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A&E or wait for GP – 16mo poorly

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vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 18:43

Hi all,

Looking for some quick advice – not sure if I should take DS (16mo) to A&E tonight or wait for the GP tomorrow. He’s had a high temp (39.5°C) since this afternoon, calpol brought it down a bit but it’s creeping back up. He’s also very clingy and not himself, whimpering a lot. No rash, breathing seems OK, but he’s refusing fluids and only had a couple of wet nappies today.

Would you wait it out or go in? I don’t want to overreact but also don’t want to leave it too long if he needs help.

TIA x

OP posts:
thehonscupboard · 03/03/2025 19:49

Alternate calpol/nurofen every three hours. GP appointment asap in morning so they can check what cause is.

thehonscupboard · 03/03/2025 19:48

Had similar. 111 advised to go to A&E but think this was over cautious as never actually got admitted, was handed rehydration sachet and syringe in waiting room, advised to give 10ml every 10 mins. Sent home once had a wet nappy, Syringing water into DC much easier at home than crowded A&E waiting room.

PurpleSpottedLeopard · 03/03/2025 19:47

I’d definitely give 111 a call OP. We’ve always been lucky in that they’ve called back quickly and the responses have varied from a video call with a doctor, an appointment made with our own GP and an appointment at A&E booked (which sped up the triage bit as they’d done most of that over the phone). I’ve been really impressed with their responses and they clearly prioritise calls for young children. It’s worth calling them if you’re worried.

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:47

Amethystanddiamonds · 03/03/2025 19:41

Use the Calpol syringe and syringe in 5-10mls of water every 5-10 minutes for the next hour. Sometimes just getting them hydrated makes a huge difference to the fever and improves their symptoms.

That’s a good shout, I’ll try that now. He’s just so out of sorts, it’s worrying to see. Hoping a bit of fluid helps, but if he’s still the same in an hour I think we’ll have to get him seen. Thanks for the advice!

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Donotgogentle · 03/03/2025 19:46

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/fever-in-children/

The nhs advice is here (link above didn’t work for me). But personally I wouldn’t go to A&E with a high temperature unless something else additional was of concern eg, non blanching rash, dehydration, abnormal breathing.

DS1 often had 39/40 temperatures when he was a toddler and it was usually a tonsil/chest infection, often needing antibiotics. I’d call 111 in the first instance as suggested by pp.

Crunchymum · 03/03/2025 19:45

I read this exact thread earlier today (except the OP had already called 111 and had been advised to "monitor")

It disappeared as I was composing my reply.

woowooba · 03/03/2025 19:45

When did you give the nurofen op? If temp still doesn't go down after an hour then I would be going to a&e. Ime nurofen is so much better than calpol for temps

woowooba · 03/03/2025 19:42

Use nurofen for temp

Amethystanddiamonds · 03/03/2025 19:41

Use the Calpol syringe and syringe in 5-10mls of water every 5-10 minutes for the next hour. Sometimes just getting them hydrated makes a huge difference to the fever and improves their symptoms.

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:41

KatieB55 · 03/03/2025 19:31

If not drinking then you can give water from syringe.
Trust your instinct - if you are worried then best to get him checked over.

Good idea re: syringe, I’ll give that a go. He’s just so miserable, which isn’t like him at all. Temp still high even after nurofen. I think I’ll see if 111 can advise, but I am leaning towards getting him checked – just don’t want to waste anyone’s time!

OP posts:
MindatWork · 03/03/2025 19:39

Hi op, just linking the latest nhs guidance on caring for a little one with fever as there’s some outdated advice being shared here: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/fever-in-children/.

I hope your DS is feeling better soon. How soon is the temp coming up after calpol? I prob wouldn’t take a child in if their temp came down with calpol but you can never be too careful. I’d call 111 and see what they suggest - we did this before with DD at 3 and they got us an ooh appointment

crosskeysgreen · 03/03/2025 19:36

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 03/03/2025 19:29

@vitjab1988 you need to get baby's temp down. you do not want a febrile convulsion happening. temp is nearly 40degrees more calpol if within the reasonable time and get yourself with baby to a/e now. take off clothes and try to cool them a bit. do you have a fan/

This is ridiculous

Errors · 03/03/2025 19:34

Also - 111 prioritise call backs for kids under 5

Errors · 03/03/2025 19:34

I second not going to A&E
Also the advice about alternating ibuprofen and calpol (my DS once had a stubborn fever that calpol didn’t do much for but baby nurofen worked wonders)
If the above does not work in bringing down the temp, seek medical advice

Cathmawr · 03/03/2025 19:33

I've had a quick response from 111 whenever I've had to call with my daughter, and offered OOH GP appointments (even at 2am). It does seem to differ based on your area though. I wouldn't go to A&E for a high fever personally, but I would go if there were no wet nappies or any other signs of dehydration. I hope he perks up soon- it's such an awful worry when they're poorly!

whompingwillo · 03/03/2025 19:32

Try sips of water/milk every few minutes, they will likely say to do this in an and e anyway. Also ice lolly as pp said x

KatieB55 · 03/03/2025 19:31

If not drinking then you can give water from syringe.
Trust your instinct - if you are worried then best to get him checked over.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 03/03/2025 19:29

@vitjab1988 you need to get baby's temp down. you do not want a febrile convulsion happening. temp is nearly 40degrees more calpol if within the reasonable time and get yourself with baby to a/e now. take off clothes and try to cool them a bit. do you have a fan/

Okayornot · 03/03/2025 19:28

I wouldn't go to A&E for that. A temperature is normal reaction to being a bit unwell and of itself is not alarming, though of course you should watch him closely.

Do not follow the tepid bath advice or otherwise try to make him cold.

You can alternate paracetamol and ibuprofen if you think he needs it.

Obviously if his behaviour changes and he is screaming a lot, or becomes very sleepy (and it isn't bed time), consider a trip to A and E. In the meantime, if he isn't taking fluids perhaps his throat is sore- try an ice lolly?

Zanatdy · 03/03/2025 19:20

I personally wouldn’t rush to A&E with just a fever, especially if it’s being brought down with calpol. What I did was alternated calpol / nurofen (mine are late teens now so not sure if that advice has changed). I’d have had a lot of A&E trips if went in with a high temp. I would definitely call 111 first, I would have thought this is an out of hrs GP issue, not A&E so I don’t think you’d be wasting your time ringing them. Obviously if symptoms changed whilst waited for a doc to call then i’d go to A&E buf as things stand, I personally don’t think it’s an A&E issue, but obviously i’m just going on what’s written here, and your call. Try syringing in some water if he is refusing to drink water. Hope he’s on the mend soon

Chiaseedz · 03/03/2025 19:18

I'd definitely call 111 and not just wait for GP though - also means if it gets worse you can call back and they'll fast track you a bit I think - if they think you need a&e they'll tell you right away

Chiaseedz · 03/03/2025 19:16

If there's been wet nappies today then it's not dire dehydration so I wouldn't go to a&e. Call 111 if worried, they answer the calls quickly and give advice based on how urgent they think it is. But if you're really worried then just go, they won't mind (I just wouldn't want to be sat in a&e all night, no way you'll get seen quickly as wouldn't be a high priority)

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:06

angelopal · 03/03/2025 18:44

Can you call 111 and get some advice from them.

I was thinking about calling them, but I’ve heard mixed things about how long they take to get back to you. Has anyone had a quick response from 111 recently? Don’t want to sit around waiting if we’re just going to end up in A&E anyway.

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Emelene · 03/03/2025 18:54

I also think 111 as you may get an out of hour GP appointment rather than a very long wait in A and E. I hope he feels better soon x

Ireolu · 03/03/2025 18:54

Call 111, whilst you wait as they may give an OOHs appt try ibuprofen for the temps instead as long as no allergies..tends to work better. Also anything he will have fluids wise very frequent, sips of very dilute squash, ice pops will help.

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