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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 04/03/2025 13:11

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 12:59

All of this.

It is sad - and scary - to see that the vast majority of Americans don't seem to care. No mass demonstrations against Trump essentially proposing to capitulate to Putin and leave the frontline of the free world in deep shit.

The Americans have convinced themselves that they rule the world and unfortunately are swallowing all of Trump’s garbage.
What they need to be considering is Trump’s treatment of China, the US are insignificant in terms of firepower compared to China, he could well be leading them into a fight that they definitely wouldn’t win.

sleepwouldbenice · 04/03/2025 13:08

Mumof2girls2121 · 04/03/2025 12:53

No im not, you can’t keep pouring money down a black hole if the countries leaders aren’t prepared to negotiate.

Of course he will negotiate! He wants a lasting peace though, do you really think that's so unreasonable?

Notonthestairs · 04/03/2025 13:06

Trump has regurgitated every Putin talking point - Zelensky is a dictator and should hold elections, Ukraine caused the war etc. He may as well have been reading from a Kremlin prepared script

Putin and Trump are working for a common aim. US financially benefits 5x the aid they've provided. Russia gets land and the opportunity to rearm whilst interfering in any future Ukraine election.

Why would anyone rely upon the US now?

sweetgingercat · 04/03/2025 13:06

@Jade520

The most recent TI index suggests that Ukraine has made some strides since then, but it still ranks 104th among 180 countries. Denmark is ranked first—meaning that it is perceived as cleanest—while Russia ranks 141st.'

Well you have to choose your priorities. At this rate, if the rest of Ukraine is invaded by Russia it will go down from being 104th out of 180 countries to 141. And a cluster of other East European countries and Poland will be next in line for Russia's special operations.

I suppose that's a good outcome in your book?

Pinkmoth · 04/03/2025 13:01

BigSilly · 04/03/2025 12:21

Vance will be next and hw many Trump kids are there.....?

In some ways even Elon would be better 😂

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 13:01

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 12:59

All of this.

It is sad - and scary - to see that the vast majority of Americans don't seem to care. No mass demonstrations against Trump essentially proposing to capitulate to Putin and leave the frontline of the free world in deep shit.

I don’t think it’s that they don’t care, I think most of them are blissfully unaware of what’s happening.

Jade520 · 04/03/2025 12:59

cardibach · 04/03/2025 12:38

I’ve seen the figures, and no, Ukraine weren’t. The idea Zelenskyy is pocketing the money has been thoroughly debunked. Stop trying to justify Trump.

I don't think anyone is saying it's Zelensky pocketing it all but Ukraine has had huge problems with corruption and although they are really moving forwards they are still way down the table.

'According to the most widely cited source—the annual ranking of corruption by Transparency International (TI)—Ukraine has scored poorly for decades. As late as 2016, amid major anti-corruption reforms, TI’s survey still judged Ukraine to be as corrupt as Russia. The most recent TI index suggests that Ukraine has made some strides since then, but it still ranks 104th among 180 countries. Denmark is ranked first—meaning that it is perceived as cleanest—while Russia ranks 141st.'

'Last year, Ukrainian authorities opened a criminal case against Dmytro Firtash, an oligarch also wanted in the United States for corruption, alleging that his group embezzled $484 million from the Ukrainian state treasury in a scheme involving gas transit fees.'

I'm not pro Trump by any means though, voting in a narcissistic megalomaniac is never a clever move in my book. That doesn't mean though that we should pretend Ukraine is squeaky clean.

foreignpolicy.com/2024/03/06/ukraine-corruption-reforms-russia-war/

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 12:59

sweetgingercat · 04/03/2025 12:55

Ukraine got rid of it's nuclear arsenal after the breakup of the Soviet Union. They did so only after being assured that Russia, US and UK would guarantee their security in the Budapest Memorandum.

After Trump's monumental fuck-up this weekend, no country will ever agree to relinquish their weapons again, nuclear or otherwise.

The security that we relied on and the world as we know it has changed, almost overnight and Nato is already dead in the water.

It would be comforting to think that Trump, Musk and Vance are an aberation, that could be overthrown, yet they received backing and approval from a supine Republican party and a voting stupidity majority of US citizens. Dark times indeed.

All of this.

It is sad - and scary - to see that the vast majority of Americans don't seem to care. No mass demonstrations against Trump essentially proposing to capitulate to Putin and leave the frontline of the free world in deep shit.

Notonthestairs · 04/03/2025 12:58

Mumof2girls2121 · 04/03/2025 12:53

No im not, you can’t keep pouring money down a black hole if the countries leaders aren’t prepared to negotiate.

It's not a negotiation when Trump has already handed Ukraine to Russia.

BunfightBetty · 04/03/2025 12:58

Mumof2girls2121 · 04/03/2025 12:53

No im not, you can’t keep pouring money down a black hole if the countries leaders aren’t prepared to negotiate.

You mean Ukraine should negotiate with the Russia that already waltzed into Crimea and took it? That they should have more? And what would stop them going for another bite of the cherry after that? Or looking next to Poland? Or Slovakia? Or Finland? Or half of bloody Europe.

No.

BunfightBetty · 04/03/2025 12:56

EasternEcho · 04/03/2025 12:51

Vance also dismissed Starmer's and Macron's efforts as " peacekeeping assistance from "some random country that hasn't fought a war in 30 or 40 years". Although he later tried to deny he didn't mean these countries.

This has sparked some passionate responses from London. Really disrepectful of countries whose soldiers fought and died alongside the US in wars they started.

Really apprehensive about where all this is headed.

JD Vance trashes Starmer and Macron’s Ukraine peacekeeping plan – POLITICO

It is so disrespectful of those who died and their families. Utterly reprehensible.

Vance is an absolute turd.

Whatafustercluck · 04/03/2025 12:56

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 12:21

"Hysterical" is a misogynistic term to use for women discussing politics. No-one is asking America to fund "everything" but they are part of NATO and NATO countries are under threat also if Ukraine isn't defended.

Also, the UK backed up the US in the Iraq war, so yes, they do "owe" us.

Please provide links for "billions of pounds going missing".

And Afghanistan.

sweetgingercat · 04/03/2025 12:55

Ukraine got rid of it's nuclear arsenal after the breakup of the Soviet Union. They did so only after being assured that Russia, US and UK would guarantee their security in the Budapest Memorandum.

After Trump's monumental fuck-up this weekend, no country will ever agree to relinquish their weapons again, nuclear or otherwise.

The security that we relied on and the world as we know it has changed, almost overnight and Nato is already dead in the water.

It would be comforting to think that Trump, Musk and Vance are an aberation, that could be overthrown, yet they received backing and approval from a supine Republican party and a voting stupidity majority of US citizens. Dark times indeed.

Mumof2girls2121 · 04/03/2025 12:53

No im not, you can’t keep pouring money down a black hole if the countries leaders aren’t prepared to negotiate.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 04/03/2025 12:53

itsjustbiology · 04/03/2025 12:15

I am sorry but I have never in my 50 pus years on this earth read so much crap and seen so many hysterical posts as on this thread. its bloody ridiculous.where on earth are you getting your bizarre ideas from?
President Trump is posturing and making a very valid point to the world,us included,cannot you see that?He is taking a stand and a valid one at that that America is not the saviour of the world especially financially.Why do you all expect that country to finance everything? America owes no country anything, and why should the President and citizens of America be subject to such disrespect? Aid has temporarily been suspended. This is to force the hand of the little man running round the world with his hands out in his action man clothes demanding every other country finance his every whim whilst billions of pounds has gone "missing". Nobody,not one single country,us,France,anyone can go into this with alleged peacekeepers or boots on the ground without America no one, you should remember that.No American backing No dice and no one can move and no peace. Whilst our Pm is rallying leaders of nations no one has the money.weapons or troops to move an inch without America. Trump is forcing the hand of Zalensky to negociate. As for being a russian plant well ffs grow up.This war will be stopped round a table not on the battlefield as zalensky would like glorified by dead soldiers on the ground. I would step back,calm down and have a chill about which scenario would play out the best for everyone.

That’s an interesting take, the US don’t actually rule the world you know, whatever that hideous orange moron thinks.
You seem to be completely ignorant of Putin’s hand in all this, there is credible evidence of Russian interference in the US 2016 election and the Brexit referendum in the UK, and you believe the best scenario would be to allow him and Trump to call the shots, because they don’t have ANY ulterior motives at all do they? 🤦‍♀️
You also underestimate how much Trump is goading China, you ignore them at your peril.

JHound · 04/03/2025 12:52

PerkingFaintly · 04/03/2025 11:40

To which Vance has added this:

https://bsky.app/profile/newseye.bsky.social/post/3ljk3ly6iuk2g
NEW: JD Vance describes UK & French troops in Ukraine as “20,000 troops from some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years”.
Spits in the face of UK & EU troops that died supporting the US in Iraq & Afghanistan.
So revealing. The Atlantic alliance & “special relationship” is dead.

“Random countries”

”Not fought a war in years”.

Yeah so British supporters of MAGA - what say you?

JHound · 04/03/2025 12:51

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:11

After the amount of hatred levelled at Trump over the last months I'm not surprised he has decided not to play the game any more.

LOL!

Absolute loony toons.

”Hate” from where exactly.

EasternEcho · 04/03/2025 12:51

Vance also dismissed Starmer's and Macron's efforts as " peacekeeping assistance from "some random country that hasn't fought a war in 30 or 40 years". Although he later tried to deny he didn't mean these countries.

This has sparked some passionate responses from London. Really disrepectful of countries whose soldiers fought and died alongside the US in wars they started.

Really apprehensive about where all this is headed.

JD Vance trashes Starmer and Macron’s Ukraine peacekeeping plan – POLITICO

JD Vance trashes Starmer and Macron’s Ukraine peacekeeping plan

U.S. vice president mocks idea of “some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 years” helping Ukraine, though denies he was referring to France or U.K. after backlash.

https://www.politico.eu/article/jd-vance-trashes-keir-starmer-emmanuel-macron-ukraine-peacekeeping-plan/

Needspaceforlego · 04/03/2025 12:50

Itisbetter · 04/03/2025 12:06

It’s time the world shunned the US their behaviour is disgusting. Maybe China will save us.

Your having a laugh.
We sold our steelworks to China and they closed them down.

How do we make weapons to defend ourselves.

I don't mean to be a gloom munger but the UK isn't exactly in a strong position to defend itself.

Useless info after WW1 was finished the forestry commission was set up as the UK almost ran out of wood.

We import so much stuff, including essentials like clothing and food, an international war would be a disaster for the UK.

Tomikka · 04/03/2025 12:50

thepariscrimefiles · 04/03/2025 11:44

Vance is a bigger cunt than Trump. The UK only sent troops to Iraq and Afghanistan to help and support the USA after 9/11. That was the 'Coalition of the Willing'. Where was the gratitude from Trump and Vance for that?

…. and Ukraine

Bam7659 · 04/03/2025 12:50

Yes, and what about the fact that he's put a pause on ALL aid and Starmer has tried to copy up to him by cutting aid by 40 percent himself. Thousands of people will die as a result of Starmer costing up to Trump.

JHound · 04/03/2025 12:50

It was completely unsurprising.

M.A.G.A

Moscow Agent Governing America.

But it also shows we do not keep our promises. When Ukraine agreed to demilitarise in terms of its nuclear capability they were assured “we” (including the USA and UK) would come to their aid in case of Russian aggression.

So I guess that was an empty promise and other countries should take note.

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 12:50

Inmydreams88 · 04/03/2025 11:52

I’m so scared for our future.

So am I. I'm a pacifist at heart, but this is different. Europe - and I am including the UK, as I always have... - must stand firm. It doesn't bear thinking about what will happen if we were to fall in with those lunatics, Trump and Vance, who seem determined to appease Putin

middleagedandinarage · 04/03/2025 12:44

RosaAna · 04/03/2025 11:24

It is devastating. Seems like this was Trumps plan and the meeting with Zekensky was a setup so they could blame it on him.

Agree, I think it was planned! This is very worrying

RedOnyx · 04/03/2025 12:44

I have relatives in Ukraine (mum's cousins, their (grown-up) children. I'm even more terrified for them than I already was.

My granddad passed away a few weeks after Ukraine's 1991 independence referendum. I'm so glad he's not around to see what's happening to his country now!