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To be irritated with supermarket staff that guard the carrier bags like rottweilers

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orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 03/03/2025 17:11

Before I start - this is not a debate about whether or not we should be paying for carrier bags, or who's fault it is that we have to pay. I don't care. I will happily pay 30p for a carrier bag.

My issue is this - every time I go into my local Tesco, if I want a bag, I can't just take one from the end of the till or next to the self serve like you used to, I have to flag down a member of staff, ask them guiltily for a bag, which they will either take out of a closely guarded box or unclip from their belts and hand to me. But they won't just hand it to me, they'll hand it to me and say "there's the barcode" and the stand over me making sure I scan it. On a few occasions I've even had them push in front of me at the self-serve and scan it for me.

Why do they treat me, a customer who has been shopping there for over 20 years, and who has spend probably hundreds of thousands of pounds there, like I am going to steal from them? It's insulting and rude.

I've even had them snap "you must have loads of them at home by now" when I ask for one. Like it's any of their business what I buy and what I do with my purchases.

Why do they make us feel this way just for wanting to buy something they have for sale?

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Floatlikeafeather2 · 03/03/2025 17:16

This just doesn't happen in my local Tesco (or in any other supermarket I've been in, come to that) so I'm guessing they must be experiencing high levels of bag theft in your branch, particularly if they're walking around with them attached to their bodies. Desperate measures.

Catza · 03/03/2025 17:14

Clearly there are reasons for them to do it and it's because people do steal them. Unless you expect the staff to recognise you as their VIP customer I am not really sure what the big deal is. If you are not a thief, I don't think you should feel inconvenienced. It is probably far more annoying for them to have to do it for you but they are following orders from the top.

mitogoshigg · 03/03/2025 17:14

People steal them, that's why

Ueya · 03/03/2025 17:12

Why do they treat me, a customer who has been shopping there for over 20 years, and who has spend probably hundreds of thousands of pounds there, like I am going to steal from them? It's insulting and rude.

because lots of people steal them, when you’re asking for one they don’t know your whole supermarket shopping background.