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Why does everyone need a massive car these days?

289 replies

Britishsummertime22 · 02/03/2025 11:22

Tesco this morning. Full of people who don't know how to drive or park their fuck off range rovers.

OP posts:
jamesmaysarse · 02/03/2025 14:07

I think people are confusing car leasing and finance. Lease is like a long term hire car, finance is like a mortgage so you own the car.

WobblyBoots · 02/03/2025 14:06

I have a larger car than I would like. We had to get rid of our Ford Focus when we had a third baby. Very limited choice of cars that have thee isofix seats in the back, so it's safety.

For those harking back about small cars, yes back in the day you did for families of five in a small car. But none of them were in car seats!

Mrsbloggz · 02/03/2025 14:06

Because (due to lack of walking) they are too fat to prise themselves into and out of a small vehicle

happytobemrsg · 02/03/2025 14:03

We have 3 kids & at one point 2 had car seats so didn’t really have a choice. The problem is, once you’ve had 7 seats it’s very hard to go back to 5!

SockFluffInTheBath · 02/03/2025 14:03

I’ve got a big car. 4 of us and I’m the smallest at 5’10”, DH has nerve damage in his neck so can’t tilt it too much to get in, 2 big dogs. I could probably manage with a smaller car but it wouldn’t be as comfortable or useful. Our other car is a mini and is used when we don’t need the big car. I can actually drive my car though, unlike a lot of what I see. If it makes a difference to the MN jury (as if I care) it’s 12 years old, bought and paid for. I can take it anywhere (yes 4x4, spit. Live rurally, spit) and not worry about it being scraped or nicked.

Sleepington · 02/03/2025 14:02

Fiverfiver · 02/03/2025 14:00

But if you buy a car outright you’re unlikely to have equity in it at the end either, if you run it into the ground? And if you didn’t, then you need to save up again to buy a new car. So what’s the problem with leasing? Whichever way, you lose money on a car.

Which is why you buy an affordable car and not a big car you can’t afford unless you take out a lease agreement.

It’s basic maths.

JudgeJ · 02/03/2025 14:02

NewmummyJ · 02/03/2025 12:40

Status symbol. Was judged by someone in my NCT group by the car I drove. Ironically we're probably the wealthiest. Many will be paying a huge monthly payment for a depreciating asset to look rich.

Ditto with me, my VW is 17 years old, it gets me from A to B and I have no fear of it being nicked!

Fiverfiver · 02/03/2025 14:00

Sleepington · 02/03/2025 13:58

AquaPeer

You’d be far better off buying a car you can afford.

Your argument with comparing a leased car to a mortgage is fundamentally flawed. House values appreciate, cars do the opposite.

Houses are long term investments of twenty plus years.. Cars aren’t.
You won’t own a car with equity at the end, you will own the house.

Leases benefit the dealership not the leaseholder.

But if you buy a car outright you’re unlikely to have equity in it at the end either, if you run it into the ground? And if you didn’t, then you need to save up again to buy a new car. So what’s the problem with leasing? Whichever way, you lose money on a car.

JudgeJ · 02/03/2025 13:59

Comedycook · 02/03/2025 13:03

Because the UK is pathetically obsessed with social class and most of the sheep are absolutely desperate for other people to think they're rich and successful. It's embarrassing

Because no other country on earth obsesses about class, according to those with little experience of other countries. Sorry to disappoint you but they do, one of the worst I've experienced was India where our tour guide didn't even know the name of our driver because of his, the driver's, lower status, even though they'd worked together most of the year for the last 5 years!

JackieGoodman · 02/03/2025 13:59

@Ginmonkeyagain a few times every winter DH has been the only person to get to work due to having a (good) 4x4 (and takes a tow rope to help anyone he meets stuck on the way)

Although appreciate some small cars are v good in snow (edited to add this)

Sleepington · 02/03/2025 13:58

AquaPeer

You’d be far better off buying a car you can afford.

Your argument with comparing a leased car to a mortgage is fundamentally flawed. House values appreciate, cars do the opposite.

Houses are long term investments of twenty plus years.. Cars aren’t.
You won’t own a car with equity at the end, you will own the house.

Leases benefit the dealership not the leaseholder.

0ohLarLar · 02/03/2025 13:57

Also the manufacturers are part of the problem as they are making wider and wider chassis that most people don't actually want.

Many modern cars are wider than older ones but actually the interior is no more spacious. Its poor design.

JackieGoodman · 02/03/2025 13:57

DH and I have one each Grin
We live rurally and have dogs.
And we can park them no probs. Also v good reversing camera so I have no worries about any small children standing behind that I cant see.

Ginmonkeyagain · 02/03/2025 13:57

I love that "living rurally" is given as an excuse. I grew up rurally (farmjng fanily) and our family road car was a Volkswagon Golf 😆

Obviously we had tractors and a old school tarp top landrover for your actual real farming.

DarkAndConfusingTimes · 02/03/2025 13:57

I’ve got three kids so I need a big boot for the buggy. Also have a dog.

I’ve gone for a xc90 as shock horror, I ‘want to feel safe’. Can you explain what’s so wrong with that? I’m transporting the three most important things to me and I want to ensure they are safe in a collision, and that I’m driving something reliable. I can afford it so what’s the issue?

0ohLarLar · 02/03/2025 13:55

Not a range rover, a Japanese brand cross-over (not a premium brand, so not bought for prestige/fashion). DH is 6ft 3 and likes the height. We also go camping twice a year on holiday with the kids and the car is packed full.

This said, I hate it. I want a very small, turn on a sixpence, park it on a postage stamp car. We have a 20 year old second car which is nearing the scrap heap and I want to replace that with a little local runaround.

Phineyj · 02/03/2025 13:52

You could be the best parker in the world but if the roads and parking spaces are too narrow (which they are in many places), you'll still end up being somewhat antisocial.

When I retrieve my 2015 Polo it's quite often vanished into a canyon of metal!

RanchRat · 02/03/2025 13:52

Nine small children can stand behind an SUV and still not be visible to the driver.
Selfish, dangerous and polluting.

JudgeJ · 02/03/2025 13:51

Britishsummertime22 · 02/03/2025 11:22

Tesco this morning. Full of people who don't know how to drive or park their fuck off range rovers.

Watching idiots try and park the car they've chosen but can't control is one of life's free pleasures! A couple of years agi I actually heard someone yelling at another driver, asking her/him to move because she needed more room to reverse, even though the other driver was parked perfectly properly in their bay.

jamesmaysarse · 02/03/2025 13:50

@ItsFineReally Right county, Reepham!

bluebalou · 02/03/2025 13:50

Can't that should definitely say.

bluebalou · 02/03/2025 13:50

Amuseaboosh · 02/03/2025 12:18

8 seater Landrover Defender here.

It's precisely because it's a big 'fuck off' car that I drive it.

Can't ever imagine myself being so invested in what total strangers drive to get irate about it - strange and sad.

No one cares it's just that lots of you can drive them 😂 have what you like.

Octavia64 · 02/03/2025 13:49

I use a wheelchair and so does my DD.

Two wheelchairs go in the back of my Volvo xc90 quite easily.

I would actually like to buy a smaller car but I don't think there are many that take two wheelchairs in the boot.

If anyone has any suggestions I'd be grateful.

(I do have motability funding)

bluebalou · 02/03/2025 13:48

And why do they feel the need to drive down the middle of the road ?? If you've got one stick to your side of the road or learn to drive properly as us with normal size cars don't want to have to keep mounting the kerb cause you can't drive them.

LightLettuce · 02/03/2025 13:48

The height of SUV isn't an issue, I assume, when travelling down country lanes its the width. Therefore, does that mean you're a idiot if you own a Polestar 4 for example, as they are as wide as some SUVs