I know I probably am. But anyway - my birthday was recently and weeks before I asked my husband quite specifically for an artwork I like (as in, a print of it), framed. He seemed to have understood and (probably stupidly) I was so looking forward to receiving this and thinking where I’d put it etc. Also we’re trying not to spend much at the moment so this would have been good as it didn’t cost much.
Anyway on the day he got me an experience at a spa - which is wonderful in so many ways - but isn’t what I asked for and cost way more. Obviously I haven’t told him how disappointed I was that I didn’t get the gift I’d set my heart on, and I know he thought he was doing something lovely, which he was of course! AIBU to feel a bit annoyed and let down but also like I’m being really ungrateful? He’s a lovely lovely person but not always the greatest with presents!