd · 04/03/2025 12:28

BigSilly · 04/03/2025 12:22

I wonder what Joe is thinking at this moment in time........

He should be ashamed he didn't step away and let a proper election campaign happen for someone/anyfuckingone that would have beat trump

So to me joe should be getting a kick in the balls

valder · 04/03/2025 12:27

Maybe if the US economy tanks and people's standard/costs of living hugely deteriorate, then the worms may turn.

The person in the street is not all that involved in wars and espionage and Project 25 and NATO etc. But they are very cognisant of the cost of living. They were promised more money in their pockets if Trump won.

If that doesn't happen very soon (and many Americans don't get the potential impact of tariffs on their pockets yet), well that may turn things around. Protests etc. Bad publicity. Bad vibes. I don't know, just thinking out loud.

It's the economy Stupid.

cardibach · 04/03/2025 12:27

itsjustbiology · 04/03/2025 12:15

I am sorry but I have never in my 50 pus years on this earth read so much crap and seen so many hysterical posts as on this thread. its bloody ridiculous.where on earth are you getting your bizarre ideas from?
President Trump is posturing and making a very valid point to the world,us included,cannot you see that?He is taking a stand and a valid one at that that America is not the saviour of the world especially financially.Why do you all expect that country to finance everything? America owes no country anything, and why should the President and citizens of America be subject to such disrespect? Aid has temporarily been suspended. This is to force the hand of the little man running round the world with his hands out in his action man clothes demanding every other country finance his every whim whilst billions of pounds has gone "missing". Nobody,not one single country,us,France,anyone can go into this with alleged peacekeepers or boots on the ground without America no one, you should remember that.No American backing No dice and no one can move and no peace. Whilst our Pm is rallying leaders of nations no one has the money.weapons or troops to move an inch without America. Trump is forcing the hand of Zalensky to negociate. As for being a russian plant well ffs grow up.This war will be stopped round a table not on the battlefield as zalensky would like glorified by dead soldiers on the ground. I would step back,calm down and have a chill about which scenario would play out the best for everyone.

He’s not posturing, he’s acting.

Despite what he’s telling you, Europe has given more to Ukraine than the US.

Zelenskyy wasn’t disrespectful.

No money has gone missing. Debunked misinformation.

Churchill wore military dress during WW2 when he visited, for eg, the White House. Was he a ‘little man…in action man clothes’?

It may be true that American aid makes it more likely to succeed at peacekeeping - but remember there was an agreement with Ukraine when it gave up nuclear weapons. They (and the rest of Europe) are not wrong t9 expect it to be upheld.

Some reputable people have said Trump is too closely tied to Russia and always has been.

The best scenario for everyone is the one where Putin isn’t emboldened and is made to stop his invasion of a sovereign country. It’s even best for the US.

Does that cover all your ‘points’?

JazzyJelly · 04/03/2025 12:27

If there was any uncertainty that Trump is a Russian asset, it's gone now. And America as an ally with it. All we can do is hope Europe (and perhaps Canada, Australia, New Zealand etc.) rally round and support Ukraine.

On a side note - What an odd choice of words and grammar from the pro-Trump poster.

EmmaMaria · 04/03/2025 12:26

PerkingFaintly · 04/03/2025 11:40

To which Vance has added this:

https://bsky.app/profile/newseye.bsky.social/post/3ljk3ly6iuk2g
NEW: JD Vance describes UK & French troops in Ukraine as “20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years”.
Spits in the face of UK & EU troops that died supporting the US in Iraq & Afghanistan.
So revealing. The Atlantic alliance & “special relationship” is dead.

From the Vice President of a country that hasn't won one since the War of Independance. Joining in when the it was clear which was the winning side doesn't count.

RubyTuesday48 · 04/03/2025 12:25

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Ablondiebutagoody · 04/03/2025 12:25

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:58

It IS scary but I'm so glad Europe is standing firm and recognising that appeasing Putin is NOT the way to secure the safety of Ukraine and wider Europe.

We need to be able to defend ourselves without relying on the US. I know not all Americans think like Trump but he is the one in power for the next four years and he has made it clear that he thinks we're all too far away to care about.

Europe isn't doing anything. Warm words aren't what's required here. It's military power and we don't have any because we've been sponging off the US for decades. If our electorates had prioritised defence spending over welfare, things might be different, but we didn't, so can't really be moaning that US taxpayers don't want to foot the bill any more.

thepariscrimefiles · 04/03/2025 12:25

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:11

After the amount of hatred levelled at Trump over the last months I'm not surprised he has decided not to play the game any more.

Totally justified amount of hatred levelled at Trump based on his actions and words. He has never played the game.