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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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fromthevault · 04/03/2025 14:16

Tigergirl80 · 04/03/2025 13:14

He’s an absolute tw*t I wouldn’t usually say this about someone but that person that attempted to assassinate him and that other man got killed instead. That should have been Trump and the way he was celebrating afterwards because they weren’t successful. No condolences to the man’s family that died him and his brainwashed minions that voted for him absolutely disgust me.

Yup. Where's Luigi Mangione when the world really needs him?

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 14:16

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 14:10

We will never know what outcome diplomacy would have yielded. Mr Z bailed out before any real options presented. We just don’t know what could have been.

As the man said…. Mr Z didn’t have the cards last week, he has less cards now.

Oh don't be silly. That meeting was a set-up designed to humiliate Zelenskyy. Pet journalists invited to ask the 'right' questions to embarass him, Vance bleating on about how Zelenskyy hadn't thanked the US for their over-inflated loans (which he has, countless times). It was cringeworthy to watch the POTUS and his weird little sidekick acting like bullies in the school playground. It's obvious that Trump always intended to pull military aid, and he wants Zelenskyy to resign because that will further destabilise Ukraine and make it easy for Putin to carry on his invasion. Which he will - why wouldn't he? The Russian economy currently depends on winning this war and expanding their territory.

Nanny0gg · 04/03/2025 14:14

RubyTuesday48 · 04/03/2025 12:17

Vance as POTUS will be no better, probably worse if that's possible.

And the Democrats don't seem to have started looking for a new, intelligent, younger leader yet

BMW6 · 04/03/2025 14:14

ssd · 04/03/2025 12:23

Same reason the english voted for brexit

Wales voted in favour. Try sneering accurately.

RubyTuesday48 · 04/03/2025 14:14

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 14:04

It’s in the GCSE textbook

It's a long time since my kids were at school, so thanks for this.

Balloonhearts · 04/03/2025 14:13

Well presidents have been assassinated for less. We live in hope.

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 14:12

EasternStandard · 04/03/2025 14:09

European leaders know their own countries will end up fighting Putin if this surrender deal happens. It's looking almost inevitable now, unfortunately.

@AnonymousBleep those European leaders are still talking about US security before this happens.

There will be no “US security”. Trump’s made that crystal clear, we all woke up to it this morning. There are some very stark choices to be made now.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 14:11

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 13:58

I know. I paid towards that for 34 years of my working life. I wasn’t even born when it ended.

I wonder how much the USA paid back to the UK for sending troops to support them in Aghanistan post 9/11? I'd imagine it's a big fat nothing. Yet they bleat on as if the rest of the world is constantly ripping them off.

Nanny0gg · 04/03/2025 14:11

Topseyt123 · 04/03/2025 12:02

Personally, I think core Trump voters are generally as thick as shit. They wouldn't see it, and probably wouldn't care.

There must be other floating voters though who were taken in by his bullshit and are regretting their choice now that reality is starting to set in. There must be! Surely! Please tell me they don't all support this arsewipe unquestioningly!!! ☹️

They'll see it when all DOGE's 'efficiencies' directly affect them

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 04/03/2025 14:10

Shitmonger · 04/03/2025 13:43

It’s not surprising. After Zelenskyy directly threatened the US twice during the meeting, which immediately turned the tone and got him shut down by Trump and Vance, I was expecting this.

Zelenskyy’s threats seem to have made a lot of Americans change their minds about supporting him as well.

Very apt username you have there, do you get paid to peddle lies?

Nanny0gg · 04/03/2025 14:10

TheNoonBell · 04/03/2025 12:11

After the amount of hatred levelled at Trump over the last months I'm not surprised he has decided not to play the game any more.

Well deserved hatred

When will the US wake up to the fact that he's trampling over their laws and constitution?

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 14:10

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 14:03

Yes, he's capitulated. He's giving Putin what Putin wants. It's not a 'peace' deal (as the last thing it will lead to is peace) it's a 'surrender' deal.

European leaders know their own countries will end up fighting Putin if this surrender deal happens. It's looking almost inevitable now, unfortunately.

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We will never know what outcome diplomacy would have yielded. Mr Z bailed out before any real options presented. We just don’t know what could have been.

As the man said…. Mr Z didn’t have the cards last week, he has less cards now.

RubyTuesday48 · 04/03/2025 14:09

Patterncarmen · 04/03/2025 14:00

About 48 percent of Americans have passports, so not the majority, but not a tiny amount.

I didn't say 'a tiny amount'.

EasternStandard · 04/03/2025 14:09

European leaders know their own countries will end up fighting Putin if this surrender deal happens. It's looking almost inevitable now, unfortunately.

@AnonymousBleep those European leaders are still talking about US security before this happens.

laveritable · 04/03/2025 14:09

Hilary Clinton has been very vocal about putin and his ambitions and how trump is his "puppet" ( putin hates Hilary because she could predict his every move),

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:09

@BIossomtoes what then ? I mean genuinely what do people think could work ?

valder · 04/03/2025 14:09

The current VP is more vocal and visible than any other VP that I can remember. That's deliberate obviously, bad cop, bad cop. The demonic duo.

I have hopes, however risible they may seem at the moment, that cool and intelligent, moral and incorruptible heads will prevail in Congress/Senate and the courts.

The mid terms will prove me right or wrong, and you know which one most people want. A lot can happen between then and now though, and that's very worrying.

Is there any mechanism (other than assassination) to get rid of a President. Not that I know of anyway.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 14:08

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:05

Also what is the alternative , have an all out war with Russia ? Both putin and trump want Europe weakened and it’s working so he isn’t going to engage with European leaders , what are pp suggestions of what they can do to deescalate and get an agreement?

Not sure what you mean? The European leaders literally are meeting to work out how to de-escalate this without a) war with Russia and b) capitulating to Russia so that we end up with them absorbing more Europea countries, with or without a fight. If there was an obvious silver bullet, we'd know about it.

Trump stands with Putin, that much is clear.

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:07

@JazzyJelly I have on numerous threads on here , almost as though your troops are something to be revered, whereas in many many other countries your army was the invading force . “ Divide and conquer “ …

user9876543211 · 04/03/2025 14:07

Ablondiebutagoody · 04/03/2025 12:18

It's shit for Ukraine but Europe/Nato have been taking the piss regarding defence spending for decades. We prefer to pump money into welfare.

Europe should have seen this coming. Trump was moaning about it during his first term. I mean look at Trudeau, talking all supportively whilst simultaneously running down defence spending to 1.4% GDP. It's pitiful. Time for others to step up and stop telling the US what they should spend their taxpayers money on whilst refusing to do the same.

You do know that 70% of foreign aid to Ukraine goes straight back into the US economy, right? We ship them old arms and military equipment that we were going to pay to destroy and then build replacements. That's what makes up the majority of the spend.

BIossomtoes · 04/03/2025 14:07

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:05

Also what is the alternative , have an all out war with Russia ? Both putin and trump want Europe weakened and it’s working so he isn’t going to engage with European leaders , what are pp suggestions of what they can do to deescalate and get an agreement?

Seriously, I don’t think agreement is possible. The only thing Putin will accept is capitulation and that’s not going to happen.

lifeonmars100 · 04/03/2025 14:06

J D Vance worries me more than Trump if such a thing is possible. He is what we will get when/if Trump does not complete his full term in office. Given that Trump is elderly, clearly does not look after himself and appears to have some cognitive issues there is a possibility that he will not see out the four years. If this is the case Vance will take over, decades younger and in my opinion even more dangerous. His recent remarks about the "random country" who has not fought in a war for 30=40 years are not just ignorant and insulting but also show what a truly nasty individual he is

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 14:06

TooBigForMyBoots · 04/03/2025 14:01

Are you deliberately lying and spreading misinformation or did you make a big mistake?

There's an awful lot of Russian bots Trump apologists on MN today, it seems.

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:05

Also what is the alternative , have an all out war with Russia ? Both putin and trump want Europe weakened and it’s working so he isn’t going to engage with European leaders , what are pp suggestions of what they can do to deescalate and get an agreement?

JazzyJelly · 04/03/2025 14:05

Magic3forvever · 04/03/2025 14:01

Assuming most people here are British , I just can’t get over the self righteousness I’ve read on mn re the British army !!
I am one of your former colonies . The British empire like the US, like Russia has been a war-mongering nation. One of the key reasons why Palestine is in the state it is now; look what Britain did originally there , literally gifting it away!
Look at how many countries in Africa have been messed up by British colonialism. I know many people are very well meaning on these threads but the comments of pride about wars fought by Britain when often your country was also an aggressor !!!
Europe has been weakened by this way and particularly the disaster of Brexit , I genuinely wish the uk could just join again to demonstrate a stronger and united Europe.

I've not seen anyone speaking proudly about the British Empire, or British troops colonising other countries.

But I agree about Brexit.