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AIBU to want to sell my daughters Barbie dream house?

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Lilacbluewaters · 02/03/2025 13:35

Bought said Barbie dream house two years ago, she has played with it approximately 5-10 times and that is when she has had friends come round. We moved house so now she has a smaller bedroom, there is no where to put this huge thing!! It’s currently in her brothers bedroom, I have spoke to my dd (age 6) and said we should pass it on to another little girl now, I’m sad that she’s only 6 and not interested at all in imaginative play but also can’t force it. (She prefers creative things, Lego, hama beads, slime, arts crafts, being outside on her bike etc) She is refusing to let it go though, but honestly she never touches it!! This whole year so far she has no touched it once😭
what would you do? Am I being really mean to get rid of it?

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Lilacbluewaters · 02/03/2025 23:01

NuffSaidSam · 02/03/2025 14:44

Sure, but it's quite odd to disbelieve the OP when she says there isn't room for it. I assume she knows the layout of her house better than you do.

Thank you, if there was space in her room for it why would it be in her brothers bedroom? 😂

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Lilacbluewaters · 02/03/2025 22:59

Wtafdidido · 02/03/2025 14:19

Sell it and let her have the proceeds to spend on what she is actually interested in. Afterall it was gifted to her so the proceeds are technically hers anyway. Artistic and creative kids often have no interest in pretend play so nurture her creative side as much as you can.

I have told her she could buy Lego with what money she gets for it of course but she still refuse

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Lilacbluewaters · 02/03/2025 22:57

ALovelyShadeofMauve · 02/03/2025 14:15

She is refusing to let it go though, but honestly she never touches it!! This whole year so far she has no touched it once😭

Isn’t the sobbing emoji just a little bit OTT?

I can’t believe her room is too small for it to be in there at all; even if it’s in the bottom of the wardrobe or something. It doesn’t have to be a display piece. And how is her brother’s room big enough for it AND his stuff? In any case, you can’t leave it in there; that’s his space.

Her bedroom is the box room, I say her brothers room but it will actually eventually be for her two brothers. Her bedroom doesn’t even have a wardrobe, it has a single bed and then she has a little strip of flooring next to her bed and she has a dressing table. There is no space for anything else unfortunately as the door is in the way.

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AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 02/03/2025 22:47

My 10yr old still plays with her Barbie Dreamhouse. Didn't get into it until she was about 7 so I think you may regret getting rid of it.
I gave DD the master bedroom due to all her toys!

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 02/03/2025 22:37

Is she isn't bothered, why are you? Sell it. Keep the money till you find her passion

MotherOfCrocodiles · 02/03/2025 22:36

Is it in her brothers room because he has the bigger room?

Anyway I think you shouldn't get rid if she doesn't want to.

Notverygoodatusernames · 02/03/2025 22:33

CowboyJoanna · 02/03/2025 22:32

How is it mean? The kids have LOTS of stuff they didnt always appreciate

Making them get rid of toys as a punishment is horrible.

CowboyJoanna · 02/03/2025 22:32

Notverygoodatusernames · 02/03/2025 15:55

Wow, that’s some mean parenting. You should really rethink this.

How is it mean? The kids have LOTS of stuff they didnt always appreciate

LoveBluey · 02/03/2025 22:15

It's annoying but I think moving it to a communal room (most likely living room) is the only option. Totally get it not fitting in a box room - unless you get rid of her bed or wardrobe. But being in her brothers room is not really an option either and not surprising that she doesn't play with it.

GreenFields07 · 02/03/2025 22:04

Needmorelego · 02/03/2025 21:58

Actually a quick Google does indeed show me you can buy separate furniture and things. All seems to be sold online rather than an actual toy shop like Smyths which is why I didn't realise 🙂
I used to work for Woolies back in the 90s/00s and customers were always asking for furniture and things for Barbie "like we used to get for Sindy" and it just didn't exist then apart from cars. Or at least we never got in in to sell. Maybe more was sold in America?

Yes I know what you mean. It seems to be more widely sold online rather than in actual toy shops. If I buy anything Barbie for DDs dreamhouse id likely get it online, probably Amazon or somewhere like that. I think UK is definitely becoming more Americanised with dolls accessories, so its probably more of a modern day thing trying to keep up with them.

Needmorelego · 02/03/2025 21:58

GreenFields07 · 02/03/2025 20:57

The barbie dream house actually comes with tonnes of accessories. My DDs came with beds, tables, chairs, swimming pool, slides, cups, plants etc. You can also buy wardrobes, cars, animals, clothes, shoes. Its endless!

Actually a quick Google does indeed show me you can buy separate furniture and things. All seems to be sold online rather than an actual toy shop like Smyths which is why I didn't realise 🙂
I used to work for Woolies back in the 90s/00s and customers were always asking for furniture and things for Barbie "like we used to get for Sindy" and it just didn't exist then apart from cars. Or at least we never got in in to sell. Maybe more was sold in America?

Needmorelego · 02/03/2025 21:52

GreenFields07 · 02/03/2025 20:57

The barbie dream house actually comes with tonnes of accessories. My DDs came with beds, tables, chairs, swimming pool, slides, cups, plants etc. You can also buy wardrobes, cars, animals, clothes, shoes. Its endless!

Ah I didn't realise the house came with much.
I never see Barbie furniture and things for sale separately in shops - not in the way you could get Sindy furniture and accessories back in the day.
Barbie clothes and shoes I see - but that's it.

Sunnydays25 · 02/03/2025 21:03

That is enormous, and I can see that it's no so much fun to play with by herself, but great for when her friends come around.

Can you partially dismantle it so it fits in a plastic storage box, to fit somewhere in her room or your home, and reassemble when her friends come round - if you just dismantle the larger parts you could hopefully get it back together in 5 mins.

I can only imagine how excited she was to get it, taking it away, evwn to sell, if she doesn't agree would be so unkind.

GreenFields07 · 02/03/2025 20:57

Needmorelego · 02/03/2025 15:21

@Lilacbluewaters if you do end up keeping it have a look at why she doesn't play with it.
I think a lot of children don't really know what to do with these massive doll houses.
They are pretty much a big plastic nothingness.
Back in the 80s you could buy loads of furniture and things for the Sindy house but you don't seem to be able to buy furniture or accessories for the Barbie houses.
Smaller toy houses like Sylvanian Families, Playmobil and Lego are all about furniture and accessories which means they get more play.
So if she wants to keep it and she likes crafts encourage her to make furniture. Make curtains or something. A wardrobe for her many outfits.
Even paint little miniature art works that Barbie could display.
You can have lots of fun with doll houses - but children often need to be shown how to actually play with one.

The barbie dream house actually comes with tonnes of accessories. My DDs came with beds, tables, chairs, swimming pool, slides, cups, plants etc. You can also buy wardrobes, cars, animals, clothes, shoes. Its endless!

Iwishiwasapolarbear · 02/03/2025 20:55

My daughter is 9 and has had hers for over 2 years now. She doesn’t play with it as much but still does every now and again. I will hopefully be able to sell it before Xmas this year and she will have the money from the sale which usually encourages her to sell things.

maybe she doesn’t play with it because it’s in her brothers room? Could you trial it in the living room and then if she still doesn’t play with it say it’s going to be sold but she can have the money to buy Lego or whatever she prefers instead

GreenFields07 · 02/03/2025 20:51

ALovelyShadeofMauve · 02/03/2025 15:42

I didn’t say she was lying. I said there’s a difference between quite literally no room and not really enough, but it will fit up a corner or in the bottom of a wardrobe.

A barbie dream house is not going to fit at the bottom of a wardrobe!

welshmercury · 02/03/2025 20:50

Reminds me of my mum who just got rid of stuff. I had a Cindy dolls house with a lift and furniture etc. it was immaculate. I had it for one of my earliest Xmas maybe 3 years old. I dusted it and still sort of played with it. Came home from school one day when I was 11 and it was gone. No warning - nothing. Said it had gone to her friend’s little girls

went round to mum friend house and they had drawn on it in felt pen, ripped, dolls had pen on them and hair cuts.

I think it was the beginning of the end of our relationship as I don’t speak to her much now.

a couple of years earlier, she also gave my cat away to a neighbour when we were moving but kept my sisters older cat.

Frazzledfraggle07 · 02/03/2025 20:46

My DD got a large dolls house at around 5, she barely played with it until last year. She's 8 now and plays with it most days. I would store it if you can and bring it back out in a year.

RaveToTheGrave1 · 02/03/2025 20:25

My son begged for months to get a huge Hot Wheels car garage that was nearly £200, the one with the dinosaur elevator thing that grabs the cars, he watched adverts about it, dreamed about it, talked about it constantly and cried when it wasnt there Christmas morning (my husband had recently lost his job and there was no way), finally got it by scrimping after Christmas and he was thrilled. Played with it maybe 10 times over the next couple of years and never for longer than five minutes -_- that thing was bloody huge and took up so much room, I was glad to see the back of it 😂

YourWildAmberSloth · 02/03/2025 17:26

I don't think her brother should be lumbered with it either. If it can physically go into her room, even if she has to climb over it, that's where it should go. Or alternatively and preferably, could it go into the living room or even your bedroom? It just feels a bit mean to have bought her such a huge present and then moved so that she has a bedroom that it won't fit in. Ultimately, it's hers so she should be able to keep it if she wants to.

SushiWarrior · 02/03/2025 16:58

It may be that she circles back to it when a bit older. My dn started getting interested in Barbie’s again at about 8 (after seemingly ‘growing out’ of them a few years earlier) and then was obsessed from 8-10 (and secretly a bit older)

ALovelyShadeofMauve · 02/03/2025 16:45

NuffSaidSam · 02/03/2025 15:50

OP said "We moved house so now she has a smaller bedroom, there is no where to put this huge thing!! It’s currently in her brothers bedroom".

You said "I can’t believe her room is too small for it to be in there at all".

You very much did say that she was wrong. Not lying necessarily, but mistaken about the size of her own house.

She could still move other things elsewhere to make space. There’s got to be a better solution than putting it in her brother’s room.

OSU · 02/03/2025 16:31

If she plays with it when she has friends over it shows it's a toy that is good for paired imaginative play. My 2 nieces constantly play with theirs as they invent family dynamics together then do the make believe. Harder to do on your own (or not nearly as much fun). Do you play with her with it?

ERthree · 02/03/2025 16:25

She doesn't have to suffer being inconvenienced by such a huge toy, take it out of her poor brothers room and squeeze it into hers, she will soon be fed up with no room to move and will be begging you to sell it.

Velmy · 02/03/2025 16:23

She's six. She can't refuse anything.