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Why does everyone need a massive car these days?

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Britishsummertime22 · 02/03/2025 11:22

Tesco this morning. Full of people who don't know how to drive or park their fuck off range rovers.

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TroysMammy · 02/03/2025 13:46

I think I read a while ago that some of these big cars like suv's were categorised as small lorries and you should ensure that your driving licence allows you to drive them.

ItsFineReally · 02/03/2025 13:45

@jamesmaysarse Wells?

ImAChangeling · 02/03/2025 13:45

Massive cars make city streets less safe for other road users. And it’s a myth that you have to drive a massive vehicle to be safe. Like a lot of things, the factors that confer safety for the driver and passengers are complex, and not just about size.

AquaPeer · 02/03/2025 13:42

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 02/03/2025 13:22

I've never leased a car, I've always bought them outright second hand and driven them until they no longer drive. I was surprised to learn how many people have leases, I don't even know how it works. If you can't afford to pay outright for a second hand one is it not better to get a bank loan? Or is it about having a new car?

It’s nothing to do with being able to afford to buy a new one outright. Most new car leases require cash deposits which are well in excess of the cost of a cheap second hand car.

it’s about what people want- what they want to do with their cash and what they get enjoyment out of.

the last lease I was quoted was 10% off the purchase price (a discount not available to cash customers) a interest rate which was the same as any bank loan, and enough extras which meant I may as well have kept the cash in the bank earning 4% for 3 years rather than spent it on a car.

Manasprey · 02/03/2025 13:40

I do not live in a rural area, yet most people here reckon they need one.
The same people who are amazed that I work 17 miles away (gosh, that's a long way to go for work) and would never go off reading in a million years, because they're not big fans of the countryside.

I drive a car similar in size to a polo. It does motorway, lanes, snow, small floods, teenagers and suitcases. What more do I actually need?

BourbonsAreOverated · 02/03/2025 13:39

suburburban · 02/03/2025 13:31

Ime some of the people who drive them do hurtle at you and are often on the wrong side of the road, they seem invincible

Probably trying to turn the heaters up or down on a touchscreen

what’s wrong with a button or dial

smallchange · 02/03/2025 13:38

I live in a city so drive a small car when I don't use public transport or walk. The vast majority of people who own cars round here are the same because you'd drive yourself mad trying to park an SUV and probably end up several streets away.

It makes it much easier to park when the enormocars do it badly leaving a small space which other enormocars can't fit into but I can nip into easily.

One of our local supermarkets has a rooftop carpark built in the 80s so a lot of the spaces are completely inaccessible to modern large cars. I can always find empty spaces there.

I rent a van or a bigger car on the odd occasion I need one.

BourbonsAreOverated · 02/03/2025 13:37

I think part of the issue is years ago you’d have the big car and little car in a household. And you’d use whichever was suitable.
now it’s two massive cars per household.

BourbonsAreOverated · 02/03/2025 13:37

MikeRafone · 02/03/2025 13:19

I don't, have a VW up and we have gone on holiday as a family of 4 in it with 2 pushchairs and luggage for 2 adults and 2 children under 2

Best tardis car out there.

Lifestooshort71 · 02/03/2025 13:36

AquaPeer · 02/03/2025 13:11

I don’t understand why people say this- and can only assume they don’t understand what a car lease is?

a car lease is the default way of buying a new car- paying cash is not only unusual but often more expensive.

why do people look down their nose as if it’s a poor persons choice -who can’t really afford it?

Someone leasing a new range will easily be paying £800 a month. They’re not “all fur coat and new knickers” by any standards. And at the end of their lease they need to buy the car, or carry on paying £800 a month for another one.

absolute nonsense

Well they chose not to buy them for whatever reason (didn't have the readies?) whereas I paid for my car in cash. I was brought up to believe that, apart from a mortgage, never borrow to buy something because nobody can predict their future circumstances. I do accept that that's an old-fashioned view though.

remaininghopeful23 · 02/03/2025 13:35

TheFatCatsWhiskers1 · 02/03/2025 13:16

Not sure what you mean by crumbled but cars are supposed to crumple if you crash to absorb the impact energy. I crashed in a 2000 car which didn't crumple much at all, instead I absorbed the energy and ended up badly injured.

Ah interesting, thanks for letting me know. I didn't know that. I was told by the person who repaired my car that it was an extreme level of damage for what had actually happened. The person ahead braked suddenly as was missing their turn. Bumped into the back of them and my bonnet came off, door came off its hinges, whole front right side of the car crumpled and pushed back on itself. It just wasn't what I expected for something minor.

babasaclover · 02/03/2025 13:35

UpsideDownChairs · 02/03/2025 12:02

I drive a Kuga - so a little bigger than a standard hatch, but not so big as a range rover (I did previously drive a pickup though, so I'm good at parking large vehicles)

I have it because I drive to holidays and needed a decent boot, because having driven the pickup, I like being up a little bit higher, and because I have 2 tween boys who aren't going to be getting any smaller (and neither are their friends) and it has a bit more room than my old golf (and a lot more room than the polo before that)

Also, I watched some crash test videos recently, and when my kids start driving they will not be in little cars like I was at 20 - those things left no-one alive. They'll be in a normal sized car where the passenger compartments stay whole - even if I have to borrow money to make it happen.

100%. Kids safety paramount.

I wouldn't buy anything less than a euro ncap rating of 5. Cannot believe they are allowed to make cars that are a zero and just crumple and crush you to death!

BourbonsAreOverated · 02/03/2025 13:34

QuestionableMouse · 02/03/2025 13:26

Which is why I often have a bonnet above my head in my Fabia hatchback.

rangers are the car of the bell end

not all, but many are driven like complete lunatics

AquaPeer · 02/03/2025 13:32

Sleepington · 02/03/2025 13:23

Who do you think profits financially from a car lease?

What difference does that make? Plenty of people profit from keeping £100k invested for 3 years and using a lease to save money on car ownership.

suburburban · 02/03/2025 13:31

Ime some of the people who drive them do hurtle at you and are often on the wrong side of the road, they seem invincible

MoltenLasagne · 02/03/2025 13:31

I don't want a big car, but we were limited by the need to fit 2 adults and 3 children under 5. With the size of car seats now that meant that very few cars were suitable.

Of course 20 years ago, the babyseat would have been much smaller and 2 of the kids would already have been in booster seats with all the safety issues we are now aware of.

MammaFifi · 02/03/2025 13:30

In the olden days kids car seats were much small or less often used. Now they are much bulkier, so you need more space. Plus dogs and all the gear that goes with them.

vikingnorthutsiresouthutsire · 02/03/2025 13:29

I've got a Skoda Kodiaq, the biggest car I've ever had. I need the space for a mobility scooter and hoist, and have always had estate cars in the past, but this time when I changed my car the choice and availability of estate cars was abysmal, so i had no choice but to look for alternatives. I was told by several car people that there just isn't the demand for estate cars any more, and a few said that it is just a fashion thing - estates aren't fashionable.
I do know how to park my big car though!

DollydaydreamTheThird · 02/03/2025 13:29

This is one of my biggest bugbears OP, especially if they are petrol/diesel. There is absolutely no need for such a big car in the city. Land rovers were designed as working vehicles. Everyone would get everywhere much more quickly if we didn't have to give way all the time. I'm quite aggressive about it and carry on driving. I drive a small car so I'm not the problem here so I'll be damned if I am waiting for them. The main issue really though is if you hit someone in any SUV they are more likely to die because of the height of the vehicle. For that reason alone I will never drive one.

remaininghopeful23 · 02/03/2025 13:29

wherearemypastnames · 02/03/2025 13:09

Roads are safer than ever

Except for cyclists and pedestrians who are more easily killed by the bigger cars

Of course if everyone has a bigger car you would need and even bigger one to be safer than they are .. nasty cycle

Sorry I should say behaviours are getting more dangerous as opposed to roads themselves. I phrased that badly so my apologies.
What I meant was, I drive the same motorway every day and the change in dangerous driving behaviours Ive seen over the last 4 years is outrageous. Evidenced by the number of road deaths. The deaths were car related only, so not cyclists or pedestrians, and are the highest in 5 years. Increasing year on year. I really enjoyed driving in the past but fear it now. That's my experience anyway.

Savemefromwetdog · 02/03/2025 13:27

HelplessSoul · 02/03/2025 13:00

Another week, another flawed anti-SUV rant.

Focus your ire on what the problem is - and that is bad parking.

Even people in crappy small Fiat 500s park like utter twats.

The size of the car is irrelevant. Its about the competency (or lack thereof) of the drivers.

The worst driving I see is Fiat 500 drivers, not SUV drivers.

Crushed23 · 02/03/2025 13:26

I'm dating a guy who drives what can only be described as a 'monster truck'. I struggle to climb into it it's that big. Absolutely no need for one - single, no kids, only drives it to work and university.

Some people just like big cars.

QuestionableMouse · 02/03/2025 13:26

Amuseaboosh · 02/03/2025 12:18

8 seater Landrover Defender here.

It's precisely because it's a big 'fuck off' car that I drive it.

Can't ever imagine myself being so invested in what total strangers drive to get irate about it - strange and sad.

Which is why I often have a bonnet above my head in my Fabia hatchback.

Why does everyone need a massive car these days?
user1492757084 · 02/03/2025 13:26

I've seen some larger cars being used as homes!
I've seen them parked with people sleeping in them.
That is the state of the housing market, obviously.

24CRZZNKKA · 02/03/2025 13:25

Oh you'd love me, I have a massive van.

But I have 3 kids and 4 large dogs who are pretty much taken everywhere with us.