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DH annoyed at new neighbour ‘kiss’

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Niceeyes · 03/03/2025 22:04

Just to start it wasn’t a full on ‘kiss’

we recently bought a new property and the neighbour came around to introduce himself, I answered the door (for context there is a resident association and he is the director and I had spoken to this man once before regarding the rules for the building) and he introduced himself and kissed me on both cheeks….
DH was in the hallway then went into the living room seething at what he saw.

I went into the living room afterwards abs ge said what the hell was that all about. That I was out if order letting a strange man kiss me and that I was disrespectful to him and that moving forward I have set the bar to this man.

i told him he’s being ridiculous and what was I supposed ti do.
we have been together 7 years and occasionally he shows this bad trait.

what do you think of my story? Aibu or is he??
hes given me the silent treatment for almost 24hrs now and he’s taken himself to the spare room

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Catza · 03/03/2025 22:10

Ditch the husband.. He's got red flags all over him.

HundredMilesAnHour · 03/03/2025 22:09

You’ve done nothing wrong.

His behaviour is appalling. It seems he thinks you’re his possession.

It was bad enough already before you then added that he hadn’t spoken to you for 24 hours AND was in the spare room.

It’s abusive and controlling. And it seems he has a history of this?

adcde123 · 03/03/2025 22:07

Silent treatment = 🚩

emanresu24 · 03/03/2025 22:05

You've just bought a house with him?

Silent treatment like that is emotional abuse.

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