Mum who's 85yo has put a lot of her money in an account with her beneficiaries as account holders alongside her. We can all see it but only she can instruct doing anything with it.
I have an on/off relationship with my mum because her behaviours are judgemental and aggressive.
I'm cooling off at the minute after her behaviour towards me a few weeks ago.
Anyways I changed my phone 5 weeks ago and have been steadily accessing accounts. I added the account today to find it's been emptied.
I messaged the administrator and asked when they planned to let me know. They've seen the message and not replied.
Obvs its my mum who has instructed this - she did tell me she would cut me off, but she's threatened this multiple times to other beneficiaries and never done anything - they have done terrible things to her too, like shouting at her etc
There is a will btw but obvs that can be changed.
The question is, do I breath a sigh of relief that I dont need to put up with her sh1t anymore and move on or do I go find out wtf has happened.
In terms of £ my inheritance when she dies would be about £50 or £60k so not a life changing amount but still nice to have.
WWYD?